Relationship help needed! - Page 2

purre · 11-22-2002, 03:54 PM

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Originally posted by antryg:
Trust me. Being honest in not wanting to get back together is being nice.

Oh,then I was nice to him.

Rokenn · 11-22-2002, 03:56 PM

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Originally posted by Timber Loftis:
I think you should have strung him along a bit. That way, when you have a really bad day within the next few weeks, you could simply crush his wee little male ego like a bug and make yourself feel a bit better.

Just joking. You did fine.

Or you could have told him he cause you to 'switch sides' and get a girlfriend [img]tongue.gif[/img]

Sir Krustin · 11-22-2002, 05:34 PM

It may seem like your hurting someone by not returning their feelings, but in the long run it's kinder to tell them up front than to string them along until things come to a head. If you're firm and tell him you've moved on he'll move on himself.

purre · 11-22-2002, 06:05 PM

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Originally posted by Sir Krustin:
It may seem like your hurting someone by not returning their feelings, but in the long run it's kinder to tell them up front than to string them along until things come to a head. If you're firm and tell him you've moved on he'll move on himself.

Thanks [img]smile.gif[/img]
I think that I made that clear to him (he was quite disappointed and angry,but at least I told the truth and told it politely).

Charean · 11-22-2002, 06:18 PM

How angry was he? (You are not responsible for his anger, by the way)

purre · 11-22-2002, 06:21 PM

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Originally posted by Charean:
How angry was he? (You are not responsible for his anger, by the way)

Too angry,in my opinion.This forum is for kids too,so I am not going to use the words he did.

Charean · 11-22-2002, 06:24 PM

I am hoping you don't have a potential problem on your hands.

How old is he?

purre · 11-22-2002, 06:26 PM

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Originally posted by Charean:
I am hoping you don't have a potential problem on your hands.

How old is he?

He is 18,as am I. Thanks for your worry Charean [img]smile.gif[/img]

johnny · 11-22-2002, 06:29 PM

How hard can it be to just say no, or get lost ? It's nice of you that you don't want to hurt his feelings, but make sure your own feelings don't get hurt first. You said you already were involved with him once, and you don't want him anymore... well, just tell him that.

Charean · 11-22-2002, 06:30 PM

Purre, if you want someone to talk to, I am on MSN. [img]smile.gif[/img]

11-22-2002, 05:34 PM	#13
Sir Krustin Symbol of Cyric Join Date: September 15, 2002 Location: Peterborough, ON, CANADA Age: 60 Posts: 1,394	It may seem like your hurting someone by not returning their feelings, but in the long run it's kinder to tell them up front than to string them along until things come to a head. If you're firm and tell him you've moved on he'll move on himself. __________________ If I say \"Eject!\" and you say \"Huh?\" - you\'ll be talking to yourself! - Maj. Bannister, <b>Steel Tiger</b>

11-22-2002, 06:18 PM	#15
Charean Hathor Join Date: March 6, 2001 Location: Waxahachie, TX Age: 60 Posts: 2,201	How angry was he? (You are not responsible for his anger, by the way) __________________ And then there were 6.

11-22-2002, 06:24 PM	#17
Charean Hathor Join Date: March 6, 2001 Location: Waxahachie, TX Age: 60 Posts: 2,201	I am hoping you don't have a potential problem on your hands. How old is he? __________________ And then there were 6.

11-22-2002, 06:29 PM	#19
johnny 40th Level Warrior Join Date: April 15, 2002 Location: Utrecht The Netherlands Age: 58 Posts: 16,981	How hard can it be to just say no, or get lost ? It's nice of you that you don't want to hurt his feelings, but make sure your own feelings don't get hurt first. You said you already were involved with him once, and you don't want him anymore... well, just tell him that. __________________

11-22-2002, 06:30 PM	#20
Charean Hathor Join Date: March 6, 2001 Location: Waxahachie, TX Age: 60 Posts: 2,201	Purre, if you want someone to talk to, I am on MSN. [img]smile.gif[/img] __________________ And then there were 6.

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