I just did a very stupid thing - Page 2

Elif Godson · 11-29-2001, 10:27 AM

Be true to yourself and her, I have seen to many people Lie
about thing's that they have done only to have the truth come
out later. There is nothing worse then being in a relationship and
finding out that most the info she/he gave you was a big fat LIE.
So to drum an old tune "Be yourself"

you will be glad that you
did.
My wife and I have been married/ together for eight year's and she
alway's know's when I'm fudging the truth a little and vise versa,
because we've been honest with eachother from the get go. [img]graemlins/thumbsup.gif[/img]
So good luck to ya, and happy chase.

Sir ReGiN · 11-29-2001, 10:51 AM

quote:
Originally posted by Jorath Calar:
[QB]I mean what is a date else than a job interview that lasts all night (okey it's not a big chance everyone will end up naked at the end of a job interview but other than that.... [img]smile.gif[/img] )
QB]

LOL!
Been watchin Seinfeld, aye

Don't follow any of his advice [img]smile.gif[/img]

My advice is: Try to over-whelm her!
Pick her up in a limo, have 50 roses waitng for her at the place you're gonna be ( a resturant for example), wear a really falshy jacket, an so on!
If you do this, she will have so many impressions that she just have to see you again!
And that is always good

The only risk witht his one, is that she might get disappointed if you don't do something like that again.
But on the second date I suggest you try something romantic..
Like renting a boat (size doesn't matter [img]smile.gif[/img] ) and going for a little romantic ride + dinner at the boat.

And trust me, this works, I've tried it myself

Epona · 11-29-2001, 11:30 AM

quote:
Originally posted by Sir ReGiN:

My advice is: Try to over-whelm her!
Pick her up in a limo, have 50 roses waitng for her at the place you're gonna be ( a resturant for example), wear a really falshy jacket, an so on!

Well I can guarantee that if any bloke did this to me, there would be no 'nekked' EVER, let alone at the end of the evening.
I hate this stuff. I'm not interested in your wallet, a limo, roses, flashy clothes, these things mean nothing. It would make me feel really uncomfortable actually, and I would think that the man in question was trying too hard to impress and it just would strike me as being false.
Good film and a veg curry would go down much better.

Melusine · 11-29-2001, 11:33 AM

quote:
Originally posted by Epona:

Well I can guarantee that if any bloke did this to me, there would be no 'nekked' EVER, let alone at the end of the evening.
I hate this stuff. I'm not interested in your wallet, a limo, roses, flashy clothes, these things mean nothing. It would make me feel really uncomfortable actually, and I would think that the man in question was trying too hard to impress and it just would strike me as being false.
Good film and a veg curry would go down much better.

Hear, hear!!
Why is it that men seem to think they know these things better than females?? [img]graemlins/idontagreeatall.gif[/img] I think there wouldn't be a single woman impressed by that sort of bragging unless she was only after your money [img]tongue.gif[/img]
Really, just don't make such a big deal out of it, I think that in itself is off-putting already. Just be confident and friendly and be yourself!

Sir ReGiN · 11-29-2001, 11:45 AM

quote:
Originally posted by Epona:

Well I can guarantee that if any bloke did this to me, there would be no 'nekked' EVER, let alone at the end of the evening.
I hate this stuff. I'm not interested in your wallet, a limo, roses, flashy clothes, these things mean nothing. It would make me feel really uncomfortable actually, and I would think that the man in question was trying too hard to impress and it just would strike me as being false.
Good film and a veg curry would go down much better.

quote:
Originally posted by Melusine:

Hear, hear!!
Why is it that men seem to think they know these things better than females?? [img]graemlins/idontagreeatall.gif[/img] I think there wouldn't be a single woman impressed by that sort of bragging unless she was only after your money [img]tongue.gif[/img]
Really, just don't make such a big deal out of it, I think that in itself is off-putting already. Just be confident and friendly and be yourself!

Lol..
Guess you both got me there..
To be honest..it actually just worked once, and the other time I tried it, she reacted the same way you did [img]smile.gif[/img]
I just thought he might try it..

DragonMage · 11-29-2001, 11:49 AM

Another woman who just MUST chime in here....

Jorath, smack these guys and listen to the ladies here...

A woman worth being with isn't impressed by flashy cars and roses. We are impressed by honesty. (although a little romance doesn't hurt

). I would rather go for dinner and a walk in a park or along the beach than the 'limo and roses' thing.

If you were to be so flashy - 1. she'll think you 'expect' something in return (which is abominable) and 2. (if she IS impressed by it) she'll expect that all the time (which will ensure you will always be broke).

And Leo - I'm sorry for you, hon. Apparently, you just haven't found the 'right' girl, then, if you feel you can't be who you are....*hugs*

Final warning: No woman likes to be lied to. How would you like to date someone only to find out she'd lied to you about herself? Think about it....

11-29-2001, 11:56 AM

Concentrate on having a good time, rather than impressing her. Make sure you're going to be doing something you and her both like, because you'll find that if you're enjoying yourself, she probably will be too. Don't put on an act, it's pointless, trust me, I've tried it and it doesn't work. Be sweet, considerate, and make sure you both have a laugh together, because it's important that she feels comfortable with you. And put the nekkidness out of your head, it'll only distract you on the night

DragonMage · 11-29-2001, 11:57 AM

quote:
Originally posted by Arledrian:
Concentrate on having a good time, rather than impressing her. Make sure you're going to be doing something you and her both like, because you'll find that if you're enjoying yourself, she probably will be too. Don't put on an act, it's pointless, trust me, I've tried it and it doesn't work. Be sweet, considerate, and make sure you both have a laugh together, because it's important that she feels comfortable with you. And put the nekkidness out of your head, it'll only distract you on the night

I knew there was a reason I liked you!

*HUGS*
Finally, a young man with some sense! [img]tongue.gif[/img]

Epona · 11-29-2001, 11:59 AM

quote:
Originally posted by Sir ReGiN:

Lol..
Guess you both got me there..
To be honest..it actually just worked once, and the other time I tried it, she reacted the same way you did [img]smile.gif[/img]
I just thought he might try it..

Teehee, I knew it, you faker you!! [img]graemlins/biglaugh.gif[/img]

Melusine and DragonMage made some great points. Now if I was taken out for a movie and a veg curry, a single red rose as a romantic gesture might go down OK, as long as there was no cheesy presentation

11-29-2001, 12:13 PM

quote:
Originally posted by DragonMage:

I knew there was a reason I liked you!
*HUGS*
Finally, a young man with some sense! [img]tongue.gif[/img]

Thank you for your kind words. It's nice to be appreciated

11-29-2001, 10:27 AM	#11
Elif Godson Dracolich Join Date: August 28, 2001 Location: Hurricane Valley Age: 51 Posts: 3,089	Be true to yourself and her, I have seen to many people Lie about thing's that they have done only to have the truth come out later. There is nothing worse then being in a relationship and finding out that most the info she/he gave you was a big fat LIE. So to drum an old tune "Be yourself" you will be glad that you did. My wife and I have been married/ together for eight year's and she alway's know's when I'm fudging the truth a little and vise versa, because we've been honest with eachother from the get go. [img]graemlins/thumbsup.gif[/img] So good luck to ya, and happy chase. __________________ Children get Arthritis too! http://awtampa.kintera.org/jaaware

11-29-2001, 10:51 AM	#12
Sir ReGiN Gold Dragon Join Date: August 11, 2001 Location: The land of blonde virgins Age: 42 Posts: 2,563	quote: Originally posted by Jorath Calar: [QB]I mean what is a date else than a job interview that lasts all night (okey it's not a big chance everyone will end up naked at the end of a job interview but other than that.... [img]smile.gif[/img] ) QB] LOL! Been watchin Seinfeld, aye Don't follow any of his advice [img]smile.gif[/img] My advice is: Try to over-whelm her! Pick her up in a limo, have 50 roses waitng for her at the place you're gonna be ( a resturant for example), wear a really falshy jacket, an so on! If you do this, she will have so many impressions that she just have to see you again! And that is always good The only risk witht his one, is that she might get disappointed if you don't do something like that again. But on the second date I suggest you try something romantic.. Like renting a boat (size doesn't matter [img]smile.gif[/img] ) and going for a little romantic ride + dinner at the boat. And trust me, this works, I've tried it myself

11-29-2001, 11:30 AM	#13
Epona Zartan Join Date: March 1, 2001 Location: London, England Age: 53 Posts: 5,164	quote: Originally posted by Sir ReGiN: My advice is: Try to over-whelm her! Pick her up in a limo, have 50 roses waitng for her at the place you're gonna be ( a resturant for example), wear a really falshy jacket, an so on! Well I can guarantee that if any bloke did this to me, there would be no 'nekked' EVER, let alone at the end of the evening. I hate this stuff. I'm not interested in your wallet, a limo, roses, flashy clothes, these things mean nothing. It would make me feel really uncomfortable actually, and I would think that the man in question was trying too hard to impress and it just would strike me as being false. Good film and a veg curry would go down much better. __________________ [img]\"http://www.wizardrealm.com/images/epona.gif\" alt=\" - \" />

11-29-2001, 11:33 AM	#14
Melusine Dracolisk Join Date: January 8, 2001 Location: Amsterdam, The Netherlands Age: 43 Posts: 6,541	quote: Originally posted by Epona: Well I can guarantee that if any bloke did this to me, there would be no 'nekked' EVER, let alone at the end of the evening. I hate this stuff. I'm not interested in your wallet, a limo, roses, flashy clothes, these things mean nothing. It would make me feel really uncomfortable actually, and I would think that the man in question was trying too hard to impress and it just would strike me as being false. Good film and a veg curry would go down much better. Hear, hear!! Why is it that men seem to think they know these things better than females?? [img]graemlins/idontagreeatall.gif[/img] I think there wouldn't be a single woman impressed by that sort of bragging unless she was only after your money [img]tongue.gif[/img] Really, just don't make such a big deal out of it, I think that in itself is off-putting already. Just be confident and friendly and be yourself! __________________ [img]\"hosted/melusine.jpg\" alt=\" - \" /><br />Your voice is ambrosia

11-29-2001, 11:45 AM	#15
Sir ReGiN Gold Dragon Join Date: August 11, 2001 Location: The land of blonde virgins Age: 42 Posts: 2,563	quote: Originally posted by Epona: Well I can guarantee that if any bloke did this to me, there would be no 'nekked' EVER, let alone at the end of the evening. I hate this stuff. I'm not interested in your wallet, a limo, roses, flashy clothes, these things mean nothing. It would make me feel really uncomfortable actually, and I would think that the man in question was trying too hard to impress and it just would strike me as being false. Good film and a veg curry would go down much better. quote: Originally posted by Melusine: Hear, hear!! Why is it that men seem to think they know these things better than females?? [img]graemlins/idontagreeatall.gif[/img] I think there wouldn't be a single woman impressed by that sort of bragging unless she was only after your money [img]tongue.gif[/img] Really, just don't make such a big deal out of it, I think that in itself is off-putting already. Just be confident and friendly and be yourself! Lol.. Guess you both got me there.. To be honest..it actually just worked once, and the other time I tried it, she reacted the same way you did [img]smile.gif[/img] I just thought he might try it..

11-29-2001, 11:49 AM	#16
DragonMage 20th Level Warrior Join Date: September 6, 2001 Location: The lighter side of life, a.k.a. Newnan, Georgia Age: 55 Posts: 2,767	Another woman who just MUST chime in here.... Jorath, smack these guys and listen to the ladies here... A woman worth being with isn't impressed by flashy cars and roses. We are impressed by honesty. (although a little romance doesn't hurt ). I would rather go for dinner and a walk in a park or along the beach than the 'limo and roses' thing. If you were to be so flashy - 1. she'll think you 'expect' something in return (which is abominable) and 2. (if she IS impressed by it) she'll expect that all the time (which will ensure you will always be broke). And Leo - I'm sorry for you, hon. Apparently, you just haven't found the 'right' girl, then, if you feel you can't be who you are....hugs Final warning: No woman likes to be lied to. How would you like to date someone only to find out she'd lied to you about herself? Think about it.... __________________ [img]\"http://home.earthlink.net/~moraine_sedai/_uimages/dragonmage.gif\" alt=\" - \" /> [img]\"ubb/noncgi/smiles/hero2.gif\" alt=\" - \" /> <br />Alureth...Dragon friend of Lady Breanna<br /><br />Co-Owner/Operator of the Evil Petting Zoo and devout member of the HADB clan.<br />Commander of the Dragon Fleet, IW Peacekeeping Force<br />Mother Hen of IW and Mage extraordinaire.<br /><br />Utterly in love with my soul mate, Hiram.

11-29-2001, 11:56 AM	#17
Sorcerer Alex Guest Posts: n/a	Concentrate on having a good time, rather than impressing her. Make sure you're going to be doing something you and her both like, because you'll find that if you're enjoying yourself, she probably will be too. Don't put on an act, it's pointless, trust me, I've tried it and it doesn't work. Be sweet, considerate, and make sure you both have a laugh together, because it's important that she feels comfortable with you. And put the nekkidness out of your head, it'll only distract you on the night

11-29-2001, 11:57 AM	#18
DragonMage 20th Level Warrior Join Date: September 6, 2001 Location: The lighter side of life, a.k.a. Newnan, Georgia Age: 55 Posts: 2,767	quote: Originally posted by Arledrian: Concentrate on having a good time, rather than impressing her. Make sure you're going to be doing something you and her both like, because you'll find that if you're enjoying yourself, she probably will be too. Don't put on an act, it's pointless, trust me, I've tried it and it doesn't work. Be sweet, considerate, and make sure you both have a laugh together, because it's important that she feels comfortable with you. And put the nekkidness out of your head, it'll only distract you on the night I knew there was a reason I liked you! HUGS Finally, a young man with some sense! [img]tongue.gif[/img] __________________ [img]\"http://home.earthlink.net/~moraine_sedai/_uimages/dragonmage.gif\" alt=\" - \" /> [img]\"ubb/noncgi/smiles/hero2.gif\" alt=\" - \" /> <br />Alureth...Dragon friend of Lady Breanna<br /><br />Co-Owner/Operator of the Evil Petting Zoo and devout member of the HADB clan.<br />Commander of the Dragon Fleet, IW Peacekeeping Force<br />Mother Hen of IW and Mage extraordinaire.<br /><br />Utterly in love with my soul mate, Hiram.

11-29-2001, 11:59 AM	#19
Epona Zartan Join Date: March 1, 2001 Location: London, England Age: 53 Posts: 5,164	quote: Originally posted by Sir ReGiN: Lol.. Guess you both got me there.. To be honest..it actually just worked once, and the other time I tried it, she reacted the same way you did [img]smile.gif[/img] I just thought he might try it.. Teehee, I knew it, you faker you!! [img]graemlins/biglaugh.gif[/img] Melusine and DragonMage made some great points. Now if I was taken out for a movie and a veg curry, a single red rose as a romantic gesture might go down OK, as long as there was no cheesy presentation __________________ [img]\"http://www.wizardrealm.com/images/epona.gif\" alt=\" - \" />

11-29-2001, 12:13 PM	#20
Sorcerer Alex Guest Posts: n/a	quote: Originally posted by DragonMage: I knew there was a reason I liked you! HUGS Finally, a young man with some sense! [img]tongue.gif[/img] Thank you for your kind words. It's nice to be appreciated

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