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Donut, as another Brit you should well know we call people bastards often enough without personal insult. Why hammer this point when it is NOT what the thread is about? |
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05-07-2002, 07:47 AM | #22 | |
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Donut, as another Brit you should well know we call people bastards often enough without personal insult. Why hammer this point when it is NOT what the thread is about?[/QUOTE]It's simple. I find it distasteful and offensive for this child to call his father a bastard on an open forum. Does that clarify things for you?
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Amen Donut [img]smile.gif[/img]
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05-07-2002, 07:57 AM | #25 |
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move out dude, and find a place of your own.
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05-07-2002, 08:51 AM | #27 | |
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Of course it would be better if /)eathkiller could persuade his father to be more reasonable.
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05-07-2002, 11:07 AM | #28 | |
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It sounds to me that having your son get detention because they helped you would be a pretty bad punishment. What if your Father can't get you out of the detention? It would then be a message from his colleagues to shape up wouldn't it? Teachers get in big crap if they are late. Much worse than a student getting one detention. (I've been in both situations) The detention will pass. In time to come you won't even remember it. (Until someone posts a thread about their school detention) What you may have to do is weigh up whether you are prepared to help your father knowing that you may get detentions like this. If so, you are prepared to pay the cost. Love isn't cheap. If you are not, then you'll need to ENGAGE in communication with your father and EXPRESS what you're feeling about the situation. Change it. Find a way to change it. Drop your band room opening responsibilities if necessary. Let him know how much you're doing in the morning and the effect it is having on you. Communicate without attacking your father, so he doesn't get defensive. Things aren't perfect, but they aren't catastrophic either. It actually sounds like you two have an o.k. relationship, with a few hurdles. But who doesn't have hurdles in any relationship? Hope this helps out in some way. [img]smile.gif[/img] If not, I hope it's a good read. Yorick [ 05-07-2002, 11:11 AM: Message edited by: Yorick ] |
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05-07-2002, 11:42 AM | #29 |
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good post yorick and a valid point.
the fact that you´re getting one undeserved detention, while annoying, isn´t really a major problem... the way your father apparently takes your assistance for granted is though, and something you should confront him about (preferably when you´re not being mad at him since you don´t want him becoming defensive). however, to the political correctness/respect for your parents issues some people raise: strange times have befallen us if calling soemone a bastard is considered more offensive than being a bastard.
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05-07-2002, 11:52 AM | #30 |
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Ian quit your whining! The same thing happened to Matt and his dad admitted it was *his* fault, yet Matt still got a detention anyhow. Going to one lousy detention isn't going to end your life. Have fun after school tommorow! It'll be a blast! Sorry I couldn't resist...
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