Oh,then I was nice to him.

Or you could have told him he cause you to 'switch sides' and get a girlfriend [img]tongue.gif[/img]

It may seem like your hurting someone by not returning their feelings, but in the long run it's kinder to tell them up front than to string them along until things come to a head. If you're firm and tell him you've moved on he'll move on himself.

Thanks [img]smile.gif[/img]
I think that I made that clear to him (he was quite disappointed and angry,but at least I told the truth and told it politely).

How angry was he? (You are not responsible for his anger, by the way)

Too angry,in my opinion.This forum is for kids too,so I am not going to use the words he did.

I am hoping you don't have a potential problem on your hands.

How old is he?

He is 18,as am I. Thanks for your worry Charean [img]smile.gif[/img]

How hard can it be to just say no, or get lost ? It's nice of you that you don't want to hurt his feelings, but make sure your own feelings don't get hurt first. You said you already were involved with him once, and you don't want him anymore... well, just tell him that.

Purre, if you want someone to talk to, I am on MSN. [img]smile.gif[/img]