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child is and I do not call anyone who raises their hand to their child a kid-beater - I'd have to call my own parents kid-beater in that case.[/QUOTE]thsoe wortds may have been strong but what I meant was leaving it to the parents that think pain is the answer, since they find reasons to disallow opposing viewpoints |
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child is and I do not call anyone who raises their hand to their child a kid-beater - I'd have to call my own parents kid-beater in that case.[/QUOTE]You are right about people just merging disenting voices into one, it happens on both sides People also read things that were never said into posts as well. |
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child is and I do not call anyone who raises their hand to their child a kid-beater - I'd have to call my own parents kid-beater in that case.[/QUOTE]thsoe wortds may have been strong but what I meant was leaving it to the parents that think pain is the answer, since they find reasons to disallow opposing viewpoints[/QUOTE]All I have seen is for opposing viewpoints is people who havent had to have the responsibility of being a parent, saying what they would do in a situation. Im saying BS. to that, its like someone who is sitting comfy at home saying how they would react under fire..it is totally bull and should be disregarded as a person speaking from ignorance. Not all kids may need spanking....but I highly doubt it...I have not met many who were never spanked that behaves in what I consider to be a kind considerate and socially decent manner. I see daily the result of too little discipline in our kids. |
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Im glad for your "friends" who have never touched their kids, I hope their kids continue to be fine decent humans...Ill believe it when I see it, and they will be the exception rather than the rule. [ 05-16-2002, 02:23 PM: Message edited by: MagiK ] |
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My point actually was that if you believe that the only person to truly know about these things is a biological parent, how do you know for certain that you are one? And if it's not the biological parent thing, then what to you is the difference between a grown sibling having to take care of a child and for instance another family member such as an aunt? Quote:
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Well then Magik, if you are going to discard the opinion of anyone for that reason, shall I then discard yours because of it's falw??
You smack your kid occasionally, yes?? Well then, how do you know it's effective without being the reciver, maybe it doesn't make him harbour hatred to you, but that doesn't mean it won't in other situations, and still being happy with you doesn't necessarily mean your son isn't affected by them. By using pain as a method of discipline you aren't necessarily making them do good because they realise they should, they will most likely do it because of fear of punishment. A successfully raised child shouldn't need to be smacked IMO, because they would have strong moral values and not just be good because they subconsciously relate it with being smacked.
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MagiK - a small point to ponder. You seem to be asserting that without actually having had children, a person's views are without merit on the subject. However, that denies that someone can gain valid insight by study and observation. In fact, someone less intimately involved in a situation may be able to take a more balanced position on a subject.
By your logic, all male obstetricians would be barred from practicing medicine because they could not become pregnant [img]graemlins/crazyeyes.gif[/img] Btw, so far this has been a largely well mannered debate on what is clearly an emotive subject. Let's keep it that way and respect each other's opinions.
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Just because I do not value a persons opinion on a single subject, does not mean that I do not value that person, or their thoughts on other subjects.....the idea that I do not value people has been read into my posts (I did not write it or say it) and is a completley false assumption by anyone who thinks this.
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