05-16-2002, 04:21 PM | #101 |
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The one thing I was sad not to see int his thread is anyone with teens posting on how they handle their teens. Sean is sneaking up on it quick and I am looking forward/dreading him becomming a teenager [img]smile.gif[/img]
One of those happy/sad things [img]smile.gif[/img] I may even have to come back here and eat my own words.....time will tell. |
05-16-2002, 04:21 PM | #102 | |
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*cracks knuckles* [ 05-16-2002, 04:23 PM: Message edited by: Grojlach ]
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MagiK please read above post of mine as I have modified it. Well you certainly made it entertaining and fast paced... I am still reading the details.. [img]smile.gif[/img] I see where you are coming from, myself brought up under Chinese culture (this itself is a thread ).
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*cracks knuckles* [/QUOTE] Mommy! He tried tp hit me real hard but missed [img]tongue.gif[/img] Why is he being mean? Me no understand.. is it because i took those sweets last weekend? me no wanna get hurt... he could just tell me it's bad rather than hit me.. [img]tongue.gif[/img] [img]tongue.gif[/img] [img]tongue.gif[/img]
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05-16-2002, 04:31 PM | #106 |
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Reread your post Avatar [img]smile.gif[/img] and I do agree with you. I am really not against "not spanking" children...as long as you keep them under control and don't let them go berserk in public. I also do approve of spanking as a method of punishment. Which is what I started out wanting to put accross. Whatever method you DO use must be effective otherwise you are letting your responsibility as a parent go.
Cerek touched on a point too..kids will test the limits their parents set, I truely believe for them to feel loved and cared about you have to set those limits as a parent...and be consistant about it. [ 05-16-2002, 04:32 PM: Message edited by: MagiK ] |
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To answer your question - I've been hit once by my father (and it was hard) - but I must say that I deserved it. We were at the supermarket, and as far as I remember, I had wanted something, he wouldn't give me. And so I chose to bite him on the arm - through his (thick) leather jacket - leaving an exact dentalmark of my upper and lower teeth. Then he hit me - and promtly some woman came over to us and told him off for hitting he. So unfair really [img]graemlins/hehe.gif[/img] And although I think that I would never hit a child, I must admit that I'm not sure that I wouldn't do what my father did.
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Belle and I have asked that question hundreds of times....
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Pesonaly I think kids need a good swat every now and then IF THEY DESERVE IT. I am not advocateing child abuse or smacking your kid around for being 5 mins late getting somewhere, but sometimes getting a whack is all that will get through to a child. Many of us older people probably got a smack or 2 from out parents when we acted up. I am sure MOST of us deserved what we got, I know I did. I think a lot of kids problems is that they dont get that kind of disipline any more. Before I get all the "violence only brings more violence" speeches think about how many time you heard of kids bringing guns and bombs to school and killing classmates when we were in school durring the 80's. I cant remember a single time, then again , I'm not omnipotent and I am sure it might have happened and I am just not aware of it. Now think of the past decade in the 90's. It seemed almost commonplace , especialy in the late 90's . Almost like there was 1 a year from 95 til 2K. I think the diffrence is in the parenting , or the LACK therof. I think that if the parents of the 2 columbine kilers had given them a good smack or 2 they wouldnt have dared to even consider doing what they did. I know as a kid that the cops didnt scare me , jail didnt scare me , teachers didnt scare me,my dad DID. And all I can do is thank him for it. Who knows what would have happened if he never laid a finger on me and I wasnt afraid of him either.
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