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Old 07-22-2002, 04:56 PM   #1
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One of my cousin's best friends died in a car accident a couple days ago.the crash killed him instently.He was the only one who died.Yesterday my cousin and a few of his friends went to see the body of there friend.I had met the guy before and he was cool.My cousin is really bummed about it.Today they went to there park and just talked about there friend.This is really sad to me and I feel his pain.
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Old 07-22-2002, 05:04 PM   #2
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That sucks. I'm sorry to hear it.
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Old 07-22-2002, 05:07 PM   #3
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My cuz will be bummed out weeks
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Old 07-22-2002, 05:14 PM   #4
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Hey, man, sorry to hear that. Very bad thing to happen. Your cuz is what, 13? Hm, it hurts bad at that age to lose a friend. Trust me. Just remember, keep him happy (or at least not EXTREMELY depressed) and he should eventually get through it. I'm not saying to try and make him forget the friend, just to spend some time for himself, you know, to take his mind off stuff. It helps. Hope this does.
Sad story, man.
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Old 07-22-2002, 06:45 PM   #5
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Don't make your freind hold back his emmotions it's better for him to let it all out now and get over it. It shouldn't keep HIS life from continuing on. He's got alot of years ahead of him.

The past is the past, it is better to just shovel it under and let the grass grow. Every 5 seconds someone dies somewhere and they have freinds too, it is amazing that the human race doesn't go mad with such feelings of sadness ripping around the world. I've had freinds died and i've learned to shed my tears and wipe them away, to live life and understand how preciouse our time on this earth is.
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Old 07-22-2002, 08:03 PM   #6
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very sorry to hear that man, i know what you feel, because my best friends navy buddy, hung himself last tuesday, it's really f**** to see him so sad and depressed about it now, especially because we are having holidays... can't quite cope with it, he even got himself so pissed drunk and said wierd things that he also didnt care about anything anymore etc.... pretty sad.
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Old 07-22-2002, 08:04 PM   #7
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Impermanence characterises all of existence.

But as /)eathkiller said, life still has to go on.

Take heart, friend. Walk on.
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Old 07-22-2002, 09:27 PM   #8
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Originally posted by /)eathKiller:
Don't make your freind hold back his emmotions it's better for him to let it all out now and get over it. It shouldn't keep HIS life from continuing on. He's got alot of years ahead of him.

The past is the past, it is better to just shovel it under and let the grass grow. Every 5 seconds someone dies somewhere and they have freinds too, it is amazing that the human race doesn't go mad with such feelings of sadness ripping around the world. I've had freinds died and i've learned to shed my tears and wipe them away, to live life and understand how preciouse our time on this earth is.
Amen Brother. I hear where your coming from. I've never really gotten over my cousin's dying. Theirs something in the gene's of my family and a lot of people get cancer and die early on in life. But I got trough. Sure I still miss them but I know they're still here, in my heart and thoughts.

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Old 07-23-2002, 07:00 AM   #9
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Lucky for me I still have no casualties...

But believe me I know the feeling... losing someone you love in another sense can make all so painful... especially if you know where she is headed... and you can't do a thing.

But then, the show must go on... don't live in the past... cherish him, but do not relive the moments... it will just make it hurt more... NO SENTIMENTAL SONGS... they will just make him sooooooo depressed... keep you and cuz's head up
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Old 07-23-2002, 08:51 AM   #10
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This is really bad! Five minutes before they talked to him and now he is dead! This really sucks and I am really sorry to hear that.
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