NO NO NO NO NO.... WHY DID SHE DO IT!?!?!? - Page 5

Black Dragon · 11-03-2002, 08:52 AM

Um, okay...?

Tancred · 11-03-2002, 07:24 PM

Just don't overdramatise things, either... yes, the world may seem to be at you and your future dreams of happiness may have been crushed by an unforgivably stupid act on your part. Or, rather, it only seems that way.

Take some of the wiser advice on this topic. Don't become a martyr to your own screw-up.

The Lilarcor · 11-04-2002, 12:22 AM

Well desdicado, for one thing i'm currently 16 and lds/mormon. So ether way I can't drink nor will I.
2. I seem too shy to carry out anything I plan to do and if I do carry them out, they get bungled...
3. Were all of your friends at least 1 inch to over a foot taller than you in High School?
4. I just got a #2 haircut, so it's pretty short... and
5. School is evil, well actually the classes are, for if there was no school, I'd be lounging on my butt all day and probably wouldn't make it anywhere...

Oh, Black Dragon, Come Christmas time, use mistletoe on her! [img]smile.gif[/img]

Bahamut · 11-04-2002, 05:23 AM

[quote]Originally posted by Aelia Jusa:

Quote:

That's all very wise Davros . And I think it would work if for not one little detail. I don't think you have a chance with this chick, and it has nothing to do with your gaffe and whether you apologise or not. The chick you like and the chick who likes you are best friends. The chick who likes you will have discussed her crush on you and so on with her best friend (the one you like). The chick you like will not want to hurt her best friend. Her going out with you, knowing her best friend wants to go out with you too, will hurt her best friend. Therefore she will not go out with you. That's what best friends do

Perfectly said Aelia... it is what we call the "First Come, First Serve Basis" My group of friends wouldn't touch the girl if I liked her, and in fact would use that advantage to help me... but not the other way around... same thing with women... but then, if she also likes you and all that, that could be turned around... but since her best friend is naggy and since that is her BEST friend, I don't think it is not going to be an easy task...

Desdicado · 11-04-2002, 08:43 AM

[QUOTE]Originally posted by The Lilarcor:
[QB]Well desdicado, for one thing i'm currently 16 and lds/mormon. So ether way I can't drink nor will I.
2. I seem too shy to carry out anything I plan to do and if I do carry them out, they get bungled...
3. Were all of your friends at least 1 inch to over a foot taller than you in High School?
4. I just got a #2 haircut, so it's pretty short... and
5. School is evil, well actually the classes are, for if there was no school, I'd be lounging on my butt all day and probably wouldn't make it anywhere...

OK Lets look at these problems, or issues rather not problems.

1- That's fine, beliefs are important, stick to yours. I'm just stating what can work sometimes.

2- You give away the reason things get bungled in what you say there, "plans" etc. You don't need a plan and you don't need to be shy, girls are as human as we are, if you see a cute girl go speak to her, if you get on with her just say, "what are you doing on Friday?" or whatever. No big deal, no drama, no problem if she says she's busy, speak to another girl!.

3- Actually yes they were, I'm 5'7", no giant but it doesn't matter, believe in yourself, girls love confidence. In my job I am responsible for the training etc of lots of people, because I have some authority and a lot of confidence I get a lot of women coming on to me. I'm with someone and so don't do anything about it but it's all about how you see yourself and how others see you, if you feel good about yourself girls will feel that coming from you and react well to you. It does work I promise. Forget about height, do some sports or weights, build up your physique and your self esteem will rocket, but you don't even need that. Get some nice clothes on, check yourself out in the mirror and go get em ok?.

4- Short hair is cool, mine is 2 at the back longer on top, gelled and spiky, smokin'!.

5- No one likes school but there are plenty of chicks, go for it!. You've got til Monday next week to report your success rate!.

Epona · 11-04-2002, 09:32 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by The Lilarcor:
Well desdicado, for one thing i'm currently 16 and lds/mormon. So ether way I can't drink nor will I.
2. I seem too shy to carry out anything I plan to do and if I do carry them out, they get bungled...
3. Were all of your friends at least 1 inch to over a foot taller than you in High School?
4. I just got a #2 haircut, so it's pretty short... and
5. School is evil, well actually the classes are, for if there was no school, I'd be lounging on my butt all day and probably wouldn't make it anywhere...

Oh, Black Dragon, Come Christmas time, use mistletoe on her! [img]smile.gif[/img]

If you don't drink that's no problem mate, plenty don't and I do enough daft things when I'm drunk to make up for those that don't! (ie. having a blazing row with some people at a party about music, challenging them to a fight and going outside yelling abuse at each other and rolling our sleeves up - yes, about music!)

2 & 3 - well my bloke is only one inch taller than me and what's left of his hair is never more than 1/8 of an inch long - and I think he's dead sexy. Gorgeous sideburns too

The Lilarcor · 11-04-2002, 10:45 AM

Well. what I meant in 2 is that if I say to myself I am going to call a certain girl, I never seem to be able to do it. So next monday then? Well I guess then I should contact Guiness book of records and cancel my claim on biggest rejections of dates for a school year...

Oh and no drama? Tell that to my fast beating heart!

Timber Loftis · 11-04-2002, 10:53 AM

Umm.... You should have welcomed her request for a reason. Simply tell her (in front of your dreamgirl if possible) that you're smitten with the dreamgirl. This puts it all out in the open, and sets up your dreamgirl for what's in store - which is the question you've been waiting to answer.

And, you'd be surprised but the girl would likely be okay with it. At the age I'm guessing these females are, her "matchmaker" instincts would likely take over - drying up her tears and perhaps getting her on your side.

As I told you before, he who hesitates is lost. As someone else so eloquently put it, he who hesistates, ma**. But, don't we all anyway.

Desdicado · 11-06-2002, 08:17 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by The Lilarcor:
Well. what I meant in 2 is that if I say to myself I am going to call a certain girl, I never seem to be able to do it. So next monday then? Well I guess then I should contact Guiness book of records and cancel my claim on biggest rejections of dates for a school year...
Oh and no drama? Tell that to my fast beating heart!

I well remember feeling like that in the past, just tell yourself, what is the worst that can happen?. She can say no?, don't worry about it.
Oh yeah, and go for the really good looking ones, most guys will be scared to approach them.

Ace of Spades · 11-06-2002, 10:13 AM

Okay, Black Dragon, you offended Erica's(?)friend. But it isn't Erica's friend that you're interested in. It's Erica, right? So go talk to Erica. Talk to her about how you feel. You can explain why you insulted her friend, but don't dwell on that topic. It's not about you and the friend, it's about you and Erica. I've dated plenty of women that my friends didn't like, and they've dated plenty that I didn't like. If she likes you as much as you like her, her friends won't be significant enough to keep you apart. If you just move on to another girl, you'll never know what could have been with you and Erica. Go talk to her.

11-03-2002, 08:52 AM	#41
Black Dragon Zhentarim Guard Join Date: November 11, 2001 Location: Virginia Age: 37 Posts: 352	Um, okay...? __________________ Black owns!<br />Dragons rule!!<br /> [img]\"http://img.ranchoweb.com/images/ladyzekke/blackdragonpic.jpg\" alt=\" - \" /><br /> <b>If the media decided that breathing wasn\'t \"cool\" anymore, half the teenage population would be gone.</b> --Someguy

11-03-2002, 07:24 PM	#42
Tancred White Dragon Join Date: April 1, 2001 Location: UK Age: 43 Posts: 1,893	Just don't overdramatise things, either... yes, the world may seem to be at you and your future dreams of happiness may have been crushed by an unforgivably stupid act on your part. Or, rather, it only seems that way. Take some of the wiser advice on this topic. Don't become a martyr to your own screw-up. __________________ \"HELP! I\'ve superglued myself to a flaming bowling ball!\"

11-04-2002, 12:22 AM	#43
The Lilarcor Elminster Join Date: October 24, 2002 Location: Traveling to wrestle a dangerous Ent Age: 38 Posts: 405	Well desdicado, for one thing i'm currently 16 and lds/mormon. So ether way I can't drink nor will I. 2. I seem too shy to carry out anything I plan to do and if I do carry them out, they get bungled... 3. Were all of your friends at least 1 inch to over a foot taller than you in High School? 4. I just got a #2 haircut, so it's pretty short... and 5. School is evil, well actually the classes are, for if there was no school, I'd be lounging on my butt all day and probably wouldn't make it anywhere... Oh, Black Dragon, Come Christmas time, use mistletoe on her! [img]smile.gif[/img] __________________ ...Since when do you care about me unless I\'m impaled in somethings guts?!

11-04-2002, 08:43 AM	#45
Desdicado Zhentarim Guard Join Date: March 30, 2001 Location: Scotland Age: 47 Posts: 335	[QUOTE]Originally posted by The Lilarcor: [QB]Well desdicado, for one thing i'm currently 16 and lds/mormon. So ether way I can't drink nor will I. 2. I seem too shy to carry out anything I plan to do and if I do carry them out, they get bungled... 3. Were all of your friends at least 1 inch to over a foot taller than you in High School? 4. I just got a #2 haircut, so it's pretty short... and 5. School is evil, well actually the classes are, for if there was no school, I'd be lounging on my butt all day and probably wouldn't make it anywhere... OK Lets look at these problems, or issues rather not problems. 1- That's fine, beliefs are important, stick to yours. I'm just stating what can work sometimes. 2- You give away the reason things get bungled in what you say there, "plans" etc. You don't need a plan and you don't need to be shy, girls are as human as we are, if you see a cute girl go speak to her, if you get on with her just say, "what are you doing on Friday?" or whatever. No big deal, no drama, no problem if she says she's busy, speak to another girl!. 3- Actually yes they were, I'm 5'7", no giant but it doesn't matter, believe in yourself, girls love confidence. In my job I am responsible for the training etc of lots of people, because I have some authority and a lot of confidence I get a lot of women coming on to me. I'm with someone and so don't do anything about it but it's all about how you see yourself and how others see you, if you feel good about yourself girls will feel that coming from you and react well to you. It does work I promise. Forget about height, do some sports or weights, build up your physique and your self esteem will rocket, but you don't even need that. Get some nice clothes on, check yourself out in the mirror and go get em ok?. 4- Short hair is cool, mine is 2 at the back longer on top, gelled and spiky, smokin'!. 5- No one likes school but there are plenty of chicks, go for it!. You've got til Monday next week to report your success rate!. __________________ \"We will welcome them with Bullets and Shoes\" Mohhamed Sa\'id Al Shahaf

11-04-2002, 10:45 AM	#47
The Lilarcor Elminster Join Date: October 24, 2002 Location: Traveling to wrestle a dangerous Ent Age: 38 Posts: 405	Well. what I meant in 2 is that if I say to myself I am going to call a certain girl, I never seem to be able to do it. So next monday then? Well I guess then I should contact Guiness book of records and cancel my claim on biggest rejections of dates for a school year... Oh and no drama? Tell that to my fast beating heart! __________________ ...Since when do you care about me unless I\'m impaled in somethings guts?!

11-04-2002, 10:53 AM	#48
Timber Loftis 40th Level Warrior Join Date: July 11, 2002 Location: Chicago, IL Posts: 11,916	Umm.... You should have welcomed her request for a reason. Simply tell her (in front of your dreamgirl if possible) that you're smitten with the dreamgirl. This puts it all out in the open, and sets up your dreamgirl for what's in store - which is the question you've been waiting to answer. And, you'd be surprised but the girl would likely be okay with it. At the age I'm guessing these females are, her "matchmaker" instincts would likely take over - drying up her tears and perhaps getting her on your side. As I told you before, he who hesitates is lost. As someone else so eloquently put it, he who hesistates, ma**. But, don't we all anyway. __________________

11-06-2002, 10:13 AM	#50
Ace of Spades The Magister Join Date: July 9, 2001 Location: Colorado, USA Age: 61 Posts: 108	Okay, Black Dragon, you offended Erica's(?)friend. But it isn't Erica's friend that you're interested in. It's Erica, right? So go talk to Erica. Talk to her about how you feel. You can explain why you insulted her friend, but don't dwell on that topic. It's not about you and the friend, it's about you and Erica. I've dated plenty of women that my friends didn't like, and they've dated plenty that I didn't like. If she likes you as much as you like her, her friends won't be significant enough to keep you apart. If you just move on to another girl, you'll never know what could have been with you and Erica. Go talk to her. __________________ ~~~~~~~~~~~~~<br />Reviled throughout the MultiVerse<br />

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