Help Me, VERY BIG DILEMMA Right now - Page 2

Wilbur · 07-10-2002, 11:10 PM

If you're like me you'll go to high school and forget about everyone you met at middle school. It won't really matter unless you live in a small town.

LennonCook · 07-10-2002, 11:51 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Lioness:

Ask out whichever one you like. If you don't really like either, screw it and don't ask either out. People act like it's the rule... Do what you want, not what your friend says you should...you've no idea how thankful I am that i relied on my own common sense in 8th grade instead of my friends...

I agree- act on your feelings, not someone elses [img]smile.gif[/img]

Bahamut · 07-11-2002, 01:20 AM

I love to have that problem.. oh.. I already have it... college sux

Anyways, I'd go with who I like.. don't resort on second best... go for the gold...

Jafin · 07-11-2002, 01:40 AM

Don't you just love these problems? I know I do *voice dripping with sarcasm* [img]smile.gif[/img] Seems this happens to us teenagers doesn't it? LOL!

Anyhoo, I'd just go out with the one you like more, and not listen to what my friend is trying to get me to do, it's your life isn't it? Hope you got/get it figured out!

-Jafin

EDIT: Minor typo correction [img]smile.gif[/img]

[ 07-11-2002, 01:42 AM: Message edited by: Jafin ]

K T Ong · 07-11-2002, 02:28 AM

Listen, Padawan! [img]tongue.gif[/img]

You'll just have to make up your mind whom you like, SecretMaster. And once you have made up your mind, explain your choice as nicely as you can to the other one, and tell her that she and you can still be normal friends.

But before you make up your mind, give yourself some time to know both of them, as well as yourself. Say a couple years. Don't commit yourself yet. Truly knowing a person inside out takes a long time. There's no short cut. And before you choose to commit yourself full-heartedly to a girl, you jolly well know her inside out.

[ 07-11-2002, 02:29 AM: Message edited by: K T Ong ]

Scholarcs · 07-11-2002, 05:46 AM

heh just ask both of them out, and go out with the one that accepts.

But if they both accept...then boy you are in deep trouble.

Ok i know that wasn`t very helpful. [img]tongue.gif[/img]

Earthdog · 07-11-2002, 05:59 AM

Go out with the one that already likes you. If you like her too theres no danger of getting shot down and having your heart broken. Not until later at least.

Go for what you know

caleb · 07-11-2002, 06:00 AM

Go on 3 dates with both of them and make your choice.

Bruce The Aussie · 07-11-2002, 07:01 AM

i agree with Scholarcs but then again what do i know? i'm the one whos too nervouse to ask any girl out. [img]tongue.gif[/img]

07-11-2002, 01:20 AM	#13
Bahamut Iron Throne Cult Join Date: March 12, 2001 Location: Manila, Philippines Age: 39 Posts: 4,864	I love to have that problem.. oh.. I already have it... college sux Anyways, I'd go with who I like.. don't resort on second best... go for the gold... __________________ http://makeallthedifference.blogspot.com http://www.bratgirlcentral.com/cgi-b.../ikonboard.cgi

07-11-2002, 01:40 AM	#14
Jafin Symbol of Cyric Join Date: May 24, 2001 Location: The Lands of Forever Age: 39 Posts: 1,132	Don't you just love these problems? I know I do voice dripping with sarcasm [img]smile.gif[/img] Seems this happens to us teenagers doesn't it? LOL! Anyhoo, I'd just go out with the one you like more, and not listen to what my friend is trying to get me to do, it's your life isn't it? Hope you got/get it figured out! -Jafin EDIT: Minor typo correction [img]smile.gif[/img] [ 07-11-2002, 01:42 AM: Message edited by: Jafin ] __________________ [img]\"http://publish.hometown.aol.com/wolviejon/myhomepage/new_sig_image.jpg?mtbrand=AOL_US\" alt=\" - \" /><br />Proprietor of the Boogre Bar<br />And this is Bob, Chief Mischief Preventer of the Boogre Bar <img border=\"0\" alt=\"[elf]\" title=\"\" src=\"graemlins/elf.gif\" />

07-11-2002, 02:28 AM	#15
K T Ong Symbol of Cyric Join Date: January 27, 2002 Location: Plateau of Singapore Age: 61 Posts: 1,230	Listen, Padawan! [img]tongue.gif[/img] You'll just have to make up your mind whom you like, SecretMaster. And once you have made up your mind, explain your choice as nicely as you can to the other one, and tell her that she and you can still be normal friends. But before you make up your mind, give yourself some time to know* both of them, as well as yourself.* Say a couple years. Don't commit yourself yet. Truly knowing a person inside out takes a long time. There's no short cut. And before you choose to commit yourself full-heartedly to a girl, you jolly well know her inside out. [ 07-11-2002, 02:29 AM: Message edited by: K T Ong ] __________________ <br />Look! Everyone\'s admiring me! <img border=\"0\" title=\"\" alt=\"[Big Grin]\" src=\"biggrin.gif\" />

07-11-2002, 05:46 AM	#16
Scholarcs Red Dragon Join Date: December 5, 2001 Location: Auckland, New Zealand Age: 38 Posts: 1,557	heh just ask both of them out, and go out with the one that accepts. But if they both accept...then boy you are in deep trouble. Ok i know that wasn`t very helpful. [img]tongue.gif[/img] __________________ <br />\"A child of five would understand this. Send someone to fetch a child of five\" - Groucho Marx<br />Member of the ORT Clan. <br />\"Some birds are not meant to be caged because their feathers are too bright\"<br />Ma bouche sera la bouche des malheurs qui n\'ont point de bouche, ma voix, la liberté de celles qui s\'affaissent au cachot du désespoir. - Aimé Césaire<br />La plus perdue de toutes les journées est celle où l\'on n\'a pas ri. - Sébastien Roch Nicolas

07-11-2002, 05:59 AM	#17
Earthdog Emerald Dragon Join Date: May 1, 2001 Location: melbourne victoria australia Age: 58 Posts: 960	Go out with the one that already likes you. If you like her too theres no danger of getting shot down and having your heart broken. Not until later at least. Go for what you know __________________ THERE CAN BE ONLY ONE!!!

07-10-2002, 11:10 PM	#11
Wilbur Zhentarim Guard Join Date: May 25, 2002 Location: Centerville, Ohio Age: 35 Posts: 374	If you're like me you'll go to high school and forget about everyone you met at middle school. It won't really matter unless you live in a small town.

07-11-2002, 06:00 AM	#18
caleb Horus - Egyptian Sky God Join Date: April 10, 2001 Location: Tacoma, WA, U.S.A. Age: 40 Posts: 2,615	Go on 3 dates with both of them and make your choice.

07-11-2002, 07:01 AM	#19
Bruce The Aussie Fzoul Chembryl Join Date: March 2, 2001 Location: Chaotica (london,england) Age: 37 Posts: 1,798	i agree with Scholarcs but then again what do i know? i'm the one whos too nervouse to ask any girl out. [img]tongue.gif[/img]

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