Some People Have The Worst Families!

[Lord of Alcohol]

My family is pretty much dysfunctional, but we sorta get along. As long as we're not all in the smae state.

Edit-Moni I wasnt suggesting I was mad at you or you at me-just a bad day

Downunda-Thanks for saying something, your a good guy

[ 04-23-2002, 10:53 PM: Message edited by: Lord of Alcohol ]

[Encard]

I hope you don't end up having to deal with this again... hmm... if you ever let those backstabbing, gossiping, just downright evil people into your life again, then I shall have to poke thee repeatedly with my Paper Dagger of Death +90. Or maybe just with my finger. [img]smile.gif[/img] Happy happyness to you, Moni! [img]smile.gif[/img] [img]smile.gif[/img] [img]smile.gif[/img] [img]smile.gif[/img]

[SSJ4Sephiroth]

Originally posted by Moni: Who needs a mother's love when it is built on hating other people?

That's so true. Is love really worth alienating other people and spreading hate? I don't think that you can exchange one for the other. Good to hear you found a group of kindred spirits to share your life with, there's no need for anyone to have to endure what your family must do for their whole life.

Originally posted by Downunda: It sounds to me like you handled the problem as best you could Moni, and I'm sure that your sister must know what your mother is like (even if she doesn't want to admit it) so she'll come round... it's times like this that remind me of the saying "she'll be right mate" and I'm sure she will be. [img]smile.gif[/img]

Thanks Downunda. [img]smile.gif[/img]
I know my sister knows and I know she'll come around....its a cycle that I have just had enough of. They are going to try to make me feel bad for making her feel bad and expect me to do all the apologizing to make everything better because as far as they see it, they never did anything wrong.
They need a new game.
My mother's ultimate goal is to make me hate. She never learns its not going to happen so her second strategy is to make me hurt...well she can't hurt me either so then she has one of my siblings do it for her in return for her adoration. Its sick. Its old. Game Over. We all lose.

Ladyzekke & LoA,
HUGS to you both and thank you for letting me know I am not all alone out here. Its a shame we all can't be part of the ideal family where love and respect matters. I love you both and I hope you believe that...I know we've had our rough spots but we've had far more fun I think and I hope that all the good we can share together can continue for a long time to come.
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P.S. LoA,
We all live in separate states! That is one of the biggest kickers to the whole Let's mess with Moni game...you can't get away from them! A friend I thought I could trust gave them my (main) e-mail addie and phone number! Thank goodness they don't call lol and that I have managed to keep where I live a secret or they'd be on my doorstep with this crap!

[ 04-23-2002, 11:39 PM: Message edited by: Moni ]

Originally posted by Encard: I hope you don't end up having to deal with this again... hmm... if you ever let those backstabbing, gossiping, just downright evil people into your life again, then I shall have to poke thee repeatedly with my Paper Dagger of Death +90. Or maybe just with my finger. [img]smile.gif[/img] Happy happyness to you, Moni! [img]smile.gif[/img] [img]smile.gif[/img] [img]smile.gif[/img] [img]smile.gif[/img]

Thank you and thank you for adding to my list!
That one ought to look great in a bloody font, done up in BLOOD RED don't you think?! [img]graemlins/thumbsup.gif[/img]

[RudeDawg]

Moni...

I'm always so sorry to hear about this. PLEASE don't let it upset you, I'm still thinking about your heart... [img]smile.gif[/img]

My mother always said: "Good friends are the family you CHOOSE..."

So, I am GLAD that you and I (and all of IronWorks) will always be family.

Jo and I want to come down and meet with you. I'm looking forward to it!

Email me your phone # ( rudedawg@earthlink.net ), and I'll call you to make plans.

Thank you Rudy [img]smile.gif[/img]
Yeah, my heart has been giving me trouble all day...the last thing I needed was to have to hurt my sister's feelings and know what a ruckus it is going to cause with her, my mom, and the other siblings on the (game) board. I wanted to cry about it when I did convince myself to send her the truth...to not answer would only prolong the agony for all of us but so does playing along. I can't though. I know its my mom's game and some sacrifices are going to have to be made if I am going to be rid of it. I love my sister and I can easily be drawn into keeping her in my life...but then there are those days like today when I haven't heard from her for months and she makes an appearance through an e-mail with absolutely ridiculous excuses why she hasn't been in touch with me that are contradicted by everything else she has to say about what is going on in her life and then she says she cares so much while she's doing mom's dirty work.
*sigh* This is when I feel like all the caring she ever pretends to have is just that...pretend. That or she is as nuts as my dad and aunt said she is and I'm dealing with a person who has a multi-personality disorder. Either way, my health is not up to it, I've been through it enough times to know it will only get worse if I don't stop it now. I'm not going to cry...she's got her *cough* family to make her feel better and I know from experience that I feel better when they all just stay away from me.

Hey, you need to add to my list of horrible threats LOL

P.S. I just wanted to add that I am very happy to be part of IW's family. This place rocks.

[ 04-24-2002, 12:28 AM: Message edited by: Moni ]

[Aelia Jusa]

Families can be bitches huh? My grandmother treated, and still treats my mum like dirt. She's reasonably mean to one of mum's sisters as well, but the other two are her favourites. The other day she called mum because she thought her youngest daughter might be at our house - she didn't even pretend she was calling to talk to mum . And even though she's used to it, and expects it, it still hurts her after 50 years. It makes you wonder what you've done wrong, and whether you're a horrible person or something, why your own mother doesn't love you.

I hope it doesn't make you too sad, Moni [img]smile.gif[/img] . Hmm, how about if I threaten to take Sugar home with me if you let them upset you again?

[Megabot]

I am glad my mom love me and i have no problems with the family so i am sorry Moni abouth your problems with your mom i think you have to get on a hollyday weekend som where and cool it down i think of your heart problem take some time off and enjoy the life by your self because the life is SO nice!
Maby i have a little problem here with the family they are angry on me because i dident want to go to my ant`s 80 year`s celebration party
because i had some problems here by my ovn this day and they call and send me letter to say i am an bad guy because i didn`t show up in this party....but what the ■■■■ (sorry about that one) when i dont feel to go why must they react like this?? And my ant call my on an late eavning and say she hated my because i dont show up and crying in the phone and say i am onlo 80 year one time so i could go to here party because of that.. i feel So bad about my self not to go when she is crying that bad... !
I should writing some more but i cant say what i meen so good in english sorry!

[ 04-24-2002, 12:51 AM: Message edited by: Megabot ]