A long story...I need an opinion please - Page 3

Salinye · 04-11-2005, 08:27 PM

I stumbled onto this thread too late to offer any mind shattering advice. However, I have to say that the best thing in the end is always to be honest and not play games.

You were up front with Black and if he chooses to be weird to you, you can't really do much about that. The thing you can do is always be the same way you always have been. If you let how people feel about your choices dictate what they will be, you'll never find time to live life for yourself.

Furthermore, we girl's much prefer a guy asking us out then to go through the process of asking someone else if we like them first. I say go for it. You're already friends, worst thing that could happen would be for you guys to go out and for it to be painfully obvious that she only thinks of you as a friend. :0)

So there you have it. In my opinion you never had to choose between friend and girl in this situation. If your friend starts to cold shoulder you, chances are it will be temporary while his pride is wounded.

Also, for the record, in my mind it's all up to teh girl to choose in the end and you have little say over it! *grins*

Good luck!

~Salinye

Northraven · 04-12-2005, 02:31 AM

Way to go Sig [img]smile.gif[/img] I guess if it all works out really well you won't be posting to the board on a regular basis anymore [img]graemlins/docheart.gif[/img] Wishing you two happiness.

Calaethis Dragonsbane · 04-12-2005, 03:05 AM

Congrats! I hope it lasts [img]smile.gif[/img]

Link · 04-12-2005, 07:47 AM

And they all lived happily ever after in a nice house by the ocean, a big BMW in the garage and two labrador retrievers.

Luvian · 04-12-2005, 08:11 AM

Nice, I'm happy it worked out well for you. [img]smile.gif[/img]

RevRuby · 04-12-2005, 09:11 AM

yay for you sigmar!!!! this whole thread had me in suspense, a love story as told on IW gen con, lol

04-11-2005, 08:27 PM	#21
Salinye Manshoon Join Date: March 22, 2005 Location: Washington State Age: 50 Posts: 153	I stumbled onto this thread too late to offer any mind shattering advice. However, I have to say that the best thing in the end is always to be honest and not play games. You were up front with Black and if he chooses to be weird to you, you can't really do much about that. The thing you can do is always be the same way you always have been. If you let how people feel about your choices dictate what they will be, you'll never find time to live life for yourself. Furthermore, we girl's much prefer a guy asking us out then to go through the process of asking someone else if we like them first. I say go for it. You're already friends, worst thing that could happen would be for you guys to go out and for it to be painfully obvious that she only thinks of you as a friend. :0) So there you have it. In my opinion you never had to choose between friend and girl in this situation. If your friend starts to cold shoulder you, chances are it will be temporary while his pride is wounded. Also, for the record, in my mind it's all up to teh girl to choose in the end and you have little say over it! grins Good luck! ~Salinye __________________ [img]\"http://home.comcast.net/~sunshineburritos/Salinyesigsmallest.jpg\" alt=\" - \" />

04-12-2005, 02:31 AM	#22
Northraven Manshoon Join Date: July 13, 2001 Location: Currently a land called Weyrth... Age: 46 Posts: 195	Way to go Sig [img]smile.gif[/img] I guess if it all works out really well you won't be posting to the board on a regular basis anymore [img]graemlins/docheart.gif[/img] Wishing you two happiness. __________________ \"Before the world was bent but after the great contagion, there was a civilization built in the image of the First Age. It sought to emulate the splendor of the bygone Golden Age, but it was in all ways less. It was a time of sorcery and heroism, of fabulous wonders and treacherous betrayals. Ruled by a decadent empire, it slipped inch by inch into barbarism and darkness, until one last cataclysm blotted it out forever. Yet, in it\'s sunset, it was a splendid thing, and glorious were the deeds of the Exalted.\"<br /><br />[url]\"http://www.sloganizer.net/en/\" target=\"_blank\"> [img]\"http://www.sloganizer.net/en/style7,Severed-spc-Fist.png\" alt=\" - \" /></a>

04-12-2005, 07:47 AM	#24
Link Jack Burton Join Date: May 15, 2001 Location: The Netherlands Age: 40 Posts: 5,888	And they all lived happily ever after in a nice house by the ocean, a big BMW in the garage and two labrador retrievers. __________________ Rowing is not a sport, it's a way of life Goal: Beijing 2008

04-12-2005, 09:11 AM	#26
RevRuby Fzoul Chembryl Join Date: July 11, 2002 Location: Limbo Age: 45 Posts: 1,720	yay for you sigmar!!!! this whole thread had me in suspense, a love story as told on IW gen con, lol __________________ peek-a-boo

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04-12-2005, 03:05 AM	#23
Calaethis Dragonsbane Legion Symbol Join Date: May 29, 2002 Location: Somewhere in between Age: 40 Posts: 7,029	Congrats! I hope it lasts [img]smile.gif[/img]

04-12-2005, 08:11 AM	#25
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