If I was in a relationship.........

[Tiamat]

The things I might do different than the usual 99%.

1. I put ME first. I think my survival and well being is 1st. She comes a close second.
2. I will treat her like a paladin would; with care.
3. I wuld state that she IS wrong when needed; I am NOT a Yes-Man.
4. I will complement her everyday with a different more poetic compliment like "My soul flies through the galactic cosmos when im with you". Yep. I never quite run out of good things to say.

5. I would say my HONEST opinion when it comes to the classique 'does this dress make me look fat' and I will quickly cast Spell Trap and Damage Reduction following that statment.

[Sir Goulum]

Yea. Mee too. Other wise it would be like suicide. [img]graemlins/beheaded.gif[/img] for you.

[khazadman]

1. I put ME first. I think my survival and well being is 1st. She comes a close second.

no,she should come first.and when you have kids they come first then her,then you.

5. I would say my HONEST opinion when it comes to the classique 'does this dress make me look fat' and I will quickly cast Spell Trap and Damage Reduction following that statment.

wrong!thay have a chain contingency up for just this question.you wouldn't have time to get a spell off before she is handing you your own head.and hope it's the one on your shoulders.

[Cloudbringer]

Originally posted by khazadman: quote: 1. I put ME first. I think my survival and well being is 1st. She comes a close second.

no,she should come first.and when you have kids they come first then her,then you.

5. I would say my HONEST opinion when it comes to the classique 'does this dress make me look fat' and I will quickly cast Spell Trap and Damage Reduction following that statment.

wrong!thay have a chain contingency up for just this question.you wouldn't have time to get a spell off before she is handing you your own head.and hope it's the one on your shoulders.[/QUOTE]ROTFL! And soooooooo true!

[Tiamat]

If you are dying in an alley, but your girl is wearing a ruby necklace that you spent your last dollar on....... and you are slowly becoming a part of Oblivion............... you have wished that you had actually fed yourself and paid your car debts and your mortegage... I dont understand the logic behind 'putting her first' after all your NOT immortal and you are always full........ dear god.

[Talthyr Malkaviel]

Tiamat, you're forgetting that a relationship like this is a two way thing, you should put them first, just as you'd hope they put you first.
I don't mean totally, everyone's got to look after themselves, but a relationship wouldn't work one bit if both were only thinking of their own concerns.
Anyway, everyone knows the easiest way out of the do I look fat in this comment is 'Melf's Incoherent Grunt' followed by an 'Abi-Dalzim's you look lovely.'

[ 04-20-2002, 10:02 AM: Message edited by: Talthyr Malkaviel ]

[Epona]

Originally posted by Tiamat: If you are dying in an alley, but your girl is wearing a ruby necklace that you spent your last dollar on....... and you are slowly becoming a part of Oblivion............... you have wished that you had actually fed yourself and paid your car debts and your mortegage... I dont understand the logic behind 'putting her first' after all your NOT immortal and you are always full........ dear god.

Good grief, it's not about ruby necklaces or money Tiamat - for the sake of womankind I hope you grow up soon [img]graemlins/saywhat.gif[/img]

[Talthyr Malkaviel]

Originally posted by Tiamat: If you are dying in an alley, but your girl is wearing a ruby necklace that you spent your last dollar on....... and you are slowly becoming a part of Oblivion............... you have wished that you had actually fed yourself and paid your car debts and your mortegage... I dont understand the logic behind 'putting her first' after all your NOT immortal and you are always full........ dear god.

Yes, but if you were in extremem poverty you wouldn't buy them a ruby necklace, and most people would understand that if you aren't very well off.
Anyway, putting them first doesn't mean buying them tons of gifts until you are poor, that's spoiling them and ruining your self.

[Tiamat]

I know Im new to them, but I would strive to make treat them like a queen, but a woman shouldnt expect to be treated like one...... sure the guys got be chivalrous, but come on! When God made me (I believe) I was given a sort of semi advanced thinking pattern so that I would sorta see how the rest of the planes works...... but bak to topik...... I wuld get her flowers on valentines day and such......

[Galadria]

Originally posted by Epona: Good grief, it's not about ruby necklaces or money Tiamat - for the sake of womankind I hope you grow up soon [img]graemlins/saywhat.gif[/img]

Epona, I don't think that it's gonna happen very soon. Tiamat, your thread is so full of unrealistic scenarios and mistaken ideas about women that it gives me a headache. Spend some time talking to real women and you can rid yourself of your unrealistic expectations.