things people just don't do - Page 2

Harkoliar · 10-31-2001, 07:36 AM

yep, play till you drop and forget your worries "HAKUNA MATATA!!! (lion king

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*but never forget reality*

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Melusine · 10-31-2001, 07:38 AM

Good luck, 250!!
Maybe if you do try and take your mind off things by playing a game or reading a book, you'll find that it actually gets easier to see what's right: the less you worry, the more it will come to you naturally.

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250 · 10-31-2001, 07:46 AM

hey, thank you both

10-31-2001, 07:49 AM

Damn 250, that really takes the proverbial biscuit. I so often find you post things, and I feel exactly the same way, almost everything you've written about in here I can relate to in one way or another.

If you really love this girl, she is worth giving a second chance. But you have to let her know that this really isn't on. Did she say she was genuinely sorry about it? A proper apology can make up for a lot. But on the other hand, if she honestly didn't know you were waiting on her all that time than I suppose you can't really blame her. But like I say, don't take this to heart too much and give her another chance. If she's a good friend of yours, then I would say she's definitely worth it. I hope you let her know how you feel about this though, so she can be a little more sensitive to your feelings next time something like this happens.

I hope everything works out for you bro

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Later,

250 · 10-31-2001, 07:53 AM

Sorcerer Alex, thanks a lot

She definitely worths a second chance, it is just, if I don't do something, crap won't clean itself, lol. I have to find out what makes her so insensative, sigh...

thanks for the advice though

adam warlock · 10-31-2001, 08:31 AM

hmmmm... yes love IS difficult to find BUT
it doesn't mean you have to have it

you made a good point about taking a step back and observe her...
and you ask yourself these questions:
"will she be always be this way?"
"do i want to continue our relationship?"
"what life would be like with her in the future?"
"what life would be like without her in the future?"
etc....

weigh the answers on the scale and see which wins

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250 · 10-31-2001, 08:38 AM

I am sure as hell can live on my own

but love is not something I want to give up easily because it didn't work out the way I wanted. it didnt work out might mean I just need to work on it more...

adam warlock · 10-31-2001, 08:41 AM

I hope it works out...

best of luck!

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Realm of Warlock's Art
Fun, Humor, Silliness, Betrayals, and Biting (biting? how did it get there?) Link above
I bow to Ziroc the grand master! I shall never mock Choc again!

250 · 10-31-2001, 08:42 AM

thanks man, thanks a lot, appreciate it

Hiram Sedai · 10-31-2001, 08:51 AM

250...I agree with both Alex and Melusine. You need to distract yourself for a while and try to separate yourself from the situation. An emotional response to everything this girl does will only make it worse. I understand the frustration in trying to understand what the hell she wants. Sometimes, it just doesn't make any sense.

I hope you will get what you need from the relationship. I also hope that she finally acknowledges that you went through alot of trouble to be near her and to take care of her and the pets. I think that you are showing alot more patiences and fortitude than I would in the same situation. I get frustrated easily with the fairer sex because they are so different than computers. hehe

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10-31-2001, 08:51 AM	#20
Hiram Sedai Emerald Dragon Join Date: October 8, 2001 Location: Georgia Age: 54 Posts: 918	250...I agree with both Alex and Melusine. You need to distract yourself for a while and try to separate yourself from the situation. An emotional response to everything this girl does will only make it worse. I understand the frustration in trying to understand what the hell she wants. Sometimes, it just doesn't make any sense. I hope you will get what you need from the relationship. I also hope that she finally acknowledges that you went through alot of trouble to be near her and to take care of her and the pets. I think that you are showing alot more patiences and fortitude than I would in the same situation. I get frustrated easily with the fairer sex because they are so different than computers. hehe ------------------ "I know that you believe you understand what you think I said, but I'm not sure you realize that what you heard is not what I meant." -Robert McCloskey Token lackwit of HADB Sycophant to the Wolf of Azure Hue Long lost brother of DragonMage Bearer of a work of art created by Sazerac Jeg burde blive gennembanket for min flatulens.[/list]

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10-31-2001, 07:36 AM	#11
Harkoliar Jack Burton Join Date: March 21, 2001 Location: Philippines, but now Harbor City Sydney Age: 41 Posts: 5,556	yep, play till you drop and forget your worries "HAKUNA MATATA!!! (lion king ) but never forget reality ------------------ Revived I Am to hunt this world... Banish ye evil or face my wrath...

10-31-2001, 07:38 AM	#12
Melusine Dracolisk Join Date: January 8, 2001 Location: Amsterdam, The Netherlands Age: 43 Posts: 6,541	Good luck, 250!! Maybe if you do try and take your mind off things by playing a game or reading a book, you'll find that it actually gets easier to see what's right: the less you worry, the more it will come to you naturally. ------------------ Melusine, Sultry Elflet, High Queen of Fluffies, Archbabe of the OHF, LH, HADB and ORT! Your voice is ambrosia Amy Brown Fantasy Art

10-31-2001, 07:46 AM	#13
250 Horus - Egyptian Sky God Join Date: March 4, 2001 Location: either CA or MO Age: 42 Posts: 2,674	hey, thank you both

10-31-2001, 07:49 AM	#14
Sorcerer Alex Guest Posts: n/a	Damn 250, that really takes the proverbial biscuit. I so often find you post things, and I feel exactly the same way, almost everything you've written about in here I can relate to in one way or another. If you really love this girl, she is worth giving a second chance. But you have to let her know that this really isn't on. Did she say she was genuinely sorry about it? A proper apology can make up for a lot. But on the other hand, if she honestly didn't know you were waiting on her all that time than I suppose you can't really blame her. But like I say, don't take this to heart too much and give her another chance. If she's a good friend of yours, then I would say she's definitely worth it. I hope you let her know how you feel about this though, so she can be a little more sensitive to your feelings next time something like this happens. I hope everything works out for you bro ------------------ Later,

10-31-2001, 07:53 AM	#15
250 Horus - Egyptian Sky God Join Date: March 4, 2001 Location: either CA or MO Age: 42 Posts: 2,674	Sorcerer Alex, thanks a lot She definitely worths a second chance, it is just, if I don't do something, crap won't clean itself, lol. I have to find out what makes her so insensative, sigh... thanks for the advice though

10-31-2001, 08:31 AM	#16
adam warlock Ma'at - Goddess of Truth & Justice Join Date: January 7, 2001 Location: I live inside of my mind..... Age: 53 Posts: 3,234	hmmmm... yes love IS difficult to find BUT it doesn't mean you have to have it you made a good point about taking a step back and observe her... and you ask yourself these questions: "will she be always be this way?" "do i want to continue our relationship?" "what life would be like with her in the future?" "what life would be like without her in the future?" etc.... weigh the answers on the scale and see which wins ------------------ Realm of Warlock's Art Fun, Humor, Silliness, Betrayals, and Biting (biting? how did it get there?) Link above I bow to Ziroc the grand master! I shall never mock Choc again!

10-31-2001, 08:38 AM	#17
250 Horus - Egyptian Sky God Join Date: March 4, 2001 Location: either CA or MO Age: 42 Posts: 2,674	I am sure as hell can live on my own but love is not something I want to give up easily because it didn't work out the way I wanted. it didnt work out might mean I just need to work on it more...

10-31-2001, 08:41 AM	#18
adam warlock Ma'at - Goddess of Truth & Justice Join Date: January 7, 2001 Location: I live inside of my mind..... Age: 53 Posts: 3,234	I hope it works out... best of luck! ------------------ Realm of Warlock's Art Fun, Humor, Silliness, Betrayals, and Biting (biting? how did it get there?) Link above I bow to Ziroc the grand master! I shall never mock Choc again!

10-31-2001, 08:42 AM	#19
250 Horus - Egyptian Sky God Join Date: March 4, 2001 Location: either CA or MO Age: 42 Posts: 2,674	thanks man, thanks a lot, appreciate it

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