05-01-2001, 06:57 PM | #51 | |
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One more thing... Moiraine made a good point. In Mexico,there is a saying that translate to "You can win an argument, or a friend. Rarely can you do both." (It sounds better in Spanish, really) An apology is definitely in order, that we hurt a friend. It doesn't matter if we have the right to say what we did, it doesn't matter that it was a joke, it doesn't matter that we didn't mean to hurt anyone. That thread hurt a friend. And for THAT, we should apologize. Choose a friend over your pride. It's that simple. ------------------ The RudeDawg Known in these Forgotten Realms as Perin LightEyes |
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05-01-2001, 07:09 PM | #52 |
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Moiraine, I commend you on your well-expressed ideas. If more people could express themselves as eloquently in their native tongue as you do in a second language, there would be far fewer misunderstandings.
For my part, I'm sorry to see people hurt for whatever reason, but most especially when it happens in an unintentional way. While one may be able to logically explain or defend a thought or deed, if someone was hurt by it, logic and intent become moot. If you truly care about the feelings of the person who was hurt, you will do whatever is needed to make them feel alright again, regardless of how right you may be or may think you are. If there is any other place on the whole of the internet where something like this discussion could happen in such a civilized manner, I have yet to hear tell of it. Fear divides, Love unites. |
05-01-2001, 07:12 PM | #53 |
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Hi Claude, missed you! I liked your points too, but have to say in my first job I was a boy of 16 with 5 other men and over 150+ women. Grew up very fast I can tell you! Thinking about it, I may sound chauvinstic sometimes because I am so relaxed around women and say things spontaneously without thinking of their perceived understanding. I remember I was cracking jokes about gays once and since I am totally non-homophobic I forgot there was gays present. Luckily, they laughed, as they knew it wasn't a dig or a statement, merely a joke about a stereotype. It can be easy to offend, if we are thoughtless.
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05-01-2001, 07:19 PM | #54 | |
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05-01-2001, 07:24 PM | #55 | |
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05-01-2001, 07:33 PM | #56 |
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Well I'm sure I'm going to catch some hell for this but truthfully I dont give a damn. I'm so tired of people being offended by trivial bullshit in seemingly every facet of our society. There was nothing visciously obnoxious in the Testosterone thread and certainly nothing to be taken seriously. Since LadyRae was THAT distraught over absolutely nothing then maybe she should seek some counseling during her time away from the board or double her prozac prescription since the current dosage is apparently inadequate. Offended? Sorry. LofA
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Intolerance is a disease... That's why I enjoy this forum. It's a healthy mix of people from all over the world. Sharing ideas. Since most of us have never met, we don't judge each other on appearance (tho, you can see me, and the others, at STEALTHY'S site. I'm the cool guy. ) it's all about the ideas... ------------------ The RudeDawg Known in these Forgotten Realms as Perin LightEyes |
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