what should I do??!!

[250]

Fljotsdale, she does a lot of self critisizing, I mean A LOT. it is like a habbit of her to negativating herself

[adam warlock]

Originally posted by 250: Originally posted by adam warlock: IF you don't care what we say, don't ask! ?? where you got THAT idea?

when you screamed ENOUGH! that's the empression I got from your post from above... as if you couldn't take it anymore...

[250]

Originally posted by adam warlock: when you screamed ENOUGH! that's the empression I got from your post from above... as if you couldn't take it anymore...

I was telling myself to stop whining

[250]

Originally posted by Sazerac: 250, I have a strong suspicion that her condition is organic, and possibly controllable by medication. If she rejects meds, maybe there are some holistic or alternative (re: herbal or homeopathic) forms of treatment. Whatever, she needs to look into something to help her, because from what you're saying, she is not coping well with her condition as it currently stands. I'll see what I can find on homeopathic or other alternative treatment options.

thank you so much, but you really don't have to do it, and I appreciate it SOOOOO much

you can just give me some directions, I will go search myself

also, what is "organic"?

ok, just exactly what might be the problem? took wrong medication? ok, I will ask her about that

what else?

[Sazerac]

"Organic" means that it's not purely psychological, but also physiological, like a chemical imbalance in the system.

Here's some links that may help, 250:

http://www.healthy.net/othersites/he...homeopathy.htm
http://www.geocities.com/HotSprings/7776/
http://www.geocities.com/HotSprings/7776/DEPRESS.HTM
http://www.holistichealthplus.com/HR/SI/depression.htm
http://baltimore.homeopathyhome.com/saine1.html
http://www.humanspirit.on.ca/Heading...sappointed.htm

These are just a few, but they may lead to other links. Hope this helps!




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[adam warlock]

Originally posted by 250: I was telling myself to stop whining

well QUIT

Here's the HARDEST jobs for you to take: be there, watch her, distract her, and keep her from thinking about taking her own life. Just... be there...
show her something cute, fly a kite, take her to a zoo or a garden...., you or her to buy something for her to take care of (that thrives in harsh conditions)

if you are willing...

[250]

Originally posted by Sazerac: "Organic" means that it's not purely psychological, but also physiological, like a chemical imbalance in the system. Here's some links that may help, 250: http://www.healthy.net/othersites/he...homeopathy.htm http://www.geocities.com/HotSprings/7776/ http://www.geocities.com/HotSprings/7776/DEPRESS.HTM http://www.holistichealthplus.com/HR/SI/depression.htm http://baltimore.homeopathyhome.com/saine1.html http://www.humanspirit.on.ca/Heading...sappointed.htm These are just a few, but they may lead to other links. Hope this helps!

thank you so much my truthful friend!! God Bless You!!

[adam warlock]

Originally posted by Sazerac: "Organic" means that it's not purely psychological, but also physiological, like a chemical imbalance in the system. Here's some links that may help, 250: http://www.healthy.net/othersites/he...homeopathy.htm http://www.geocities.com/HotSprings/7776/ Good ones! I'm using them for my psychology classes! make sure print them up and 'accidently' leave them around for her to look at oh hey! good ones! I'll even use them for my psychology classes! http://www.geocities.com/HotSprings/7776/DEPRESS.HTM http://www.holistichealthplus.com/HR/SI/depression.htm http://baltimore.homeopathyhome.com/saine1.html http://www.humanspirit.on.ca/Heading...sappointed.htm These are just a few, but they may lead to other links. Hope this helps!

[This message has been edited by adam warlock (edited 09-17-2001).]

[250]

Originally posted by adam warlock: well QUIT Here's the HARDEST jobs for you to take: be there, watch her, distract her, and keep her from thinking about taking her own life. Just... be there... show her something cute, fly a kite, take her to a zoo or a garden...., you or her to buy something for her to take care of (that thrives in harsh conditions) if you are willing...

yeah, that is what I have been doing... just have to hope it helps
sometimes, I felt miserable ... sigh, now I know I should ALWAYS be positive, NEVER EVER NEVER EVER again show negative feelings

thank you all

[Ryanamur]

Originally posted by adam warlock: well QUIT Here's the HARDEST jobs for you to take: be there, watch her, distract her, and keep her from thinking about taking her own life. Just... be there... show her something cute, fly a kite, take her to a zoo or a garden...., you or her to buy something for her to take care of (that thrives in harsh conditions) if you are willing...

Oh, and don't let her watch CNN's coverage on Attack on America or anything to do with it. Adam is right, you need to be there for her and distract her.


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