Me and my big mouth.

[Horatio]

The orifice in my face where my tongue and teeth spend their day. It has made you laugh, swear at my appaling use of grammar, and weep at my insolence of the outside world. Well, today it messed up again.
I have been with my girlfriend for a year. It's been fine. We've had some good times. But recently...well, it hasn't been so great. So, I sit her down for coffee at a cafe. I look in to her eyes, explain my feelings. Then I utter 4 terrible words.
"I'm not having fun"
Why? Oh god, the look of absolute dispair in her eyes! I am an evil, evil person! It had been going fine up til then, with us both understanding. She ups and leaves, tears in her beutiful, innocent face. God, I feel awful.

Originally posted by Horatio: The orifice in my face where my tongue and teeth spend their day. It has made you laugh, swear at my appaling use of grammar, and weep at my insolence of the outside world. Well, today it messed up again. I have been with my girlfriend for a year. It's been fine. We've had some good times. But recently...well, it hasn't been so great. So, I sit her down for coffee at a cafe. I look in to her eyes, explain my feelings. Then I utter 4 terrible words. "I'm not having fun" Why? Oh god, the look of absolute dispair in her eyes! I am an evil, evil person! It had been going fine up til then, with us both understanding. She ups and leaves, tears in her beutiful, innocent face. God, I feel awful.

If you haven't allready... RING HER!

[Rimjaw]

Although I always believe couples should be honest with each other, some subtlety should be observed when dealing with the females. But these things happen, like Deathbringer said, give her a call and explain things further and everything should be ok. Good luck.

[ 07-08-2002, 12:27 PM: Message edited by: Rimjaw ]

[johnny]

It's not too late Horatio !

[Megabot]

Send her some flower and and a nice letter( if you cant call here) and explain your feelings for here and if she love you she answer you i am sure about that, females can be strange sometimes but hey send the flowers asap Horatio and good luck and let us knove hove it goes! [img]graemlins/thumbsup.gif[/img]

[Horatio]

For what, Johnny?
Oh, I've tried calling her, but she's not picking up. I'm debating weather to go round there but that might make things worse. I feel so awful, god knows how she's doing.

[canadianvixen]

A phone call would be nice, and maybe give her something specific that's on your mind instead of...I'm not having fun. A gentler approach might be I really miss ..... we don't do that very often anymore. Be specific. If you're vague she'll feel like your not happy with everything. If that's the case then as painful as it may be your both better off with someone else. Just my thoughts.

Originally posted by Horatio: For what, Johnny? Oh, I've tried calling her, but she's not picking up. I'm debating weather to go round there but that might make things worse. I feel so awful, god knows how she's doing.

okay, well going around there may be risky, she may need some time alone right now, she probably thinks you aren't interested any more. Kepp trying to ring until she answers.

Or leave some flowers and a letter on her doorstep.

[ 07-08-2002, 12:57 PM: Message edited by: Deathbringer ]

[johnny]

Originally posted by Horatio: For what, Johnny? Oh, I've tried calling her, but she's not picking up. I'm debating weather to go round there but that might make things worse. I feel so awful, god knows how she's doing.

For making things right again i mean, and don't do it on the phone but do it face to face, trust me on this.

[johnny]

Originally posted by canadianvixen: A phone call would be nice, and maybe give her something specific that's on your mind instead of...I'm not having fun. A gentler approach might be I really miss ..... we don't do that very often anymore. Be specific. If you're vague she'll feel like your not happy with everything. If that's the case then as painful as it may be your both better off with someone else. Just my thoughts.

The love doctor has spoken !