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Originally posted by Melusine:
Of course, that is obvious, Harkoliar. Doh, I know he's not meaning to say we should celebrate sad events, but accept them and deal with them. That is perfectly clear to me. My disagreement in this is that I don't think everybody can deal with every situation and emerge a better person. I don't think the foolproof way of living a happy life is to choose to live one (though a positive approach is certainly helpful) because of circumstances that we cannot imagine (because we haven't experienced them ourselves).
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fool proof way? you call "reasoning" "being rational" "face hurtful feelings" fool proof? well, what I did so far was presenting my opinion. obviously it "offended" you. you told me I was being insulting after all, and I am naive... well, funny, because until the third page of the debate, all you did was subtly attacking me
I don't care
but you really should consider challenging my opinion instead of throwing insulting words everyonce a while