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Lillie · 03-16-2001, 04:00 PM

Understood, Moridin - you must do what you think is right. I must say though, your comment about "live with her or not live at all" kinda scares me. I got to that point with my ex, only serious professional intervention saved my ass.

I hope I'm misreading your meaning. If so, please forgive me. If not, then for the love of all you consider holy, GET SOME HELP!!!

I hope the overseas trip will do you much good. You are a brave person - you *WILL* survive this. Why? Because if I did, anyone can

Safe journeys to you...I'll be looking for your post from London.

Your virtual friend,

Lillie

Reeka · 03-16-2001, 04:19 PM

Moridin:

I understand what you are saying--you have to do what is best for you and your life. Just know that we're here if you need us. Maybe I'll e-mail you sometime just to see if you're all right. Don't forget--we care.

All my best,

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Reeka--The Hand of Death

03-16-2001, 11:44 PM

Moridin, good luck in your endeavors. I understand the feeling of not wanting to go on if it is not without someone, and only time and your own accomplishments will change that. I hope you are not gone for good, as we all will miss you. Just drop a note in here from time to time, at the least, and let us know how it is going. Remember - you don't and should not do it all by yourself, that IS what friends are for, k?

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When given a choice, take both.

bilqis · 03-17-2001, 08:05 AM

Moridin: I will not reiterate what everyone else said, and I do feel the same way that they do. One thought comes to mind tho. You have said before that your friends are HER friends. Please don't go away from here forever, because we all are YOUR friends. You need support in your journey, wherever it leads (and I hope you have told your own counselor how you feel about life without your wife... scary words my friend!

). You must know that we are supportive of you and want the best for you.

Please check back with us from time to time?

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Having abandoned my search for truth, I am now looking for a good Fantasy.

Moridin · 03-17-2001, 01:36 PM

Just popped in to say THANKS everyone and to let you know I am doing OK. Life is tough as Shite and I know death is not the answer, it just sometimes feels like an alternative. I have told my therapist about the fact that I am unable to, at the moment, live w/out my wife and that is what we are working on. I think she secretely wants me to leave my wife. From what she knows about me, she thinks that being able to take such a huge step in my life would be the best thing for me. Very hard to explain. She also allows me to call her day or night to talk (w/out charge

) if I ever am in such despair.

Thank you everyone!!!!

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It is better to keep your mouth shut and appear ignorant,
than open it and remove all doubt!

Moiraine · 03-17-2001, 01:58 PM

Moridin, I didn't add my two cents before, allow me to do so now. Of course you will be deeply missed here. Life is made of choices, and we support you for those you made for you and your wife. At these hard times, you can't be both on the Board and with your wife. Keep our friendship in you heart, and may it help you going through your current ordeal.
I wish you the best.
I will miss your riverdance stomping !

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Bahamut · 03-18-2001, 12:51 AM

well... hehe just dont leave for GOOD! you hear! even if you check this for at least once a month, we dont care as long as you join in the fray ayT!!!

take care and may the gods bless you on your journey.

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I...AM...BAHAMUT

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03-16-2001, 04:00 PM	#41
Lillie Dungeon Master Join Date: March 1, 2001 Location: Candlekeep ;) Posts: 62	Understood, Moridin - you must do what you think is right. I must say though, your comment about "live with her or not live at all" kinda scares me. I got to that point with my ex, only serious professional intervention saved my ass. I hope I'm misreading your meaning. If so, please forgive me. If not, then for the love of all you consider holy, GET SOME HELP!!! I hope the overseas trip will do you much good. You are a brave person - you WILL survive this. Why? Because if I did, anyone can Safe journeys to you...I'll be looking for your post from London. Your virtual friend, Lillie

03-16-2001, 04:19 PM	#42
Reeka Ma'at - Goddess of Truth & Justice Join Date: March 2, 2001 Location: Birmingham, Alabama, USA Age: 70 Posts: 3,255	Moridin: I understand what you are saying--you have to do what is best for you and your life. Just know that we're here if you need us. Maybe I'll e-mail you sometime just to see if you're all right. Don't forget--we care. All my best, ------------------ Reeka--The Hand of Death

03-16-2001, 11:44 PM	#43
JJ/newbie Guest Posts: n/a	Moridin, good luck in your endeavors. I understand the feeling of not wanting to go on if it is not without someone, and only time and your own accomplishments will change that. I hope you are not gone for good, as we all will miss you. Just drop a note in here from time to time, at the least, and let us know how it is going. Remember - you don't and should not do it all by yourself, that IS what friends are for, k? ------------------ When given a choice, take both.

03-17-2001, 08:05 AM	#44
bilqis Symbol of Cyric Join Date: March 1, 2001 Location: WA, USA Age: 67 Posts: 1,328	Moridin: I will not reiterate what everyone else said, and I do feel the same way that they do. One thought comes to mind tho. You have said before that your friends are HER friends. Please don't go away from here forever, because we all are YOUR friends. You need support in your journey, wherever it leads (and I hope you have told your own counselor how you feel about life without your wife... scary words my friend! ). You must know that we are supportive of you and want the best for you. Please check back with us from time to time? ------------------ Having abandoned my search for truth, I am now looking for a good Fantasy.

03-17-2001, 01:36 PM	#45
Moridin Fzoul Chembryl Join Date: March 1, 2001 Location: Minneapolis, MN Posts: 1,735	Just popped in to say THANKS everyone and to let you know I am doing OK. Life is tough as Shite and I know death is not the answer, it just sometimes feels like an alternative. I have told my therapist about the fact that I am unable to, at the moment, live w/out my wife and that is what we are working on. I think she secretely wants me to leave my wife. From what she knows about me, she thinks that being able to take such a huge step in my life would be the best thing for me. Very hard to explain. She also allows me to call her day or night to talk (w/out charge ) if I ever am in such despair. Thank you everyone!!!! ------------------ It is better to keep your mouth shut and appear ignorant, than open it and remove all doubt!

03-17-2001, 01:58 PM	#46
Moiraine Anubis Join Date: March 1, 2001 Location: Up in the Freedomland Alps Age: 59 Posts: 2,474	Moridin, I didn't add my two cents before, allow me to do so now. Of course you will be deeply missed here. Life is made of choices, and we support you for those you made for you and your wife. At these hard times, you can't be both on the Board and with your wife. Keep our friendship in you heart, and may it help you going through your current ordeal. I wish you the best. I will miss your riverdance stomping ! ------------------

03-18-2001, 12:51 AM	#47
Bahamut Iron Throne Cult Join Date: March 12, 2001 Location: Manila, Philippines Age: 39 Posts: 4,864	well... hehe just dont leave for GOOD! you hear! even if you check this for at least once a month, we dont care as long as you join in the fray ayT!!! take care and may the gods bless you on your journey. ------------------ I...AM...BAHAMUT

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