The absolute last update on my dad

SSJ4Sephiroth · 01-04-2002, 08:31 PM

The topic speaks truth: there will be no more updates after this unless i gain the knowledge to contact the spirit plane somehow. thats right, he's dead... time of death: approximately 19:00. i know of no words, no poems, no lyrics, nothing to say how i felt about him or how i feel about this. he was a great man, he was always there for me when i needed him and was always there for his family. he's taught me just about every virtue i know of, instilled loyalty in me, and with that legacy he's gone. all i can think of saying is that i loved him very much, and i'll miss him now. thank you for your time and sympathy.

Cody R. Lape

Aelia Jusa · 01-04-2002, 08:35 PM

Cody... I am so sorry. I'm sure platitudes won't help you, so I won't even try. Just know that if you need us, we will all be here with you, for you. *biggest hugs*

Neb · 01-04-2002, 08:35 PM

My condolences Cody, may he rest in peace.

Patrick

Lavindathar · 01-04-2002, 08:36 PM

Seph, when you was telling me u was posting this, I didnt realise that it would be that bad.

I offer you every sympathy, and as I chat to you real time now, I promise you I will always be here for you as one of your bestest friends, as I have tried to be so far.

Do not look for poems, or words, as none can express the feeling in your heart at the moment, and I have experianced death close in my family, although admittedly none of my parents.

There is nothing anyone can say on here to make you feel any better, and I think it would be pointless trying. All i can say is, I hope you know that everyone here on IW, and especially your close friends are here for you.

I only ever pray to god on rare occasions, but tonight Cody I will pray for your dad, and your family. May he rest in peace in heaven, place of the angels.

I will be here forever for you Cody, always and forever.

One of your best mates,

Brad

01-04-2002, 08:43 PM

I am truly sorry about your loss, Cody. Nothing I or anyone else can say will make things any better, just make sure you remember all the good times you had with him, so that when you think of him, it is fondly, and not with pain in your heart. You and your family have my deepest sympathy, and I wish you all the best in dealing with this catastrophe.

Mirac Honorguard · 01-04-2002, 08:45 PM

I'm so sorry to hear that.
You have my condolences, may you gain the strenght to deal with the loss of your father.

Michiel

Legolas · 01-04-2002, 08:50 PM

I'm VERY sorry to hear it Cody

I don't think there are any words to say now, any lyrics that will help you. It's a great pain inside, and only time will numb it.
But we are there for you if you wish to talk about it, so you are by no means alone.

I'm glad you remember him as a good person, and understand how important he was to you. It'll make things easier on you.

Steven Pijl

Ladyzekke · 01-04-2002, 08:54 PM

I'm so sorry to hear this news Sephiroth, I didn't even know your dad was sick. This must be a very hard time for you. I've been where you are right now, know that, and I know how you feel, so many emotions going on inside your head, grief, sadness, remembrance, laughter, love, emptiness, respect, loyalty, I could go on and on. I feel for you Seph, and please know that all of us are here for you whenever you need us. I think you know this already, otherwise you wouldn't have posted this news to us. Try to keep yourself together friend, I know it is hard, but you must not totally lose yourself in grief, you must carry on, I'm sure your father would want it that way. Again, my sincere condolences, we are all with you and grieving with you on this so very sad day

Elif Godson · 01-04-2002, 09:03 PM

hold true his memory and you will find peace. My family sends our sympathies.

Scholarcs · 01-04-2002, 09:07 PM

Just remember the good times that you have had.

And remember, your Dad would want you to continue on with your life and do well, and not stay mourning him.

01-04-2002, 08:35 PM	#2
Aelia Jusa Iron Throne Cult Join Date: August 23, 2001 Location: Brisbane, Australia Age: 42 Posts: 4,867	Cody... I am so sorry. I'm sure platitudes won't help you, so I won't even try. Just know that if you need us, we will all be here with you, for you. biggest hugs __________________

01-04-2002, 08:36 PM	#4
Lavindathar Harper Join Date: March 21, 2001 Location: Lancs, England Age: 39 Posts: 4,729	Seph, when you was telling me u was posting this, I didnt realise that it would be that bad. I offer you every sympathy, and as I chat to you real time now, I promise you I will always be here for you as one of your bestest friends, as I have tried to be so far. Do not look for poems, or words, as none can express the feeling in your heart at the moment, and I have experianced death close in my family, although admittedly none of my parents. There is nothing anyone can say on here to make you feel any better, and I think it would be pointless trying. All i can say is, I hope you know that everyone here on IW, and especially your close friends are here for you. I only ever pray to god on rare occasions, but tonight Cody I will pray for your dad, and your family. May he rest in peace in heaven, place of the angels. I will be here forever for you Cody, always and forever. One of your best mates, Brad __________________ =@

01-04-2002, 08:45 PM	#6
Mirac Honorguard Red Wizard of Thay Join Date: August 21, 2001 Location: Limburg, Netherlands, Europe Age: 42 Posts: 894	I'm so sorry to hear that. You have my condolences, may you gain the strenght to deal with the loss of your father. Michiel __________________ <img border=\"0\" alt=\"[worship]\" title=\"\" src=\"graemlins/worship.gif\" /> TES IV : Oblivion<br /> <img border=\"0\" alt=\"[worship]\" title=\"\" src=\"graemlins/worship.gif\" /> Vanguard : Saga of Heroes

01-04-2002, 08:54 PM	#8
Ladyzekke Ironworks Atomic Moderator Join Date: January 7, 2001 Location: Virginia, U.S.A. Age: 57 Posts: 9,005	I'm so sorry to hear this news Sephiroth, I didn't even know your dad was sick. This must be a very hard time for you. I've been where you are right now, know that, and I know how you feel, so many emotions going on inside your head, grief, sadness, remembrance, laughter, love, emptiness, respect, loyalty, I could go on and on. I feel for you Seph, and please know that all of us are here for you whenever you need us. I think you know this already, otherwise you wouldn't have posted this news to us. Try to keep yourself together friend, I know it is hard, but you must not totally lose yourself in grief, you must carry on, I'm sure your father would want it that way. Again, my sincere condolences, we are all with you and grieving with you on this so very sad day __________________ Reality Show Recaps

01-04-2002, 09:03 PM	#9
Elif Godson Dracolich Join Date: August 28, 2001 Location: Hurricane Valley Age: 51 Posts: 3,089	hold true his memory and you will find peace. My family sends our sympathies. __________________ Children get Arthritis too! http://awtampa.kintera.org/jaaware

01-04-2002, 08:31 PM	#1
SSJ4Sephiroth Beholder Join Date: May 4, 2001 Location: The Outside Looking In Age: 37 Posts: 4,361	The topic speaks truth: there will be no more updates after this unless i gain the knowledge to contact the spirit plane somehow. thats right, he's dead... time of death: approximately 19:00. i know of no words, no poems, no lyrics, nothing to say how i felt about him or how i feel about this. he was a great man, he was always there for me when i needed him and was always there for his family. he's taught me just about every virtue i know of, instilled loyalty in me, and with that legacy he's gone. all i can think of saying is that i loved him very much, and i'll miss him now. thank you for your time and sympathy. Cody R. Lape

01-04-2002, 08:35 PM	#3
Neb Account deleted by Request Join Date: May 17, 2001 Location: . Age: 38 Posts: 8,802	My condolences Cody, may he rest in peace. Patrick

01-04-2002, 08:43 PM	#5
Sorcerer Alex Guest Posts: n/a	I am truly sorry about your loss, Cody. Nothing I or anyone else can say will make things any better, just make sure you remember all the good times you had with him, so that when you think of him, it is fondly, and not with pain in your heart. You and your family have my deepest sympathy, and I wish you all the best in dealing with this catastrophe.

01-04-2002, 08:50 PM	#7
Legolas Jack Burton Join Date: March 31, 2001 Location: The zephyr lands beneath the brine. Age: 39 Posts: 5,459	I'm VERY sorry to hear it Cody I don't think there are any words to say now, any lyrics that will help you. It's a great pain inside, and only time will numb it. But we are there for you if you wish to talk about it, so you are by no means alone. I'm glad you remember him as a good person, and understand how important he was to you. It'll make things easier on you. Steven Pijl

01-04-2002, 09:07 PM	#10
Scholarcs Red Dragon Join Date: December 5, 2001 Location: Auckland, New Zealand Age: 38 Posts: 1,557	Just remember the good times that you have had. And remember, your Dad would want you to continue on with your life and do well, and not stay mourning him.

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