What's the hardest thing you've had to tell someone?

[Iron_Ranger]

[QUOTE]Originally posted by Attalus:
[QB]Hah, you kids.

Exacely, we are just that, kids, so we really havnt had time to come across much harder things then what we posted. [img]smile.gif[/img]

[Fayree]

that's easy..it's a simple two-letter word: NO

LOL
I'm not saying i don't use it..but I find it hard sometimes

[Night Stalker]

Originally posted by Jerome: The most difficult thing I've had to tell anyone is that I love them. [img]smile.gif[/img] Though the homework one from Kaltia brings up some unpleasent memories too.

"I love you" is very hard esp if your not sure of the return "Love you too"

But, "I don't love you anymore, goodbye." is worse. You can't say it without feeling like an a$$h*le, and the only other alternative is to disapear and not return calls. Then you are an a$$h*le.

[Lord of Alcohol]

Originally posted by Redblueflare: Or *ask* someone. [img]tongue.gif[/img] Simple enough question what's the most difficult thing you've had to tell someone. I forget what it was for me but I remember my friend responding with "Sarcastic bast**rd...." But we understood each other you see. [img]smile.gif[/img]

Its ok Red, you can tell us your gay [img]tongue.gif[/img]

Sober again LoA? [img]tongue.gif[/img]

The hardest thing I ever had to tell anyone...wow, there are a couple of instances where I wished I didn't have to speak up...too hard to even repeat here!

[Lord of Alcohol]

Originally posted by Attalus: Hah, you kids. I have, at numerous times, had to tell families that their loved one had passed on. Worst, I think, was a 13-year old boy who had found a sawed-off shotgun and was arguing about it with his buddies, and in the scuffle, it went off, and he came in DOA. We tried to revive him, but, no soap. I had to tell the mother.

Thats something I dont know if I could do. Tell a mom or dad something like that. Theres nothing easy about being a doctor. Salutes to you, Galadria, and the other 2 doctors on this board that I know of.

[Lord of Alcohol]

Originally posted by Moni: Sober again LoA? [img]tongue.gif[/img] The hardest thing I ever had to tell anyone...wow, there are a couple of instances where I wished I didn't have to speak up...too hard to even repeat here!

Of course not silly its football sunday! [img]tongue.gif[/img] And lets here it little missus! [img]tongue.gif[/img] Do tell!!!!

Originally posted by Lord of Alcohol: Of course not silly its football sunday! [img]tongue.gif[/img] And lets here it little missus! [img]tongue.gif[/img] Do tell!!!!

*smacks forehead*
Football Sunday! How could I forget?! Oh yeah, I know! I've had the TV on the Discovery Channel or the History Channel all weekend! [img]tongue.gif[/img]

I can't tell LOL....nothing really devastating (well maybe LOL), just more personal than I care to share. [img]smile.gif[/img] I do realize I have shared some pretty personal stuff in the past but there are more kids here now and I can't word the instances without making myself look worse than I am! [img]tongue.gif[/img]

[Redblueflare]

Originally posted by Lord of Alcohol: quote: Originally posted by Moni: Sober again LoA? [img]tongue.gif[/img] The hardest thing I ever had to tell anyone...wow, there are a couple of instances where I wished I didn't have to speak up...too hard to even repeat here!

Of course not silly its football sunday! [img]tongue.gif[/img] And lets here it little missus! [img]tongue.gif[/img] Do tell!!!![/QUOTE]Now I want to hear this too Moni. You can just bleep out all the PG 13 parts. [img]tongue.gif[/img]
No I haven't had to tell anyone that a loved one has died, and hopefully won't have to. I don't know if I could go through with that.

I had to tell my little brother that my first husband had passed away. He took it harder than I did and that tripped me out.

OK I'll tell one of them...I left the above mentioned husband after a little over a year of marriage because he was a chronic liar and an alcoholic.
I walked away with only the clothes on my back, leaving everything I had ever owned (and still had) behind.
I hitch-hiked "home" (300 miles) and stayed at my dad's house while I looked for work. Soon after, I had a one-night-stand with a guy I went to high school with and got pregnant.
My husband (who knew when I left that I wanted a divorce and that I never wanted to see him again) called me about a month later and told me he had held back filing divorce proceedings because he thought after some time away I might have changed my mind (I hadn't) and asked me to try to work things out with him. I had to tell him I was pregnant and that it wasn't his baby. It was hard because I thought it would break his heart. He actually took it very well and was a good friend to me right up to the day he died 15 years later.
Still, with the situation I had put myself in, it was a hard hard thing to have to admit to/say.