10-25-2002, 08:10 AM | #11 | |
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[ 10-25-2002, 08:10 AM: Message edited by: WillowIX ]
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10-25-2002, 08:13 AM | #12 |
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If you arent intrested then dont say anything.As long as you can claim ignorance you are off the hook. How can she rightfuly get angry with you if she hasnt told you how she feels? Trust me , saying nothing is A LOT less hurtfull then going up to someone and saying you arent intrested BEFORE they even make a move on you.
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10-25-2002, 09:38 AM | #13 | |
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If she DOES ask, then I'd suggest you just tell her the truth - honestly and politely - that you like her as a friend but that's as far as your feelings go. If you say it with politeness and courtesy, you might even be able to maintain a friendship with her (depending on her, of course). IMO, honesty, politeness and courtesy go a long way. Much better than leading someone on or hiding from them. |
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10-25-2002, 09:48 AM | #14 |
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Definitely wait til she says something to you. [img]smile.gif[/img] Who knows, she may change her mind about you. [img]smile.gif[/img] But if she doesn't, I agree with those who say you should tell her you like being friends but that's all. Do it nicely and see what happens. That's the best way to deal with it. Preferably not in public, so she won't feel rejected any more than she has to.
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