05-17-2002, 06:10 PM | #211 | |
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Yes, in an ideal world a parent wouldn't be angry with their childs misbehaviour and the annoyances they bring. They also wouldn't have the pressures of career or marriage simmering under the surface. Yes, in an ideal world, a parent would give a single cold smack, hard enough to reprimand, yet light enough to show love and restraint. But this is not an ideal world. It is too easy to cross the line when physicality is used in conjunction with stress and anger. The question of age is another variable. For a very young child a smack may be the answer, but when do you stop? When they understand words? When they understand reason? When they are able to run away? When they are able to hit back? Also, does a father smack his son, and not his daughter? Sexism? Inequality? Potential sibling resentment? An open door for a sister to get their brother hit? Far better IMO to have a blanket "no smacking" policy, for we do not live in an ideal world. It is too easy to cross a line. The slogans that pushed the attitude: "It's never, ever acceptable to hit a woman" have done much to reduce male to female spousal abuse. It seems we have a way to go in female to male spousal abuse, and parent to child abuse. If a line is in danger of being crossed, remove it altogether. How about this? It is never, ever acceptable to hit a human. [ 05-17-2002, 06:12 PM: Message edited by: Yorick ] |
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05-17-2002, 06:15 PM | #213 | |
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[ 05-17-2002, 06:15 PM: Message edited by: MagiK ] |
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For the punishment to work, it is assumed the child has the logical powers to associate the pain with the misdemeanor. However, the stronger, simpler logic is that the pain is associated with the inflicter. This of course assumes that beating a child is a punishment, and not gratituous release of frustration on behalf of the parent.[/QUOTE]Sorry Yorick, I have spent quite enough time explainging my side of the issue, im not going to try and revisit the whole thing. All Ill say is that in MY experience with the children I interact with, "talk" just doesnt cut it.. They understand spanking far better than a logical disertation. |
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05-17-2002, 06:19 PM | #216 |
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Hmm, now when my lil ones were in diapers, I thought they were adorable and well worth "baby-jabbering-googooing" with. [img]smile.gif[/img]
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Oh and Logic does NOT equate to understanding. Humans of all ages are irrational beings. [ 05-17-2002, 06:26 PM: Message edited by: MagiK ] |
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We most emphatically DO NOT live in a utopian world, but that doesn't mean we shouldn't try to make it one. EDIT: I freely picked and chose bits of Yoricks posts, but I don't think I took anything out of context... [ 05-17-2002, 06:27 PM: Message edited by: Absynthe ] |
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