Friends x (help!)

[Bungleau]

Your mind is in the right place, so the answer you come up with will be a good one.

God's peace. Good luck.

*B*

[Memnoch]

Originally posted by sylent: What LK said is pretty much what I was thinkning my friend would be faced with. While honesty is a great thing it can often be hurtful, and a white lie is probably a much easier option than confrontation.

Just a personal comment on this - it might be easier in the short term perhaps, but I've always believed in making the hard decisions now, rather than making an easy one which might turn out to be a hard one later.

I also thought about what Bungleau said, about games being played. I'd really hope it wasn't that, but I have unfortunately seen it happen before. There's some seriously wierd circles occuring - the girl who tried to set us up is also my friends ex girlfriend and she went out with another of my friends to make him jealous. (if that makes sense) All this makes me think I should just stay out of it! Sorry about not using names, some of my friends have been known to frequent these forums, and I don't want to stir up more trouble than its worth.

You've got to be really careful with this and make sure you're not being used. This kind of intrigue and petty backbiting won't help anyone, least of all yourself.