Cloudy's Cafe- a conversation zone 2-12-03 - Page 11

antryg · 02-13-2003, 12:45 AM

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Originally posted by arion windrider:
knocks on the cafe door... "is anybody home?"

I'm at home; that's why I'm not in the Cafe.

arion windrider · 02-13-2003, 12:48 AM

smartypants, ant

so whats up ??? its quiet tonite

wellard · 02-13-2003, 01:27 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by arion windrider:
smartypants, ant so whats up ??? its quiet tonite

G'day cobbers

How are you doing Arion, I noticed in a few of your posts that you are sounding down. Life at your sisters place getting to you? What do you do for a living if you dont mind me asking. (if ya do just ignore [img]graemlins/heee.gif[/img] )

arion windrider · 02-13-2003, 03:30 AM

wellard, im just alone alot.. not that living and sharing a house with a sister and her family isnt bad. its just hard to be happy at times when u dont have anybody to share it with.. i work in retail in mgt. i work different shifts alot and doesnt allow me much time to go out and have fun.. weird thing is i dont have many friends like i did when i live down in california.. my sister is the reason i moved to wash st.. she is all i have left of family on both sides... kinda sad, when u get older u lose things that are dear to u.. just thinking bout my family makes me cry and thats pretty easy these days when u dont have much to lean on.. my sister has her family to lean on, and i can count on is my sister.. but who knows...

wellard · 02-13-2003, 04:16 AM

Well Arion it sounds like the black dogs of depression are barking around you my friend. Do you go out much with your sister. Does she have kids, Being around kids helps cheer me up. Taking them to a zoo or just the local park worked for me, Its hard not to smile when around kids.

arion windrider · 02-13-2003, 04:21 AM

she has kids, three of them.. i love em dearly.. my sis is always busy tryin to take care of the two younger ones, one has eplilpsy(spelling is off) and the other is just too young.. the ages are 11,7,3... kinda crazy when all are around especially when i have to work 3rd shifts soon, thank goodness for one week a month [img]smile.gif[/img] im happy most of the time, i do like coming in here and have fun, even if i do get ignored by most of the posters... i guess me not being in here in awhile did that.. i dont kno much about anybody in here even if i started up in 2001...

wellard · 02-13-2003, 04:32 AM

Yeah It takes time to get in with the crowd, but we have to remember that so many people just come for a while then dissapear. It takes a long time to pick up on bits of personal information and such that will allow you to connect with someone.

Yeah sometimes when you post in the cafe something that is on your mind, and it gets lost in spam or other discusions it can hurt. I guess the trick is not to take it to heart and keep trying to smile. I know Cloudy has been busting a gut recently trying to keep things on track.

arion windrider · 02-13-2003, 04:40 AM

wellard, its not that bout being lost in the crowd.. its like im not there at times... u know, i try to stay included but everyone has their own lil group and kinda see the interlopers as just that.. i had the same experience when i was growing up, part of the popular group but not really popular.. does that make sense...

johnny · 02-13-2003, 04:52 AM

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Originally posted by arion windrider:
wellard, its not that bout being lost in the crowd.. its like im not there at times... u know, i try to stay included but everyone has their own lil group and kinda see the interlopers as just that.. i had the same experience when i was growing up, part of the popular group but not really popular.. does that make sense...

You're not being ignored dude, it happens to everybody. Take a look around, read a lot of threads, and you'll see that noone can have answers from everyone ALL the time. Which doesn't mean that noone reads your posts btw, cause they do.

arion windrider · 02-13-2003, 04:54 AM

thanks johnny... oh how was your bday??? didya get smashed?? heheh

02-13-2003, 12:48 AM	#102
arion windrider Red Wizard of Thay Join Date: May 26, 2001 Location: Vancouver,Wa. Age: 55 Posts: 800	smartypants, ant so whats up ??? its quiet tonite __________________ \"if it aint broke dont fix it\" <img border=\"0\" alt=\"[dogrun]\" title=\"\" src=\"graemlins/dogrun.gif\" /> <br /><b>proud member of the penguin army</b> <img border=\"0\" title=\"\" alt=\"[Smile]\" src=\"smile.gif\" />

02-13-2003, 03:30 AM	#104
arion windrider Red Wizard of Thay Join Date: May 26, 2001 Location: Vancouver,Wa. Age: 55 Posts: 800	wellard, im just alone alot.. not that living and sharing a house with a sister and her family isnt bad. its just hard to be happy at times when u dont have anybody to share it with.. i work in retail in mgt. i work different shifts alot and doesnt allow me much time to go out and have fun.. weird thing is i dont have many friends like i did when i live down in california.. my sister is the reason i moved to wash st.. she is all i have left of family on both sides... kinda sad, when u get older u lose things that are dear to u.. just thinking bout my family makes me cry and thats pretty easy these days when u dont have much to lean on.. my sister has her family to lean on, and i can count on is my sister.. but who knows... __________________ \"if it aint broke dont fix it\" <img border=\"0\" alt=\"[dogrun]\" title=\"\" src=\"graemlins/dogrun.gif\" /> <br /><b>proud member of the penguin army</b> <img border=\"0\" title=\"\" alt=\"[Smile]\" src=\"smile.gif\" />

02-13-2003, 04:16 AM	#105
wellard Dracolisk Join Date: November 1, 2002 Location: Australia ..... G\'day! Posts: 6,123	Well Arion it sounds like the black dogs of depression are barking around you my friend. Do you go out much with your sister. Does she have kids, Being around kids helps cheer me up. Taking them to a zoo or just the local park worked for me, Its hard not to smile when around kids. __________________ fossils - natures way of laughing at creationists for over 3 billion years

02-13-2003, 04:21 AM	#106
arion windrider Red Wizard of Thay Join Date: May 26, 2001 Location: Vancouver,Wa. Age: 55 Posts: 800	she has kids, three of them.. i love em dearly.. my sis is always busy tryin to take care of the two younger ones, one has eplilpsy(spelling is off) and the other is just too young.. the ages are 11,7,3... kinda crazy when all are around especially when i have to work 3rd shifts soon, thank goodness for one week a month [img]smile.gif[/img] im happy most of the time, i do like coming in here and have fun, even if i do get ignored by most of the posters... i guess me not being in here in awhile did that.. i dont kno much about anybody in here even if i started up in 2001... __________________ \"if it aint broke dont fix it\" <img border=\"0\" alt=\"[dogrun]\" title=\"\" src=\"graemlins/dogrun.gif\" /> <br /><b>proud member of the penguin army</b> <img border=\"0\" title=\"\" alt=\"[Smile]\" src=\"smile.gif\" />

02-13-2003, 04:32 AM	#107
wellard Dracolisk Join Date: November 1, 2002 Location: Australia ..... G\'day! Posts: 6,123	Yeah It takes time to get in with the crowd, but we have to remember that so many people just come for a while then dissapear. It takes a long time to pick up on bits of personal information and such that will allow you to connect with someone. Yeah sometimes when you post in the cafe something that is on your mind, and it gets lost in spam or other discusions it can hurt. I guess the trick is not to take it to heart and keep trying to smile. I know Cloudy has been busting a gut recently trying to keep things on track. __________________ fossils - natures way of laughing at creationists for over 3 billion years

02-13-2003, 04:40 AM	#108
arion windrider Red Wizard of Thay Join Date: May 26, 2001 Location: Vancouver,Wa. Age: 55 Posts: 800	wellard, its not that bout being lost in the crowd.. its like im not there at times... u know, i try to stay included but everyone has their own lil group and kinda see the interlopers as just that.. i had the same experience when i was growing up, part of the popular group but not really popular.. does that make sense... __________________ \"if it aint broke dont fix it\" <img border=\"0\" alt=\"[dogrun]\" title=\"\" src=\"graemlins/dogrun.gif\" /> <br /><b>proud member of the penguin army</b> <img border=\"0\" title=\"\" alt=\"[Smile]\" src=\"smile.gif\" />

02-13-2003, 04:54 AM	#110
arion windrider Red Wizard of Thay Join Date: May 26, 2001 Location: Vancouver,Wa. Age: 55 Posts: 800	thanks johnny... oh how was your bday??? didya get smashed?? heheh __________________ \"if it aint broke dont fix it\" <img border=\"0\" alt=\"[dogrun]\" title=\"\" src=\"graemlins/dogrun.gif\" /> <br /><b>proud member of the penguin army</b> <img border=\"0\" title=\"\" alt=\"[Smile]\" src=\"smile.gif\" />

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