blowing of steam...

[TheCrimsomBlade]

And the Battle of the sexes rages on.

WOMEN ask why do men need to look at other naked women?
answer-because they are there.

Men Ask Why are women so sensitive?
Answer-because men like to look at other naked women.

Film at 11

[johnny]

Originally posted by Reeka: All men aren't like that. All men aren't cheaters. A man looking at pornography does not bother all women. Men are visually stimulated because they are men. As far as it being normal, I don't think it is abnormal for men to want to look at pornography. It is only a big deal if you make it a big deal. As for as not listening to you, how do you approach him? A calm, rational approach works best with most people. Not playing the blame game. Having more "I's" in the conversation than "you's". I, personally, tune people out if they get to ranting around me. And please note, that I am not saying you do this, I am just stating these from my point of view when dealing with someone. Most men do not try to make women feel stupid. My boyfriend thinks I am very intelligent. In fact, he says that my mind is the sexiest part of me. I don't know if you are making too much of it, but it wouldn't bother me.

Well, pornography is a whole other issue. If someone is looking at pornpics when his wife is sitting in the same room, i'd say there's something wrong in da family.

But looking at pictures in, let's say Playboy, isn't porn. They're usually classy photoshoots of gorgeous women. I don't see anything wrong in that. I'd be more worried, if i weren't interrested in those.

[SomeGuy]

Not all men are cheaters, some can be better then you think. That's what a bunch of girls discovered about me. Some men can be really sweet and caring, other proud and loyal, and other's can be just plain jackasses. At my school, it's not called cheating, it's called playing. (Anyone here heard of the word playa?) Basically, you cheat on someone, they don't know and they get hurt badly in the end. And they think it's okay! Trust, not all men are dirty old perverts, some can really be good to you. Hope this helps.

[Iron_Ranger]

Assuming all men act like teenagers is sort of rude its self dont you think?

Trying to stop men from looking at nude women is like trying to stop women from being sensitive.

Its understanble feeling hurt if you feel you are being ignored, that goes for everyone. But hey, as Gangrell said, if you need someone to talk to, just check IW, their are plenty of friendly caring people here.

[John D Harris]

As brother Foxworthy says: Men just want a beer and see somthing Neck-ed (Southern for ain't got no clothes on and up to no good.)

As for the emotional part most men are results oriented, in other words they don't want to talk about it, they want to fix it. If there is a problem that they see, they (we, cause I are one) want to solve it, not talk about why it is a problem. Why it is a problem doesn't matter, just that it is a problem matters, problems need fixx'n. We is just wired differantly.

[Stormymystic]

yes i did go alittle over board aboout teenagers, sorry, but my husband always says this
think you for doing so and so, but........
always and it pisses me off,as wellas hurts my feelingsthat it wasnot good enough, come one i went throughthis as a child do i really have to go through it while i am married?

[Reeka]

Originally posted by johnny: quote: Originally posted by Reeka: All men aren't like that. All men aren't cheaters. A man looking at pornography does not bother all women. Men are visually stimulated because they are men. As far as it being normal, I don't think it is abnormal for men to want to look at pornography. It is only a big deal if you make it a big deal. As for as not listening to you, how do you approach him? A calm, rational approach works best with most people. Not playing the blame game. Having more "I's" in the conversation than "you's". I, personally, tune people out if they get to ranting around me. And please note, that I am not saying you do this, I am just stating these from my point of view when dealing with someone. Most men do not try to make women feel stupid. My boyfriend thinks I am very intelligent. In fact, he says that my mind is the sexiest part of me. I don't know if you are making too much of it, but it wouldn't bother me.

Well, pornography is a whole other issue. If someone is looking at pornpics when his wife is sitting in the same room, i'd say there's something wrong in da family.

But looking at pictures in, let's say Playboy, isn't porn. They're usually classy photoshoots of gorgeous women. I don't see anything wrong in that. I'd be more worried, if i weren't interrested in those. [/QUOTE]Well, Johnny, the religious conversations in the US would call Playboy pronography, I was using it as a "catch-all" term. I don't consider Playboy porn myself, but I know of alot of people that would.

[Gangrell]

That's alright Stormy, it does someone good to let off a little steam once in awhile, just try and get his attention somehow. If he does care about you, he will listen rest assured. No worries eh?

[Stormymystic]

I think i got his attention tonight,lol wrong way but i have tried everything else, so i through all the porn sites in his face, he was downloading them and one wound up on the desktop, where my son could easily find it

[John D Harris]

Originally posted by johnny: Well, pornography is a whole other issue. If someone is looking at pornpics when his wife is sitting in the same room, i'd say there's something wrong in da family. But looking at pictures in, let's say Playboy, isn't porn. They're usually classy photoshoots of gorgeous women. I don't see anything wrong in that. I'd be more worried, if i weren't interrested in those.

I'm lucky, I'm an illustrator I look at Playboy and Penthouse for the pictures, I got to know how to draw the female form
Seriously when I meet my wife at work I was doing a design for a strip club, she walked into the art department and I had 8-10 Playboys and Penthouses spread out all over my desk. When she asked me what I was doing I told her "Drawing a woman."

"Which one?"

"Well I'm taking the eyes of this one, the Hair of this one, her lips, this one's pose, but I don't want to use her. Her legs are to skinny. Now this girl has great calves, her thighs aren't bad but this girl has better thighs so I'll use her thighs. I'm taking this one's ...ah...er...ah..."

"Hooters"

"Yeah, but I didn't want to say it"

"So you're making a woman from all of these women? They all look pretty to me."

"Yeah they are all pretty, but you see this girl her eyes are not the same size, see the left one is bigger then the right. This one here has too bushy of eye brows, looks like she has only one. This girl has one ear lower then the other. This one has no hips, or waist."

"What about this one she has a nice rear end."

"Yeah, but in the pose I'm using she's facing you so you won't see her rear end".

"So why do you have this picture out?"

"Because shes got a nice rear end!"

"Ok"