10-29-2001, 06:43 PM | #31 | |
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and you are damn right, the one that doesnt want to waste time on you is not worth your time, got to show her that too! however, I also heard that one shouldn't give up a relationship that easy, it is just simply not responsible or courageous. I mean, if I back out on her, it will only further prove her belief on "I am not worthy" ofc it is not my problem, but since I care so much about her, I think I have to help back out doesnt equal to back off, btw |
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10-29-2001, 06:44 PM | #32 | |
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10-29-2001, 06:45 PM | #33 | |
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thats when I was first told to back off, I did exactly that. then things just stimulate between me and her, and I thought she is all over with her problems and ready to accept me... then this crap... jesus |
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10-29-2001, 07:05 PM | #34 |
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Hey 250, I didnt really mean for you to go and tell her to f*ck off, I'm all for your trying to make it work. I guess my point is if things dont work now, will they work in a few years and are you willing to change/bend that much? I know from here on the boards your a stubborn kinda guy and I guess I'm that way too But walking on eggshells trying not to break any is impossible,eh? Well I think so anyway.
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10-29-2001, 07:11 PM | #35 | |
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thank you bro, you are right, I am stubbon, and you too, hardly a bad thing |
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10-29-2001, 08:25 PM | #36 |
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hey 250,
for some wierd reason or not, i think we are going through the same problem right now... i having a pretty hard time with my own relationship right now and i do feel to share you my own experience recently... i trying (very patiently trying) to court this girl right now (im in first year college btw). we have been friends before and i fell in love with her two years ago (althogh something happened and had to end before it even started) , but i got over it. but when we met again in college, i fell back in love with her. . right now im trying to talk to her but always she doesnt have the "time" and "energy". i know that she is having famliy problems (big ones) and broken up with a guy before ( i know that one too because she confided that with me as a friend (and i backed off then since i respected the girl and the guy and dont want to butt into a relationship). since im kinda more mature now, when i look at it, it still hurts for me to even push through with the realtionship. reasons: 1. she doesnt have time to even talk on the phone at night time 2. i feel its a one sided realtioship since she doesnt respond to my messages 3. i hardly get to meet her like only once a week because of our conflicting schedules 4. she admits that "i may try but we will never know the answer for a while" 5. i dont know if she aviods me purposely or not in love reason to continue the relationship: 1. im her friend 2. she is having a hard time in her life right now that i feel that its not her fault that the relationship its not working out 3. i like (love?) her personal conclusion: 1. maybe she doenst want a realtionship so she will not get hurt if something happens 2. maybe she is afraid to take that path again since she has been hurt already 3. i dont know what else... 4. help? here is my own experiences 250, maybe you might get something from it ------------------ Revived I Am to hunt this world... Banish ye evil or face my wrath... |
10-29-2001, 08:40 PM | #37 |
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bro, we are different
all I can say is something I figured out on my own: you must be able to live with yourself, I mean, both emotionally and physically. dont feel like "oh my god, I cannot live with out her" if you do, you are gonna have problems. that is all I can say so, she may not want a relationship, I guess if you still want her, you must keep a distance until she comes out of the shadow in her own time. good luck (to both of us) |
10-30-2001, 04:06 AM | #38 |
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AMEN!!!!
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10-30-2001, 04:09 AM | #39 |
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Hey 250, whenever you're with her, remember two words than guys live by..
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10-30-2001, 04:18 AM | #40 | |
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how much do you think is really "laid back"? I mean, when I am ACTUALLY WITH HER, everything works out perfect... or maybe she doesnt mention it but when we are on internet... geez... sometimes it can get real ugly... (ofc, I always obey principle number1: delay anger) |
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