I need help from the girls. Hey, COME BACK!

Horatio · 05-07-2002, 03:57 PM

Okay, I've just started going out with a girl I used to know. She used to be really funny. But now, she talks A LOT and it grates on my nerves. I haven't said anything, as I don't wanna hurt her feelings. It may be because I am her first MAJOR boyfriend, I know for a fact that she hasn't gone serious with anyone before. But I'm stuck and don't know what to do. Plz help, agony aunt... wait a minute, wrong Site!

But plz, what do I do?

Beaumanoir · 05-07-2002, 04:20 PM

Well That Has Just Happened To Me! The Exact Same Thing... Apart From She's Not Annoyin Me... We're Good Friends, Known Each Other For Years...
But Back On Topic, I Think Really That You Should Try And Stick It Out, You Don't Want To Ruin Your Friendship. But Being Honest, I Think That When She Starts To 'Natter' Just Jokingly, Tell Her To Be Quiet. But Make Sure You Are Smiling And Laughing At The Same Time So That She Dosent Think Your Being Mean. It May Sound Stupid, But I Think It Would Work! (Fingers Crossed!)

Talthyr Malkaviel · 05-07-2002, 04:22 PM

*shrugs* If not... *grabs roll of duck tape*

Beaumanoir · 05-07-2002, 04:28 PM

What Are You Planning To Do With That???

Talthyr Malkaviel · 05-07-2002, 04:30 PM

He said someone wouldn't stop talking, I know of no quicker way than this... here let me prove my point [img]tongue.gif[/img]

Azred · 05-07-2002, 04:30 PM

Not female, of course, but I do have words of wisdom to impart and questions to ask.

She "used to be" funny. Is she not funny anymore?

Which do you enjoy more--silence or her company? Is quiet worth the price of splitting with her?

The fact that her merely talking is aggravating raises a red flag, because if you are getting to the point where she gets on your nerves now what will happen later? Believe me--talking is the least problem you could encounter in a relationship.

Just take it easy and let her talk. Women like to be validated and have their thoughts and opinions heard. Besides, you just might like what she has to say.... [img]graemlins/petard.gif[/img]

Chewbacca · 05-07-2002, 04:31 PM

It actually takes less energy to just listen, which is what most girls want , than it does to talk. If your seriuos about this gal, then learn to listen.

My significant other can chatter for what seems like days, but it makes her happy that I listen so I do my best, except when I'm in a real critical part of a game and all my attention is on my monitor and she wants to discuss the price of fish overseas, well thats when I yell "I'm busy, leave a message!"

Talthyr Malkaviel · 05-07-2002, 04:34 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Horatio:
Okay, I've just started going out with a girl I used to know. She used to be really funny. But now, she talks A LOT and it grates on my nerves. I haven't said anything, as I don't wanna hurt her feelings. It may be because I am her first MAJOR boyfriend, I know for a fact that she hasn't gone serious with anyone before. But I'm stuck and don't know what to do. Plz help, agony aunt... wait a minute, wrong Site!

But plz, what do I do?

Well, now that I've used the duck tape, I'll try and impart something.
It's a common stereotype that men don't ever listen to anything women say, so only pay attention half of the time and she'll still be super happy you were listening even a bit.
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Talthyr will not be held responsible for any breakages of relation or your legs due to his advice, it is wholly your choice to take it, and he is allowed to refrain from giving out any form of contacting him to complain.

Lady Blue03 · 05-07-2002, 04:57 PM

You know, a female opinion might help a little on this, instead of all you men

! But honestly, if youve just started going out, like maybe a few weeks, then break it off now b4 it gets too far and she really gets hurt. Like the guys said, just listen to her, if you want this relationship to work. You may find that what you thought was nice about someone totally whiplashes on you(like some annoying traits of my x...). But i've never been in a realtionship when either one of us has talked too much, so i cant give a personal outlook on it

Beaumanoir · 05-07-2002, 05:02 PM

I Dont BELIVE IT!!

Girls Always Say How Insensitive And Unconsidererate Men Are. All The Guys Post And Say To Just Lesten And Be Nice, A Girl Comes And Tells You To Ditch Her!!!!

DAMN WOMEN!

05-07-2002, 03:57 PM	#1
Horatio Ma'at - Goddess of Truth & Justice Join Date: September 19, 2001 Location: Behind these metal bars Age: 41 Posts: 3,117	Okay, I've just started going out with a girl I used to know. She used to be really funny. But now, she talks A LOT and it grates on my nerves. I haven't said anything, as I don't wanna hurt her feelings. It may be because I am her first MAJOR boyfriend, I know for a fact that she hasn't gone serious with anyone before. But I'm stuck and don't know what to do. Plz help, agony aunt... wait a minute, wrong Site! But plz, what do I do? __________________ I <b>am</b> the party!!<br /> [img]\"http://zert0.net/iuti/img2/1381585-vi.gif\" alt=\" - \" />

05-07-2002, 04:20 PM	#2
Beaumanoir Iron Throne Cult Join Date: June 3, 2001 Location: There is no IRL, Only AFK. Age: 35 Posts: 4,896	Well That Has Just Happened To Me! The Exact Same Thing... Apart From She's Not Annoyin Me... We're Good Friends, Known Each Other For Years... But Back On Topic, I Think Really That You Should Try And Stick It Out, You Don't Want To Ruin Your Friendship. But Being Honest, I Think That When She Starts To 'Natter' Just Jokingly, Tell Her To Be Quiet. But Make Sure You Are Smiling And Laughing At The Same Time So That She Dosent Think Your Being Mean. It May Sound Stupid, But I Think It Would Work! (Fingers Crossed!) __________________ My pokemon bring all the boys to the yard, and they're like; you wanna trade cards? Damn right, I wanna trade cards, I'll trade this but not my Charizard.

05-07-2002, 04:22 PM	#3
Talthyr Malkaviel Ma'at - Goddess of Truth & Justice Join Date: August 31, 2001 Location: Land of the Britons Age: 37 Posts: 3,224	shrugs If not... grabs roll of duck tape __________________ Resident cantankerous sorcerer of the Clan HADB<br />and Sorcerous Nuttella salesman of the O.R.T<br /> <br /><br />Say NO to the Trouser Tyranny! Can I drill you about this?

05-07-2002, 04:28 PM	#4
Beaumanoir Iron Throne Cult Join Date: June 3, 2001 Location: There is no IRL, Only AFK. Age: 35 Posts: 4,896	What Are You Planning To Do With That??? __________________ My pokemon bring all the boys to the yard, and they're like; you wanna trade cards? Damn right, I wanna trade cards, I'll trade this but not my Charizard.

05-07-2002, 04:30 PM	#5
Talthyr Malkaviel Ma'at - Goddess of Truth & Justice Join Date: August 31, 2001 Location: Land of the Britons Age: 37 Posts: 3,224	He said someone wouldn't stop talking, I know of no quicker way than this... here let me prove my point [img]tongue.gif[/img] __________________ Resident cantankerous sorcerer of the Clan HADB<br />and Sorcerous Nuttella salesman of the O.R.T<br /> <br /><br />Say NO to the Trouser Tyranny! Can I drill you about this?

05-07-2002, 04:30 PM	#6
Azred Drow Priestess Join Date: March 13, 2001 Location: a hidden sanctorum high above the metroplex Age: 54 Posts: 4,037	Not female, of course, but I do have words of wisdom to impart and questions to ask. She "used to be" funny. Is she not funny anymore? Which do you enjoy more--silence or her company? Is quiet worth the price of splitting with her? The fact that her merely talking is aggravating raises a red flag, because if you are getting to the point where she gets on your nerves now what will happen later? Believe me--talking is the least problem you could encounter in a relationship. Just take it easy and let her talk. Women like to be validated and have their thoughts and opinions heard. Besides, you just might like what she has to say.... [img]graemlins/petard.gif[/img] __________________ Everything may be explained by a conspiracy theory. All conspiracy theories are true. No matter how thinly you slice it, it's still bologna.

05-07-2002, 04:31 PM	#7
Chewbacca Zartan Join Date: July 18, 2001 Location: America, On The Beautiful Earth Age: 50 Posts: 5,373	It actually takes less energy to just listen, which is what most girls want , than it does to talk. If your seriuos about this gal, then learn to listen. My significant other can chatter for what seems like days, but it makes her happy that I listen so I do my best, except when I'm in a real critical part of a game and all my attention is on my monitor and she wants to discuss the price of fish overseas, well thats when I yell "I'm busy, leave a message!" __________________ Support Local Music and Record Stores! Got Liberty?

05-07-2002, 04:57 PM	#9
Lady Blue03 Xanathar Thieves Guild Join Date: January 18, 2002 Age: 38 Posts: 4,557	You know, a female opinion might help a little on this, instead of all you men ! But honestly, if youve just started going out, like maybe a few weeks, then break it off now b4 it gets too far and she really gets hurt. Like the guys said, just listen to her, if you want this relationship to work. You may find that what you thought was nice about someone totally whiplashes on you(like some annoying traits of my x...). But i've never been in a realtionship when either one of us has talked too much, so i cant give a personal outlook on it __________________ Yep I'm still lurking!

05-07-2002, 05:02 PM	#10
Beaumanoir Iron Throne Cult Join Date: June 3, 2001 Location: There is no IRL, Only AFK. Age: 35 Posts: 4,896	I Dont BELIVE IT!! Girls Always Say How Insensitive And Unconsidererate Men Are. All The Guys Post And Say To Just Lesten And Be Nice, A Girl Comes And Tells You To Ditch Her!!!! DAMN WOMEN! __________________ My pokemon bring all the boys to the yard, and they're like; you wanna trade cards? Damn right, I wanna trade cards, I'll trade this but not my Charizard.

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