Its no wonder I call myself the LastTruePrincess lol...my family reigns when it comes to dysfunctionality! (Is that even a word lol?)

They say people estranged from their familes usually have emotional/mental problems but I swear! 40 years of trying to be anything resembling a family with the people I am related by blood to has been proven time and time again not just to be vain but also completely stupid. I'll end up a basket case if I keep trying.

Someone kick me in the ass and threaten me with something horrible if I ever allow those backstabbing, gossiping, just downright evil people into my life again!

ummmm ok... trying to think of something horrible to threaten Moni with! :D ...How about, if you ever let those backstabbing, gossiping, just downright evil people into your life again then you will never be allowed back to IW ;) j/k

Sounds like you're not too happy? I know that my family pisses me off from time to time but it doesn't sound anywhere near as bad as yours. - no offense intended [img]smile.gif[/img]

[ 04-23-2002, 10:07 PM: Message edited by: Downunda ]

Two words Moni-Assault rifle. Kill them. They must die. Go ahead and shoot me too fuckit

Whats wrong dude? :( - you're not usually like this! sounds like you need an ice cold beer, some nachoes, dip and a good movie on the box.

Sounds like your family upset you again. Don't worry, if you start softening toward them again we'll remind you about this and how much you hate them for your own good. [img]smile.gif[/img] My family's not that screwed up, but they do the same things pretty much, so I can relate to you on some things. How about this: if you think about letting them back into your life, we'll threaten to send you back to your mom's house? ;)

Downunda,
No offense taken! Seriously...they are tops!
If I tried to take time to type it all out, we'd all get old waiting on me to be finished!

I am a little upset right now...my evil mother played on my evil but emotionally fragile sister to get to me...well I had to answer to the evil but emotionally fragile sister and tell her that our mother sux and she knows it...that I don't play those games and I don't want to be involved in them anymore, I am just not in the best health right now and I've NEVER been in the mood!

I hurt her feelings I am sure. :( But from the questions she was asking me (stuff only me and my mom have talked about recently) and the remarks she made about her and my mom having talked earlier, I was able to see our mom's manipulation in her e-mail to me...(Mom e-mailed me last week and I was nice to her even though she had intended to hurt me with the things she said).
If my mom wants info she can call me directly for it. Will she? No.
Do I care? No, I've known the woman long enough to have learned how to let her evil fly by's leave me unharmed and unscarred, but now she brought in my sister and my sister plays her game when she gets something out of it...mommy's love. Who needs a mother's love when it is built on hating other people?

Hurting me right now is the prize up for grabs but killing me through an e-mail of all things just ain't gonna happen so I told her "I Love You and I hate to feel like I need to sever my ties with you, but I never hear from you and now that I do, it is because mom sent you to drill me for info. It makes me feel like sh*t and I'd rather not be exposed to such heartache, I am in bad enough shape as it is."

Which I am...I don't need it I never did and I never will.

I just feel bad for my sister now because she is (pardon me for saying it) stupid enough to take it all personally and damn our mom, she'll make my sister feel even worse about herself and me when the two of them talk again.
I don't even want to answer their e-mails anymore. I am not going to sugar coat the truth and pretend everything is OK when it will never be.

LOL This is a good one! ;)

Seriously, I am going to print out all the great replies in a pretty and colorful font and hang them on my wall as a reminder. :D

I have a wonderful family here in Texas who have adopted me as one of their own...they are good people...people of my own heart...I am happy where I am and without my "relatives" chiming in once or twice a year to cause me misery. I can't let it go on any longer.

Argh edited for typos and to add things left unsaid that left this post as unclear as it still is lol

[ 04-23-2002, 11:46 PM: Message edited by: Moni ]

Damn man that's harsh!!!! LMAO Cody! Oh crap! It still hurts to laugh! Oh My!! Ow!

I think I'll put that one at the TOP of the list!!!

I don't hate them, I'll never be able to hate them and not because they are family because "family" don't mean squat to any of them...I love them because they are...the same way I love people I don't know.
(But I do know these people and I feel sorry for them. They are lost in self serving hate and greed. How much worse off could they be without being murderers and rapists?)

I don't get along much with my family either, so don't feel alone. My parents told me a few years ago they were "sorry" they shouldn't have "had a child" weren't "parent material". But they found religion and learned it's not how you feel, but how you act. :rolleyes:

Gee thanks.

Blood may be thicker than water? But it's not thicker than love. Stick with those in your life who truly care, and don't worry about those who don't, no matter the relation, tis what I say anyway. [img]smile.gif[/img]

It sounds to me like you handled the problem as best you could Moni, and I'm sure that your sister must know what your mother is like (even if she doesn't want to admit it) so she'll come round...
it's times like this that remind me of the saying "she'll be right mate" ;) and I'm sure she will be. [img]smile.gif[/img]

I gave that idea serious consideration between the ages of 15 and 17.
I decided they aren't worth it.
Neither are you. ;) [img]tongue.gif[/img]
Besides we need you here to be our resident drunk and smart-ass.

Seriously though, are you OK?
*hugs*
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