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KDogRex · 03-17-2001, 10:12 PM

Ladyzekke-
"IF YOU COULD HAVE ANY JOB YOU WANTED, WHAT WOULD IT BE? High paid cabana boy trainer "
Hmmm, how does one apply to be trained by you?

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-Resident Corset Loosener of the OHF

Ladyzekke · 03-17-2001, 10:26 PM

KDog - Hehehe! I don't know! What the heck is a cabana boy?!! No matter, you're hired! I'll figure out your duties later

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KDogRex · 03-18-2001, 11:20 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by ladyzekke:
KDog - Hehehe! I don't know! What the heck is a cabana boy?!! No matter, you're hired! I'll figure out your duties later

A cabana boy is usually a hot looking, tanned, no brained, sex toy that keeps up the pool and cabana (pool house) for his mistress. I may not be tanned, and I like to think I have a few brains, but the part about being your sex toy, now THAT has a certain appeal o me!!

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-Resident Corset Loosener of the OHF

Charean · 03-18-2001, 12:54 PM

Believe it or not, I just read all the posts... wow. Here goes nothing - there may be repeated answers but I will try to be original!

NAME?
Jo

LIVING ARRANGEMENT?
My cat Garbo runs the house and allows my husband and I to take care of her.

YOUR FAVORITE TV SHOW?
Almost any Britcom, and old 70's shows... especially Get Smart.

WHAT'S ON YOUR MOUSE PAD?
A purple version of space

FAVORITE BOARD GAME?
actually, I prefer cards... heh heh heh

FAVORITE MAGAZINE?
Newsweek or similar

FAVORITE SMELLS?
Being in the Rockies, or the house when I am on a baking spree

FAVORITE SOUND?
the woods

WORST FEELING(S) IN THE WORLD?
feeling helpless to help someone in need

BEST FEELING(S) IN THE WORLD?
touching the Great Spirit in meditation

FAVORITE RECORD?
By far - Beethoven's 5th symphony - it may be cliche to some, but it is so expressive of my spirit

FAVORITE SONG?
Hold On by Kansas

WHAT IS THE FIRST THING YOU THINK WHEN YOU WAKE IN THE MORNING?
Oh boy!! :::running to computer::::

HOW MANY RINGS BEFORE YOU ANSWER THE PHONE?
I like to pick up BEFORE it rings...

(FUTURE) DAUGHTER'S NAME?
N/A

(FUTURE) SON'S NAME?
N/A (I have 8 nieces and nephews, plus assorted cousins... when would I have time??)

FAVORITE FOOD?
sushi, anything Italian, or whatever doesn't crawl off my plate too quick!

CHOCOLATE OR VANILLA?
CHOCOLATE ANYTHING is better than Vanilla!!!

FAVORITE ICE CREAM?
Mint chocolate chip or Love Potion #31 (Baskin Robbins)

CROUTONS OR BACON BITS?
um.... what is wrong with plain veggies???

DO YOU LIKE TO DRIVE?
You may as well ask if I like to BREATHE... HECK YEAH!!! Without driving, life is flat, and I can't meditate as well... nothing like a little 3 hour drive in the mountains...

DO YOU SLEEP WITH A STUFFED ANIMAL?
Yes, Husband and Cat count.

STORMS - COOL OR SCARY?
Love storms... drive in them all the time - the energy in the air is incredible

WHAT TYPE WAS YOUR FIRST CAR?
Honda Accord... ahhhhhh

WHAT IS YOUR ZODIAC SIGN?
Aries. Libra rising...

WHO IS YOUR FAVORITE AUTHOR?
I love books to the point of picking would be impossible. I read almost anything in print...

DO YOU EAT THE STEMS OF BROCCOLI?
Yupper... health food freak with a little gourmet thrown in... wouldn't dream of not eating veggies...

IF YOU COULD HAVE ANY JOB YOU WANTED, WHAT WOULD IT BE?
Well, was a truck driver for years, do computer consulting now....maybe doing research for a detective would be fun

IF YOU COULD DYE YOUR HAIR ANY COLOUR, WHAT WOULD IT BE?
Had it strawberry blonde for a while in my younger days... that wasn't bad

WHAT IS ON THE WALLS IN YOUR ROOM?
Shelves of incense, Buddha, cats, books, CDs, bunnies, scenic art

HAVE YOU EVER BEEN IN LOVE?
Many different ways with different facets of who I was...
And in love with life and all the beauty therein...

IS THE GLASS HALF EMPTY OR HALF FULL?
Whoops... drank the water... what was the question again?

WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE BEVERAGE?
Herbal tea or cocoa.... yum

FAVORITE MOVIE(S)?
Ah, anything with Jackie Chan, the Airplane! movies, Henry V (Kenneth Brannaugh), Groundhog Day

ARE YOU A LEFTY, RIGHTY OR AMBIDEXTROUS?
Depends on the task... can't drive a stick shift with one hand, ya know!!

DO YOU TYPE WITH YOUR FINGERS ON THE RIGHT KEYS?
yepper... me mum made me learn to type, and I have alternately cursed and thanked her for that one!

WHAT'S UNDER YOUR BED?
If it isn't my cat, it's her toys

WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE NUMBER?
17

WHAT IS YOUR DREAM CAR?
Well, here is where being Stateside shows... Want another BIG TRUCK!!
If not 18 wheels, I will settle for a Dodge Durango

SAY ONE NICE THING ABOUT A PERSON ON THIS BOARD?
So many wonderful and amazing people... one nice thing?
Too difficult a task.

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Defender for the Light -
Goodness knows there is a lot of Dark out there!! - Where are my matches?
Wandering Joke of the Laughing Hyenas

Draconia · 03-19-2001, 02:33 AM

I saw this and decided to do this before I went to bed.

LIVING ARRANGEMENT? 4 bedroom, 2 bath home with husband, 3 kids, 2 cats.

YOUR FAVORITE TV SHOW? Don't really have one

WHAT'S ON YOUR MOUSE PAD? A dragon

FAVORITE BOARD GAME? Chess

FAVORITE MAGAZINE? The Cross Stitcher

FAVORITE SMELLS? A baby

FAVORITE SOUND? my chidren's laughter

WORST FEELING(S) IN THE WORLD? when one of my kids get hurt

BEST FEELING(S) IN THE WORLD? when my kids and husband hug me, kiss me and tell me that they love me

FAVORITE RECORD? Dwight Yoakam's A long way home

FAVORITE SONG? Walk thru this world with me by George Jones our wedding song

WHAT IS THE FIRST THING YOU THINK WHEN YOU WAKE IN THE MORNING? Have to make a bottle

HOW MANY RINGS BEFORE YOU ANSWER THE PHONE? 3

(FUTURE) DAUGHTER'S NAME? No more in my future

(FUTURE) SON'S NAME? No more in my future, I have enough

FAVORITE FOOD? My mother's tamales

CHOCOLATE OR VANILLA? Chocolate

FAVORITE ICE CREAM? Cookies and Cream

CROUTONS OR BACON BITS? Croutons

DO YOU LIKE TO DRIVE? No

DO YOU SLEEP WITH A STUFFED ANIMAL? No

STORMS - COOL OR SCARY? Scary

WHAT TYPE WAS YOUR FIRST CAR? Honda Accord

WHAT IS YOUR ZODIAC SIGN? Aries

WHO IS YOUR FAVORITE AUTHOR? Stephen King

DO YOU EAT THE STEMS OF BROCCOLI? Yes

IF YOU COULD HAVE ANY JOB YOU WANTED, WHAT WOULD IT BE? I have the job I have always wanted, being a mom

IF YOU COULD DYE YOUR HAIR ANY COLOUR, WHAT WOULD IT BE? I wouldn't dye my hair

WHAT IS ON THE WALLS IN YOUR ROOM? Picture of a dragon, wizard, unicorn that I painted, a duck, a coyote, hats, my medals and awards from High School

HAVE YOU EVER BEEN IN LOVE? Yes

IS THE GLASS HALF EMPTY OR HALF FULL? Depends on the mood I am in

WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE BEVERAGE? Pepsi

FAVORITE MOVIE(S)? The Mummy, North to Alaska, Willow

ARE YOU A LEFTY, RIGHTY OR AMBIDEXTROUS? Righty

DO YOU TYPE WITH YOUR FINGERS ON THE RIGHT KEYS? Yes

WHAT'S UNDER YOUR BED? Luggage, chess board, puzzles

WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE NUMBER? 32

WHAT IS YOUR DREAM CAR? a convertable mustang, a new one

SAY ONE NICE THING ABOUT A PERSON ON THIS BOARD? Everyone here is wonderful and I couldn't just mention one.

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Draconia, Dragon Queen

Accord · 03-20-2001, 03:12 AM

*BUMP*

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Long live H22A1!!!!!

250 · 03-20-2001, 08:17 PM

english name: Leo (I picked it myself!)
real name: Wei Zhou
where from: china

well, I really got nothing to say about myself besides someone who lives a boring simple life. my biggest interest was computer games, however, as time passing I learnt that I cannot find what I wanted through games. sure the games make people feel good, for a while, but after hours of playing, I always found a ever-so-familiar monster awaited me, a monster that I seemed never able to escape. It is a curse of human life, that is from my 19-year immature perspective view of life, but it has been bothering me ever since I came to United Stats. The monster chased me after I graduate from high school, and it came with me to colledge. I have vowed to myself to change my life and this monster mercilessly destroyed my fatal attempt.
How desperate it seemed! When I try to do something over and over, encouraging myself, supporting myself, trying to be my own master, and I just to discover the utter truth that I am nothing, but a weakling who lacks of displine and self-control. I just to discover that I am nothing but someone who got defeated by his old enemy! This monster, is like a shadow, following me, taunting me, and getting ever stronger as he each time run over me, step me under his fury feet, toying me with his bloody fangs. Even in my dream, I could hear his mocking laughter, the laughter from animal that devour the weak. How creul!
This monster is one thing, but he is everything humanbeings fear. I envy those dearly loved ones who can escape the grasp of his evilness. I only hope, someday, i will have courage to walk out this shadow and face myself for what I truely am. The monster got a name, it is Fear.

P.S. sorry for the teenager's insecure rumbling. I only hope i will get over it.

Ladyzekke · 03-20-2001, 08:30 PM

250 - Fear is something all us humans have to deal with. We all fear different things for different reasons. Sometimes the fear actually helps us in some ways make the right decisions in life. I wrote a kind of "fear" poem in Gabriel's poem thread. I understand. The thing to do is to assess what you actually fear. Is there anything you can do about it? If not, then focus your mind elsewhere because you are only worrying for naught. If there IS something you can do about it, then hey, what are you waiting for? Of course, I do not know what your particular fear is?, so cannot say much more than that. All I know 250 is that I really like your friendly humorous personality, you are very unique.

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bilqis · 03-20-2001, 09:09 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by 250:
When I try to do something over and over, encouraging myself, supporting myself, trying to be my own master, and I just to discover the utter truth that I am nothing, but a weakling who lacks of displine and self-control.
.........I only hope, someday, i will have courage to walk out this shadow and face myself for what I truely am. The monster got a name, it is Fear.

It is rewarding to find someone you like, but it is essential to like ourself.
It is quickening to recognize that someone is a good and decent human being, but it is indispensable to view yourself as acceptable.
It is a delight to discover people who are worthy of respect and admiration and love, but it is vital to believe yourself deserving of these things.

For you cannot live in someone else. You cannot find yourself in someone else. You cannot be given a life by someone else. Of all the people you will know in a lifetime, you are the only one you will never leave or lose.

To the question of your life, you are the only answer. To the problems of your life, you are the only solution.

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Do not meddle in the affairs of dragons for you are crunchy and good with ketchup. (new member of TLH)

Charean · 03-20-2001, 10:09 PM

250 - I understand what you mean... I spent several years essentially alone and had a lot of time to evaluate who I was and where I wanted to go...

I learned a couple of things. One, you need to be your own best friend. Heck, I understand all my jokes, I am always around when I need me, and I am dependable.
Two, find a relationship with the Higher Power, however you percieve it. I am Buddhist and have a different perspective, perhaps, but finding a relationship with The Great Spirit will also help.... You are never alone, not really.

For someone who is 19, you have a lot on the ball... remember you are further along than many peers who do not know themselves as well as you do.

I wish you well, friend, and know that you have everyone on this board as a listening ear when you need it.

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Defender for the Light -
Goodness knows there is a lot of Dark out there!! - Where are my matches?
Wandering Joke of the Laughing Hyenas
Laughter can be a Mighty Weapon - when wielded with pizazz and accuracy! What Ho!!

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03-17-2001, 10:12 PM	#71
KDogRex Symbol of Cyric Join Date: March 5, 2001 Location: Minneapolis, MN USA Age: 55 Posts: 1,305	Ladyzekke- "IF YOU COULD HAVE ANY JOB YOU WANTED, WHAT WOULD IT BE? High paid cabana boy trainer " Hmmm, how does one apply to be trained by you? ------------------ -Resident Corset Loosener of the OHF

03-17-2001, 10:26 PM	#72
Ladyzekke Ironworks Atomic Moderator Join Date: January 7, 2001 Location: Virginia, U.S.A. Age: 57 Posts: 9,005	KDog - Hehehe! I don't know! What the heck is a cabana boy?!! No matter, you're hired! I'll figure out your duties later ------------------

03-18-2001, 12:54 PM	#74
Charean Hathor Join Date: March 6, 2001 Location: Waxahachie, TX Age: 60 Posts: 2,201	Believe it or not, I just read all the posts... wow. Here goes nothing - there may be repeated answers but I will try to be original! NAME? Jo LIVING ARRANGEMENT? My cat Garbo runs the house and allows my husband and I to take care of her. YOUR FAVORITE TV SHOW? Almost any Britcom, and old 70's shows... especially Get Smart. WHAT'S ON YOUR MOUSE PAD? A purple version of space FAVORITE BOARD GAME? actually, I prefer cards... heh heh heh FAVORITE MAGAZINE? Newsweek or similar FAVORITE SMELLS? Being in the Rockies, or the house when I am on a baking spree FAVORITE SOUND? the woods WORST FEELING(S) IN THE WORLD? feeling helpless to help someone in need BEST FEELING(S) IN THE WORLD? touching the Great Spirit in meditation FAVORITE RECORD? By far - Beethoven's 5th symphony - it may be cliche to some, but it is so expressive of my spirit FAVORITE SONG? Hold On by Kansas WHAT IS THE FIRST THING YOU THINK WHEN YOU WAKE IN THE MORNING? Oh boy!! :::running to computer:::: HOW MANY RINGS BEFORE YOU ANSWER THE PHONE? I like to pick up BEFORE it rings... (FUTURE) DAUGHTER'S NAME? N/A (FUTURE) SON'S NAME? N/A (I have 8 nieces and nephews, plus assorted cousins... when would I have time??) FAVORITE FOOD? sushi, anything Italian, or whatever doesn't crawl off my plate too quick! CHOCOLATE OR VANILLA? CHOCOLATE ANYTHING is better than Vanilla!!! FAVORITE ICE CREAM? Mint chocolate chip or Love Potion #31 (Baskin Robbins) CROUTONS OR BACON BITS? um.... what is wrong with plain veggies??? DO YOU LIKE TO DRIVE? You may as well ask if I like to BREATHE... HECK YEAH!!! Without driving, life is flat, and I can't meditate as well... nothing like a little 3 hour drive in the mountains... DO YOU SLEEP WITH A STUFFED ANIMAL? Yes, Husband and Cat count. STORMS - COOL OR SCARY? Love storms... drive in them all the time - the energy in the air is incredible WHAT TYPE WAS YOUR FIRST CAR? Honda Accord... ahhhhhh WHAT IS YOUR ZODIAC SIGN? Aries. Libra rising... WHO IS YOUR FAVORITE AUTHOR? I love books to the point of picking would be impossible. I read almost anything in print... DO YOU EAT THE STEMS OF BROCCOLI? Yupper... health food freak with a little gourmet thrown in... wouldn't dream of not eating veggies... IF YOU COULD HAVE ANY JOB YOU WANTED, WHAT WOULD IT BE? Well, was a truck driver for years, do computer consulting now....maybe doing research for a detective would be fun IF YOU COULD DYE YOUR HAIR ANY COLOUR, WHAT WOULD IT BE? Had it strawberry blonde for a while in my younger days... that wasn't bad WHAT IS ON THE WALLS IN YOUR ROOM? Shelves of incense, Buddha, cats, books, CDs, bunnies, scenic art HAVE YOU EVER BEEN IN LOVE? Many different ways with different facets of who I was... And in love with life and all the beauty therein... IS THE GLASS HALF EMPTY OR HALF FULL? Whoops... drank the water... what was the question again? WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE BEVERAGE? Herbal tea or cocoa.... yum FAVORITE MOVIE(S)? Ah, anything with Jackie Chan, the Airplane! movies, Henry V (Kenneth Brannaugh), Groundhog Day ARE YOU A LEFTY, RIGHTY OR AMBIDEXTROUS? Depends on the task... can't drive a stick shift with one hand, ya know!! DO YOU TYPE WITH YOUR FINGERS ON THE RIGHT KEYS? yepper... me mum made me learn to type, and I have alternately cursed and thanked her for that one! WHAT'S UNDER YOUR BED? If it isn't my cat, it's her toys WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE NUMBER? 17 WHAT IS YOUR DREAM CAR? Well, here is where being Stateside shows... Want another BIG TRUCK!! If not 18 wheels, I will settle for a Dodge Durango SAY ONE NICE THING ABOUT A PERSON ON THIS BOARD? So many wonderful and amazing people... one nice thing? Too difficult a task. ------------------ Defender for the Light - Goodness knows there is a lot of Dark out there!! - Where are my matches? Wandering Joke of the Laughing Hyenas

03-19-2001, 02:33 AM	#75
Draconia Avatar Join Date: January 7, 2001 Location: Utah Posts: 581	I saw this and decided to do this before I went to bed. LIVING ARRANGEMENT? 4 bedroom, 2 bath home with husband, 3 kids, 2 cats. YOUR FAVORITE TV SHOW? Don't really have one WHAT'S ON YOUR MOUSE PAD? A dragon FAVORITE BOARD GAME? Chess FAVORITE MAGAZINE? The Cross Stitcher FAVORITE SMELLS? A baby FAVORITE SOUND? my chidren's laughter WORST FEELING(S) IN THE WORLD? when one of my kids get hurt BEST FEELING(S) IN THE WORLD? when my kids and husband hug me, kiss me and tell me that they love me FAVORITE RECORD? Dwight Yoakam's A long way home FAVORITE SONG? Walk thru this world with me by George Jones our wedding song WHAT IS THE FIRST THING YOU THINK WHEN YOU WAKE IN THE MORNING? Have to make a bottle HOW MANY RINGS BEFORE YOU ANSWER THE PHONE? 3 (FUTURE) DAUGHTER'S NAME? No more in my future (FUTURE) SON'S NAME? No more in my future, I have enough FAVORITE FOOD? My mother's tamales CHOCOLATE OR VANILLA? Chocolate FAVORITE ICE CREAM? Cookies and Cream CROUTONS OR BACON BITS? Croutons DO YOU LIKE TO DRIVE? No DO YOU SLEEP WITH A STUFFED ANIMAL? No STORMS - COOL OR SCARY? Scary WHAT TYPE WAS YOUR FIRST CAR? Honda Accord WHAT IS YOUR ZODIAC SIGN? Aries WHO IS YOUR FAVORITE AUTHOR? Stephen King DO YOU EAT THE STEMS OF BROCCOLI? Yes IF YOU COULD HAVE ANY JOB YOU WANTED, WHAT WOULD IT BE? I have the job I have always wanted, being a mom IF YOU COULD DYE YOUR HAIR ANY COLOUR, WHAT WOULD IT BE? I wouldn't dye my hair WHAT IS ON THE WALLS IN YOUR ROOM? Picture of a dragon, wizard, unicorn that I painted, a duck, a coyote, hats, my medals and awards from High School HAVE YOU EVER BEEN IN LOVE? Yes IS THE GLASS HALF EMPTY OR HALF FULL? Depends on the mood I am in WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE BEVERAGE? Pepsi FAVORITE MOVIE(S)? The Mummy, North to Alaska, Willow ARE YOU A LEFTY, RIGHTY OR AMBIDEXTROUS? Righty DO YOU TYPE WITH YOUR FINGERS ON THE RIGHT KEYS? Yes WHAT'S UNDER YOUR BED? Luggage, chess board, puzzles WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE NUMBER? 32 WHAT IS YOUR DREAM CAR? a convertable mustang, a new one SAY ONE NICE THING ABOUT A PERSON ON THIS BOARD? Everyone here is wonderful and I couldn't just mention one. ------------------ Draconia, Dragon Queen

03-20-2001, 03:12 AM	#76
Accord Ninja Storm Shadow Join Date: March 1, 2001 Location: Toronto, Canada Posts: 3,537	BUMP ------------------ Long live H22A1!!!!!

03-20-2001, 08:17 PM	#77
250 Horus - Egyptian Sky God Join Date: March 4, 2001 Location: either CA or MO Age: 42 Posts: 2,674	english name: Leo (I picked it myself!) real name: Wei Zhou where from: china well, I really got nothing to say about myself besides someone who lives a boring simple life. my biggest interest was computer games, however, as time passing I learnt that I cannot find what I wanted through games. sure the games make people feel good, for a while, but after hours of playing, I always found a ever-so-familiar monster awaited me, a monster that I seemed never able to escape. It is a curse of human life, that is from my 19-year immature perspective view of life, but it has been bothering me ever since I came to United Stats. The monster chased me after I graduate from high school, and it came with me to colledge. I have vowed to myself to change my life and this monster mercilessly destroyed my fatal attempt. How desperate it seemed! When I try to do something over and over, encouraging myself, supporting myself, trying to be my own master, and I just to discover the utter truth that I am nothing, but a weakling who lacks of displine and self-control. I just to discover that I am nothing but someone who got defeated by his old enemy! This monster, is like a shadow, following me, taunting me, and getting ever stronger as he each time run over me, step me under his fury feet, toying me with his bloody fangs. Even in my dream, I could hear his mocking laughter, the laughter from animal that devour the weak. How creul! This monster is one thing, but he is everything humanbeings fear. I envy those dearly loved ones who can escape the grasp of his evilness. I only hope, someday, i will have courage to walk out this shadow and face myself for what I truely am. The monster got a name, it is Fear. P.S. sorry for the teenager's insecure rumbling. I only hope i will get over it.

03-20-2001, 08:30 PM	#78
Ladyzekke Ironworks Atomic Moderator Join Date: January 7, 2001 Location: Virginia, U.S.A. Age: 57 Posts: 9,005	250 - Fear is something all us humans have to deal with. We all fear different things for different reasons. Sometimes the fear actually helps us in some ways make the right decisions in life. I wrote a kind of "fear" poem in Gabriel's poem thread. I understand. The thing to do is to assess what you actually fear. Is there anything you can do about it? If not, then focus your mind elsewhere because you are only worrying for naught. If there IS something you can do about it, then hey, what are you waiting for? Of course, I do not know what your particular fear is?, so cannot say much more than that. All I know 250 is that I really like your friendly humorous personality, you are very unique. ------------------

03-20-2001, 10:09 PM	#80
Charean Hathor Join Date: March 6, 2001 Location: Waxahachie, TX Age: 60 Posts: 2,201	250 - I understand what you mean... I spent several years essentially alone and had a lot of time to evaluate who I was and where I wanted to go... I learned a couple of things. One, you need to be your own best friend. Heck, I understand all my jokes, I am always around when I need me, and I am dependable. Two, find a relationship with the Higher Power, however you percieve it. I am Buddhist and have a different perspective, perhaps, but finding a relationship with The Great Spirit will also help.... You are never alone, not really. For someone who is 19, you have a lot on the ball... remember you are further along than many peers who do not know themselves as well as you do. I wish you well, friend, and know that you have everyone on this board as a listening ear when you need it. ------------------ Defender for the Light - Goodness knows there is a lot of Dark out there!! - Where are my matches? Wandering Joke of the Laughing Hyenas Laughter can be a Mighty Weapon - when wielded with pizazz and accuracy! What Ho!!

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