I have a problem... do you?

[Ronn_Bman]

LOL @Mack_Attack!!!!!!

[Tancred]

Originally posted by Black Dragon: Tancred... We are sorry for your loss, we did not mean to offend anyone. We are glad to hear that your friend's stalker did quit stalking him though, we don't think our stalker is that bad of one, at least, we hope our stalker wont get to be that bad, especially considering we like one of her friends...

Ah, don't worry about that, man! It could have been worse - It could have been me! [img]smile.gif[/img] Trust me - one day, you'll look back on all this and laugh yourself silly. That's what school is for!

Tanc - still smilin'

[T/-/alali]

My Mom is a stalker. She Follows KillingSpree's family and her around. Its scary. Im pretty sure she is a demon as well...

[ 10-30-2002, 07:51 PM: Message edited by: T/-/alali ]

[Tancred]

Originally posted by Ronn_Bman: STALKERS SUCK!!!!!!!! Unless, of course, yours is good looking, which would make her a prospective friend.

Two words, Ronn - 'bunny boiler'

Tanc

[D W Washburn]

Originally posted by Black Dragon: ... /)eathkiller, we don't go for guys man... It's just not right to us, we're not saying we have anything against gays, but we aren't gay... Just like we are free of religion, we have no religion at all, we believe in no god, none at all. Its just how we are, we don't believe in god, we don't have not religion, we don't date guys, its that simple...

This stalker thing has me spooked pretty bad. Your talking about gym class where you feel like someone is watching you in particular whatever your doing. That does sound a little far fetched but lets go on to the next concern. You think a gay stalker is out to get you.?

Personally speaking, non of this sounds rational and when you go to school expect other kids to be there. Regardless of what you think I'm sure this person is not gay or sways anyway twards that lifestyle.

Going to school and finishing is important for sure. You learn to repect teachers and cops very quick among other things. Later on they become people who really care what gos on in their lives. Like a brother or sister.

Being loud, quiet, careless in ones younger years gave me pleasant memories and friendships in the end also Tancred. That person who had a handicap , who swept the floors, with a brace came out of it years later to be the owner of the multi-colored robe

D.W.

[Nanobyte]

Originally posted by Ronn_Bman: STALKERS SUCK!!!!!!!! Unless, of course, yours is good looking, which would make her a prospective friend.

Hmm.. Can I quote you on that?

[ 10-30-2002, 11:21 PM: Message edited by: Nanobyte ]

[True_Moose]

I had a stalker once, she was freaky as all hell. I mean seriously, she followed me around EVERYWHERE, she left me these little cutesie @$$ notes about emailing her at like, single_cinderalla@hotmail.com Then I got my girlfriend to confront her. Oh, that was a good day

[Redblueflare]

Originally posted by True_Moose: I had a stalker once, she was freaky as all hell. I mean seriously, she followed me around EVERYWHERE, she left me these little cutesie @$$ notes about emailing her at like, single_cinderalla@hotmail.com Then I got my girlfriend to confront her. Oh, that was a good day

LMAO! You are truly evil do you know that Moose? Of course what else were you supposed to do? She deserved that... [img]tongue.gif[/img]

[Albromor]

What you have in stalkers are people with obsessive need for reinforcement because on a psychological level they are "empty" inside looking for mirroring from the objects in their environment to give love, reassurrance, acceptance, and the deep need to belong -- which we all have a need for. Somewhere though there is lacking intrapsychically a personal identity and thus a stalker must go outside of oneself to gain identity. Basically what I am trying to convey is that these people are deeply, deeply wounded which their behavior demonstrates because anyone who has a healthy, intact identity does not need to engage in stalking behavior. Here is the real dilemma for the stalker: by the very behavior they engage in to fill their need it is conversely the very behavior that drives away their object of choice. Thus their life becomes obsessed with gaining this object and healthy boundaries are almost non-exsistant. In extreme cases such rejection turns to frustration and then anger and then I'd seriously watch my back. Here is another problem in this whole mix. Because a stalker is so deeply wounded they cannot look inward at their pain. It is too much to handle. That is why repeated ignorings, warnings, shunnings don't work because if they stop and ponder the rejection then they must look inward -- and the pain is just too great. What you have then are people in great psychological pain, most likely boarderline, who want to desperately relate on a healthy human level but truly lack interpersonal skills that most of us take for granted. Basically when you see a stalker in action you are seeing pain in motion, in speech, in behavior, and in attitude. They hurt so much. Two big questions for them are: "Who am I?" and "Where do I fit in and how?" They are haunted by their emptiness.

[Hiram Sedai]

This may be a possibility. I found that perhaps someone you think is "stalking" you might not be and it's your imagination. I've been told repeatedly that the attractive brunette was not looking at me and that its all in my mind.

I'd like to think that she was secretly yearning for me and I might have a chance but it wasn't meant to be because she had taste after all and I am nothing more that a freckle on the left butt cheek of humanity.

Oh, where was I? You are being stalked. Enjoy!!