should i go?

Stormymystic · 04-26-2003, 03:54 AM

I am a member of a grou that parties every month, the problem is i am really not wanting to go, but husband does should i go and try to have fun, or not go and upset everyone who is expecting me to be there? it is later today (saturday) and it is byob i really could use advice

LennonCook · 04-26-2003, 03:57 AM

If you think it would be better for you to not go, don`t go.
Why go to a party if you think you`ll have trouble enjoying it ??

Stormymystic · 04-26-2003, 03:59 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by LennonCook:
If you think it would be better for you to not go, don`t go.
Why go to a party if you think you`ll have trouble enjoying it ??

because if i dont go, my husband and friends will be hurt and upset at me

Arledrian · 04-26-2003, 04:03 AM

Just drink a bit before you go out - enough to get buzzed, and enough to want to schwing your stuff for the next couple of hours. I've often felt incredibly lethargic but then perked right up after a few beers. Tonight was no exception [img]tongue.gif[/img]

Kakero · 04-26-2003, 04:28 AM

If your husband want you to go, go for a while ( where's the party held? near your house ? ). after a while make excuses like you got to watch the kids or something like that.

johnny · 04-26-2003, 04:40 AM

You said you're in a group that party's every month, so why should it be a big deal if you skip one party ? There's another one next month, right ?

If they're upset with you for not being there, well, tough luck. If you don't feel like going, then don't go. You should do what YOU want, not what OTHERS want.

Melusine · 04-26-2003, 04:47 AM

Agree with Johnny. If you don't feel like going, then that's just too bad for the others. If they'd get upset at you for something as trivial as that I would find it odd.

LordKathen · 04-26-2003, 07:08 AM

Stormy, don't go if you dont want to. I think that they would feel the vibe if you went, witch would'nt be good for anyone. [img]smile.gif[/img]

Harkoliar · 04-26-2003, 10:41 AM

well, if it was me (who is very conservative) who really doest want to go.. just go there.. eat and leave (after greeting a few people here and there).. or else dont go at all..

Stormymystic · 04-26-2003, 11:15 AM

it is out of town, my parents will watch the kids and we wil get a hotel room for the night, i think i will go, just to et away from the kids for a night, doesn't meani have to stay at party, and we are going to leave early enough to getsome rest before we go toparty

04-26-2003, 03:54 AM	#1
Stormymystic Knight of the Rose Join Date: April 8, 2003 Location: Arkansas Age: 49 Posts: 4,442	I am a member of a grou that parties every month, the problem is i am really not wanting to go, but husband does should i go and try to have fun, or not go and upset everyone who is expecting me to be there? it is later today (saturday) and it is byob i really could use advice __________________ [url]\"http://stormymystic.deviantart.com/gallery/\" target=\"_blank\"> [img]\"http://img92.imageshack.us/img92/3968/stormyvx6.jpg\" alt=\" - \" /></a>

04-26-2003, 04:03 AM	#4
Arledrian Egyptian Goddess of the Dead Join Date: July 12, 2001 Location: South Carolina Age: 41 Posts: 3,771	Just drink a bit before you go out - enough to get buzzed, and enough to want to schwing your stuff for the next couple of hours. I've often felt incredibly lethargic but then perked right up after a few beers. Tonight was no exception [img]tongue.gif[/img] __________________ Marvellous banter; I am bereft of ribs.

04-26-2003, 04:40 AM	#6
johnny 40th Level Warrior Join Date: April 15, 2002 Location: Utrecht The Netherlands Age: 59 Posts: 16,981	You said you're in a group that party's every month, so why should it be a big deal if you skip one party ? There's another one next month, right ? If they're upset with you for not being there, well, tough luck. If you don't feel like going, then don't go. You should do what YOU want, not what OTHERS want. __________________

04-26-2003, 04:47 AM	#7
Melusine Dracolisk Join Date: January 8, 2001 Location: Amsterdam, The Netherlands Age: 45 Posts: 6,541	Agree with Johnny. If you don't feel like going, then that's just too bad for the others. If they'd get upset at you for something as trivial as that I would find it odd. __________________ [img]\"hosted/melusine.jpg\" alt=\" - \" /><br />Your voice is ambrosia

04-26-2003, 07:08 AM	#8
LordKathen Ma'at - Goddess of Truth & Justice Join Date: September 15, 2002 Location: Kennewick, WA Age: 53 Posts: 3,166	Stormy, don't go if you dont want to. I think that they would feel the vibe if you went, witch would'nt be good for anyone. [img]smile.gif[/img] __________________

04-26-2003, 03:57 AM	#2
LennonCook Jack Burton Join Date: November 10, 2001 Location: Bathurst & Orange, in constant flux Age: 38 Posts: 5,452	If you think it would be better for you to not go, don`t go. Why go to a party if you think you`ll have trouble enjoying it ??

04-26-2003, 04:28 AM	#5
Kakero 40th Level Warrior Join Date: March 24, 2002 Posts: 10,215	If your husband want you to go, go for a while ( where's the party held? near your house ? ). after a while make excuses like you got to watch the kids or something like that.

04-26-2003, 10:41 AM	#9
Harkoliar Jack Burton Join Date: March 21, 2001 Location: Philippines, but now Harbor City Sydney Age: 42 Posts: 5,556	well, if it was me (who is very conservative) who really doest want to go.. just go there.. eat and leave (after greeting a few people here and there).. or else dont go at all.. __________________ Catch me if you can..

04-26-2003, 11:15 AM	#10
Stormymystic Knight of the Rose Join Date: April 8, 2003 Location: Arkansas Age: 49 Posts: 4,442	it is out of town, my parents will watch the kids and we wil get a hotel room for the night, i think i will go, just to et away from the kids for a night, doesn't meani have to stay at party, and we are going to leave early enough to getsome rest before we go toparty __________________ [url]\"http://stormymystic.deviantart.com/gallery/\" target=\"_blank\"> [img]\"http://img92.imageshack.us/img92/3968/stormyvx6.jpg\" alt=\" - \" /></a>

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