05-16-2002, 06:27 PM | #111 |
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That reminds me th last time I got smacked was when I was 16
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05-16-2002, 07:07 PM | #112 |
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SMACK a child NO! Spank a child YES. My wife and I had age limits on spankings(none under 3years, and none after reaching puberty), and amount of swatts (1 swatt for first year of elligability then 1 additional swatt may be added for each year after words until puberty)
Spanking is not violence it is punishment, for actions that are against my wife's and my rules. We are their parents not their buddies, not their pals. As I told my oldest when she wanted to hangout all night once NO! I would rather have a live daughter that thought Dad was a AHole, then a dead daughter who's LAST thought was Dad was cool. It was and still is OUR responsibility to instruct and teach our childern Right from wrong, yes good, from bad. My job is to equipt my childern with the necessary skills and manners to live, grow-up and bear me grandschildern As they got older capital punishment switched from spankings to public embrassment. If either of my daughters break curfew I will drive them to school and walk them to their first class in my bathrobe. Neither of my daughters have ever broken curfew and they always call and let us know where, and with whom they are going to be with. They KNOW Dad says what He means, and means what he says. Having been in situations where I have faced the reality of life, mine or others imment Death, I have learned that life doesn't give a rats rear-end about anyone's delicate psycie.
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05-16-2002, 07:12 PM | #113 | |
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05-16-2002, 07:27 PM | #114 | |
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MagiK, that reminds me of the time when I was about 17,(young,dumb, and full of C***) and I did something to make my Mother mad, She went to slap me and I grabbed her arm and blocked it, but my brain overrode my cocky attitude. I looked out of the corner of my eye just in time to see Dad start to slide his chair back from the dinning room table. (I was fixxing to get a reallife butt-whipp'n, if I was man enough to challenge my parent's authority, I was man enough to get my buttwhipped for raising my hand to HIS wife!) To this day I thank my Mother that she swung again at me, I dropped my hands to my side and took it. Dad slid his chair back under the dinningroom table, and went back to reading his book. Another word was never exchanged on the matter and I have never made the same mistake twice.
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05-16-2002, 07:30 PM | #115 |
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I agree with Avatar, cultural backgrounds probably count a lot. Personally, I have never been hit/ slapped by anyone. I think, based on that my father got his guts beaten out of him too many times, this is something he didn't want me to ever expirience. I am really thankful for that now, and I hope I can manage to raise my children in the same spirit. This has BTW been a very interesting thread to follow, even if it got pretty hot!
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05-16-2002, 07:38 PM | #116 | |
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MagiK, you don't need my help to defend yourself, so if you have allready addressed this post I apoligize to you for over stepping. I'm working my way down the tread and haven't gotten to it yet. JDH
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05-16-2002, 07:46 PM | #117 | |
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05-16-2002, 07:50 PM | #118 | |
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05-16-2002, 07:54 PM | #119 |
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I am a single father of a 9 year old girl. I haven't physically disciplined her ever, as I have never needed too. There are alternate methods of punishment that work just as well. I was raised with an iron fist, if you you will as my parents were believers in spankings. It is a very fine line between discipline and abuse, but I think it's the responsible parents choice. Read that last part again, because it's important: Responsible parent. Spanking is an easy way out. If all other means have been exhausted and I mean all other means, then spanking my be the only thing that the child understands, but as parents we must change with the times. I hated my parents for the way the raised me, but I love them for the very same reason. That was the times that we lived in. If I need to discipline Ashley, I take away some of her priviliges. A boy may be different, I don't know as I've never been in that situation, but as a parent it's my job to insure my child grows up to be a responsible adult, and if she hates me for it in the process, then so be it. At least I'll be able to sleep easy knowing that she is a kind, caring, responsible adult.
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05-16-2002, 08:04 PM | #120 | |
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The best thing about the type of parenting you are espousing is that it usually dies out after a generation or two, as a child decides that they don't want to put their kids through the crap they went through.[/QB][/QUOTE]How did you come up with the usually dies out theory? I'm willing to bet that there is thoughout recorded history evidence that spankings, and swatt'ns have been used since the earliest times, proof that it hasn't died out. Your logic as stated is based on faulty facts.
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