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RoSs_bg2_rox · 04-25-2005, 02:57 PM

Yeah, you should really see what's happening with your other *series* relationship (as you put it).

If you have got the wrong signals from this new girl, she might be affecting your perspective on what you have. A saying which I should really heed, as it has been said to me many a time : A bird in the hand's worth two in the bush.

Having said all that, I think this girl does like you, and, once you decide what to do with your other relationship, you should persue her, and see what happens.

You only live once.

Aragorn1 · 04-25-2005, 03:18 PM

Why can't men and women write stuff down using a pre-selected set of phrases with clearly defined and mutually understood meanings [img]smile.gif[/img] WOuld realtionships be easy that way?

Seriously though, i would firstly advise you decide waht you want to do with your current relationship, as this clearly affects what you are going to do in your next

Secondly, if you decide to persue it, take your time a learn the lie of the land. Better a sow and steady start than a horrible wheel spin of over-eagerness on the wet tarmac of life [img]smile.gif[/img] . And ii'm not even a car-mad kind of guy

Northraven · 04-25-2005, 04:53 PM

Thanks for the advice so far. For all the people that advised me to decide what's happening with my current relationship first, I intend to, although it's not entirely up to me, neither of us has done anything wrong, but it takes two to keep a thing going

...I'm more concerned about whether I have to tiptoe around at work or not. Not that I wouldn't be interested if my current relationship ends up flushing down the toilet. On a somewhat related note what's everybody's opinion on how long one has to wait until he's no longer on the "rebound" [img]graemlins/1ponder.gif[/img]

Q'alooaith · 04-25-2005, 05:35 PM

If a relationship petters out over time and just fades away there is no rebound, so your free to start dating again from the moment it ends, or if you like to be on the safe side wait a day.

Mellagar · 04-25-2005, 10:34 PM

Think about it, and be conflicted about in the time it takes you wonder why you're so ridiculously confound about the matter, then you're healed and ready to continue on with your life. Or just get over it quickly and it goes by much faster.

Variol (Farseer) Elmwood · 04-26-2005, 05:59 AM

Ask her out on the weekend. The worst that can happen is that she'll say no or some such thing, but at least you'll know. Go to the Museum or something casual.

Link · 04-26-2005, 06:22 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Variol (Farseer) Elmwood:
Ask her out on the weekend. The worst that can happen is that she'll say no or some such thing, but at least you'll know. Go to the Museum or something casual.

[img]graemlins/saywhat.gif[/img] Dude! A museum? Any normal girl would blink twice, then laugh straight in your face!! Something casual would be going to the movies, or getting a drink somwhere. Not necessarily in the evening of course.

Mellagar · 04-26-2005, 08:15 AM

Some women may not like the idea of going to a movie or having a drink to start off. Besides, its up to him what he feels comfortable doing. There's really no great advice anyone can give you, aside from be yourself. Anything else is personal opinion.

04-25-2005, 02:57 PM	#11
RoSs_bg2_rox Zartan Join Date: May 20, 2003 Location: Near Aberdeen, Scotland Age: 36 Posts: 5,225	Yeah, you should really see what's happening with your other series relationship (as you put it). If you have got the wrong signals from this new girl, she might be affecting your perspective on what you have. A saying which I should really heed, as it has been said to me many a time : A bird in the hand's worth two in the bush. Having said all that, I think this girl does like you, and, once you decide what to do with your other relationship, you should persue her, and see what happens. You only live once. __________________ [img]\"http://img.ranchoweb.com/images/ladyzekke/dragonwater2.gif\" alt=\" - \" />

04-25-2005, 04:53 PM	#13
Northraven Manshoon Join Date: July 13, 2001 Location: Currently a land called Weyrth... Age: 46 Posts: 195	Thanks for the advice so far. For all the people that advised me to decide what's happening with my current relationship first, I intend to, although it's not entirely up to me, neither of us has done anything wrong, but it takes two to keep a thing going ...I'm more concerned about whether I have to tiptoe around at work or not. Not that I wouldn't be interested if my current relationship ends up flushing down the toilet. On a somewhat related note what's everybody's opinion on how long one has to wait until he's no longer on the "rebound" [img]graemlins/1ponder.gif[/img] __________________ \"Before the world was bent but after the great contagion, there was a civilization built in the image of the First Age. It sought to emulate the splendor of the bygone Golden Age, but it was in all ways less. It was a time of sorcery and heroism, of fabulous wonders and treacherous betrayals. Ruled by a decadent empire, it slipped inch by inch into barbarism and darkness, until one last cataclysm blotted it out forever. Yet, in it\'s sunset, it was a splendid thing, and glorious were the deeds of the Exalted.\"<br /><br />[url]\"http://www.sloganizer.net/en/\" target=\"_blank\"> [img]\"http://www.sloganizer.net/en/style7,Severed-spc-Fist.png\" alt=\" - \" /></a>

04-25-2005, 05:35 PM	#14
Q'alooaith Emerald Dragon Join Date: December 10, 2003 Location: UK Age: 41 Posts: 961	If a relationship petters out over time and just fades away there is no rebound, so your free to start dating again from the moment it ends, or if you like to be on the safe side wait a day. __________________ -Jenn

04-26-2005, 05:59 AM	#16
Variol (Farseer) Elmwood Jack Burton Join Date: May 16, 2003 Location: Dartmouth, NS Canada Age: 59 Posts: 5,634	Ask her out on the weekend. The worst that can happen is that she'll say no or some such thing, but at least you'll know. Go to the Museum or something casual. __________________ A MAN WHO WANTS FOR NOTHING HAS INFINITE WEALTH. (me)

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04-25-2005, 03:18 PM	#12
Aragorn1 Symbol of Cyric Join Date: July 3, 2001 Location: Cornwall England Age: 38 Posts: 1,197	Why can't men and women write stuff down using a pre-selected set of phrases with clearly defined and mutually understood meanings [img]smile.gif[/img] WOuld realtionships be easy that way? Seriously though, i would firstly advise you decide waht you want to do with your current relationship, as this clearly affects what you are going to do in your next Secondly, if you decide to persue it, take your time a learn the lie of the land. Better a sow and steady start than a horrible wheel spin of over-eagerness on the wet tarmac of life [img]smile.gif[/img] . And ii'm not even a car-mad kind of guy

04-25-2005, 10:34 PM	#15
Mellagar Avatar Join Date: June 16, 2001 Location: Far from where I was, nearer where I wish. Age: 42 Posts: 563	Think about it, and be conflicted about in the time it takes you wonder why you're so ridiculously confound about the matter, then you're healed and ready to continue on with your life. Or just get over it quickly and it goes by much faster.

04-26-2005, 08:15 AM	#18
Mellagar Avatar Join Date: June 16, 2001 Location: Far from where I was, nearer where I wish. Age: 42 Posts: 563	Some women may not like the idea of going to a movie or having a drink to start off. Besides, its up to him what he feels comfortable doing. There's really no great advice anyone can give you, aside from be yourself. Anything else is personal opinion.

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