My Mom is dying (Update) - Page 5

Cloudbringer · 02-21-2002, 08:30 PM

quote:
Originally posted by Ziroc:
Just wanted to keep you updated on how everything is going:

Yesterday she had a VERY bad day, and cried saying "I know I'm going to die now" but we calmed her down, and we have given her even stronger meds, but that, along with 3 Oxy-Contin (100mg) and she is still moaning. Today lot's of people came by, and we all stayed with her. The Minister gave her 'last rites' just incase something happens tonight. She is sleeping now-still moaning/grunting, but sleeping better..

Since yesterday she has been really incoherent.. closed eyes, saying things from her past, singing. But she is resting, atleast she isn't suffering. She will be in a better place soon, and I know that-she is very religious and always read her bible and prayer book.

It's hard guys, but I'm doing ok, Donna and my Sister are here, we're taking care of her.

She may pass soon (maybe even tomorrow morning) but you can't tell with cancer. it's so horrible.

I'm glad you guys are here too, I'll need ya!

God Bless you all, Dan. I know this is a really hard time for you and your family. Just know we are here and we care!

Cloudy

John D Harris · 02-21-2002, 08:36 PM

Dan,
There are no words I can say to comfort you during this time. My prayers are with your Mother, and you.
John

Ladyzekke · 02-21-2002, 09:22 PM

So sorry to hear things have gotten so bad Ziroc. It must be so hard for you to watch, but it sounds like you have been given a chance to accept the situation, rather than than when a loved one dies instantly without any warning. You can be there for her and never have to say "I wish I had told her... etc." Take the time when you can to let her know how much you love and have always appreciated her and everything she has done for you. Just know we are all here for you Ziroc in any way if you need us, and many of us have you and your mom in our prayers too.

Arvon · 02-21-2002, 09:41 PM

I am sorry for all my glibness I can't say the proper words. You and yours have our sympathy, and may your God bless you.

Victor von Steiner · 02-21-2002, 09:59 PM

My thoughts are with you Dan.

John

02-21-2002, 10:01 PM

Thank you Dan for being there for your mother!
May God's love carry you and yours through to happier days.
My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

SecretMaster · 02-21-2002, 10:12 PM

My best wishes and my condelences to your mother. I hope the best for your mom, and we will all pray for your mom, rest assured. We will all support you through these troubling times, and I'm sure all moderators will keep IW safe, so I guess i'm sayin is that don't worry bout us, will be fine, family matters are more important, especially these types of Grievances.

SecretMaster · 02-21-2002, 10:26 PM

God speed to your family Ziroc, its a hard thing to do, but we are all with you, and IW is with you, we all are. Your mother would be proud to see you helping her out in need, and I'm sure she's proud for all you've done here, you've made a website that has many compassionate souls, creative ones, laughing sensitive people. You are very brave to be challenging this Dan, if I were in your situation, i would coward down, but you are really brave. Here at IW, courage is considered a great trait, and we are all proud to see you do this.

We are all sad for this, and we hope the best for your mom. But remember that she will always be watching you, and think how proud she is of you, and soon her soul will be able to relax.

You are very brave and courageous to do this Dan, and I think everyone agrees with that, and we all wish the best for your mom.

Campino · 02-21-2002, 11:06 PM

I'm so sorry to hear that.May you and your family
find the strentgh somewhere to get through these very
difficult times.You are in my thoughts.

George

Azred · 02-21-2002, 11:55 PM

My most heartfelt condolences go out to you and your family during this painful time.

02-21-2002, 08:30 PM	#41
Cloudbringer Ironworks Moderator Join Date: March 1, 2001 Location: Upstate NY USA Posts: 19,737	quote: Originally posted by Ziroc: Just wanted to keep you updated on how everything is going: Yesterday she had a VERY bad day, and cried saying "I know I'm going to die now" but we calmed her down, and we have given her even stronger meds, but that, along with 3 Oxy-Contin (100mg) and she is still moaning. Today lot's of people came by, and we all stayed with her. The Minister gave her 'last rites' just incase something happens tonight. She is sleeping now-still moaning/grunting, but sleeping better.. Since yesterday she has been really incoherent.. closed eyes, saying things from her past, singing. But she is resting, atleast she isn't suffering. She will be in a better place soon, and I know that-she is very religious and always read her bible and prayer book. It's hard guys, but I'm doing ok, Donna and my Sister are here, we're taking care of her. She may pass soon (maybe even tomorrow morning) but you can't tell with cancer. it's so horrible. I'm glad you guys are here too, I'll need ya! God Bless you all, Dan. I know this is a really hard time for you and your family. Just know we are here and we care! Cloudy __________________ "Don't take life for granted." Animal (may he rest in peace)

02-21-2002, 08:36 PM	#42
John D Harris Ninja Storm Shadow Join Date: March 27, 2001 Location: Northport,Alabama, USA Age: 62 Posts: 3,577	Dan, There are no words I can say to comfort you during this time. My prayers are with your Mother, and you. John __________________ Crustiest of the OLD COOTS "Donating mirrors for years to help the Liberal/Socialist find their collective rear-ends, because both hands doesn't seem to be working. Veitnam 61-65:KIA 1864 66:KIA 5008 67:KIA 9378 68:KIA 14594 69:KIA 9414 70:KIA 4221 71:KIA 1380 72:KIA 300 Afghanistan2001-2008 KIA 585 2009-2012 KIA 1465 and counting Davros 1 Much abliged Massachusetts

02-21-2002, 09:22 PM	#43
Ladyzekke Ironworks Atomic Moderator Join Date: January 7, 2001 Location: Virginia, U.S.A. Age: 57 Posts: 9,005	So sorry to hear things have gotten so bad Ziroc. It must be so hard for you to watch, but it sounds like you have been given a chance to accept the situation, rather than than when a loved one dies instantly without any warning. You can be there for her and never have to say "I wish I had told her... etc." Take the time when you can to let her know how much you love and have always appreciated her and everything she has done for you. Just know we are all here for you Ziroc in any way if you need us, and many of us have you and your mom in our prayers too. __________________ Reality Show Recaps

02-21-2002, 11:06 PM	#49
Campino Avatar Join Date: November 12, 2001 Location: Netherlands Age: 55 Posts: 522	I'm so sorry to hear that.May you and your family find the strentgh somewhere to get through these very difficult times.You are in my thoughts. George __________________

02-21-2002, 11:55 PM	#50
Azred Drow Priestess Join Date: March 13, 2001 Location: a hidden sanctorum high above the metroplex Age: 54 Posts: 4,037	My most heartfelt condolences go out to you and your family during this painful time. __________________ Everything may be explained by a conspiracy theory. All conspiracy theories are true. No matter how thinly you slice it, it's still bologna.

02-21-2002, 09:41 PM	#44
Arvon Unicorn Join Date: October 4, 2001 Location: Kingdom of the West,..P.o. Cynagus Posts: 4,212	I am sorry for all my glibness I can't say the proper words. You and yours have our sympathy, and may your God bless you.

02-21-2002, 09:59 PM	#45
Victor von Steiner Silver Dragon Join Date: April 30, 2001 Location: Myth Drannor, Elven Court, Fareun Age: 53 Posts: 1,654	My thoughts are with you Dan. John

02-21-2002, 10:01 PM	#46
Moni Guest Posts: n/a	Thank you Dan for being there for your mother! May God's love carry you and yours through to happier days. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

02-21-2002, 10:12 PM	#47
SecretMaster Apophis Join Date: October 19, 2001 Location: New York Age: 37 Posts: 4,666	My best wishes and my condelences to your mother. I hope the best for your mom, and we will all pray for your mom, rest assured. We will all support you through these troubling times, and I'm sure all moderators will keep IW safe, so I guess i'm sayin is that don't worry bout us, will be fine, family matters are more important, especially these types of Grievances.

02-21-2002, 10:26 PM	#48
SecretMaster Apophis Join Date: October 19, 2001 Location: New York Age: 37 Posts: 4,666	God speed to your family Ziroc, its a hard thing to do, but we are all with you, and IW is with you, we all are. Your mother would be proud to see you helping her out in need, and I'm sure she's proud for all you've done here, you've made a website that has many compassionate souls, creative ones, laughing sensitive people. You are very brave to be challenging this Dan, if I were in your situation, i would coward down, but you are really brave. Here at IW, courage is considered a great trait, and we are all proud to see you do this. We are all sad for this, and we hope the best for your mom. But remember that she will always be watching you, and think how proud she is of you, and soon her soul will be able to relax. You are very brave and courageous to do this Dan, and I think everyone agrees with that, and we all wish the best for your mom.

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