Women problems! Help from anyone?Please?

[DrowArchmage]

Alright, heres the situation. My girlfriend, cheated on me once, i forgave her, she cheats on me again. I get a "little" POed at her, pop the kid in the dome-peice and figured that would end my problem with him, WRONG!!! She breaks up with me two hours later for giving a girl a hug cuz she had a bad day. Not only that, but now she's harrasing me about my new GF! The nerve!! If she wasnt a girl, i'd knock her so hard.............but i'd never hit a girl out of anger,she knows that,and she's useing it to her advantage. Help me please! If you guys need more info to help and i'll happily tell you all you need to know.

Thanks,
DA

[Albromor]

DA, this is long and deep and I'll take a stab with what you gave us.. It sounds like major control issues on her part, i.e., she can say and do as she pleases but anyone else's boundaries she runs over them like a tank. Am I close here? She is the kind that can tell others no but doesn't respect other people's no. She doesn't like it. Am I even close?

You are going to have to as best you can to severe all ties. There is no compromise here because she can't/won't accept it. You can't reason with somebody in that frame of mind.

[Hivetyrant]

Hmm, are you the type of person who like to forget and get over things? or do you prefer a little revenge first?

[Sir Degrader]

Seriously, don't take that type of shit. Tell her to screw off, if she continues, then talk to her boyfriends, if they fight back, whoop them. Its not nice, but neither is she.

[ 12-06-2005, 08:16 PM: Message edited by: Sir Degrader ]

[shadowhound]

I wouldnt have stayed with her after she cheated on me the first time, forget about her completely cut all ties and focus on your current gf.

[Ladyzekke]

Maybe if you just ignore her eventually she will give it up and go away. In other words, run from the toxic pool, don't jump into it, as Sir Degrader would have you do LOL.

[Sir Degrader]

Fight fire with fire. In essence, if she keeps it up, set her house ablaze. I'm joking of course. LZ is right. In most cases, ignore her. If she persists, THEN you have a problem, and a large one. Talk to a lawyer regarding harrasment, or her husband (my option).

[ 12-06-2005, 08:35 PM: Message edited by: Sir Degrader ]

[Ladyzekke]

ROTFL, see what I'm sayin? [img]graemlins/hehe.gif[/img]

LOL, Sir D edited so now I have to as well ROTFL.

Ahem, yes best to just leave it, ignore it, run far away from it and any of its companions. Hopefully she'll find some other victim and will leave you alone, and your girlfriends alone.

I remember once I had this boyfriend I broke up with, and he kinda followed me everywhere I went on the weekends after the breakup (and I was in a small town so it was pretty easy to find anyone with only a few hangout spots around). If I had a date, he would go up to them and do some weird preachy thing about treating me right and crap. Sometimes when I visited a friend of mine he'd show up, just to say HI, etc. etc. He also one time showed up at my house during the summer late morning when school was out, and since I lived in the sticks the house door wasn't always locked, and he'd show up, just walk in the house to visit me for some odd reason, would walk right into my bedroom while I was sleeping in late. Gah it got insane and I remember that time I just told him flat out "I don't love you ****". He got all teary and ran out the door, blah. Anyways, mostly what I did after our breakup, even amongst all his stalking, was to just try to avoid him. If I saw him I'd go somewhere else, and eventually he found another girlfriend, and eventually got married! So the avoidance did the trick. [img]smile.gif[/img]

[ 12-06-2005, 08:50 PM: Message edited by: ladyzekke ]

[shadowhound]

Well if you are desperate I know some people who know some people who for the right price...

[Sir Degrader]

Originally posted by ladyzekke: ROTFL, see what I'm sayin? [img]graemlins/hehe.gif[/img] LOL, Sir D edited so now I have to as well ROTFL. Ahem, yes best to just leave it, ignore it, run far away from it and any of its companions. Hopefully she'll find some other victim and will leave you alone, and your girlfriends alone. I remember once I had this boyfriend I broke up with, and he kinda followed me everywhere I went on the weekends after the breakup (and I was in a small town so it was pretty easy to find anyone with only a few hangout spots around). If I had a date, he would go up to them and do some weird preachy thing about treating me right and crap. Sometimes when I visited a friend of mine he'd show up, just to say HI, etc. etc. He also one time showed up at my house during the summer late morning when school was out, and since I lived in the sticks the house door wasn't always locked, and he'd show up, just walk in the house to visit me for some odd reason, would walk right into my bedroom while I was sleeping in late. Gah it got insane and I remember that time I just told him flat out "I don't love you ****". He got all teary and ran out the door, blah. Anyways, mostly what I did after our breakup, even amongst all his stalking, was to just try to avoid him. If I saw him I'd go somewhere else, and eventually he found another girlfriend, and eventually got married! So the avoidance did the trick. [img]smile.gif[/img]