My Mom is dying (Update) - Page 3

Evil Al · 02-21-2002, 09:24 AM

I can't say i know how you feel but i have a pretty good idea. i had a cousin who died of cancer... she was only 17. She always said that she wanted to go before it became too painful. On the day of her passing i managed to smile with the thought that she was in a better place free of her suffering. I still miss her, even though i speak to her every night. I recall her face and share a piece of my day with her. Even though she died, she is still very much alive in my heart and thoughts.
I hope this has helped.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Legolas · 02-21-2002, 09:30 AM

I know these are hard times for you Dan, after all, I''ve lost my mother to cancer as well, but I'm glad you are able to take comfort in smaller things and hopes.
After your mother dies, remember her with love, and do not be afraid to cry. It's all I can offer, but for my support and prayers.

You and your family are in my thoughts

Sazerac · 02-21-2002, 09:35 AM

Dear Dan,

I pray that your mom does not suffer, and for you and your family's strength in this very difficult time. My heart and spirit goes out to you, my friend.

Neb · 02-21-2002, 10:10 AM

Dan, my sympathies go out to you and your family, and my prayers as well.

Patrick

Yorick · 02-21-2002, 10:19 AM

quote:
Originally posted by Ziroc:
Just wanted to keep you updated on how everything is going:

Yesterday she had a VERY bad day, and cried saying "I know I'm going to die now" but we calmed her down, and we have given her even stronger meds, but that, along with 3 Oxy-Contin (100mg) and she is still moaning. Today lot's of people came by, and we all stayed with her. The Minister gave her 'last rites' just incase something happens tonight. She is sleeping now-still moaning/grunting, but sleeping better..

Since yesterday she has been really incoherent.. closed eyes, saying things from her past, singing. But she is resting, atleast she isn't suffering. She will be in a better place soon, and I know that-she is very religious and always read her bible and prayer book.

It's hard guys, but I'm doing ok, Donna and my Sister are here, we're taking care of her.

She may pass soon (maybe even tomorrow morning) but you can't tell with cancer. it's so horrible.

I'm glad you guys are here too, I'll need ya!

Praying for you Dan.

J'aran · 02-21-2002, 10:57 AM

I too wish you, your mother and the rest of your family strength in these tough times.

Talthyr Malkaviel · 02-21-2002, 11:01 AM

All my condolences to you and your whole family Dan, it must be horrendous.
All the best to you and you family.

Jorath Calar · 02-21-2002, 11:17 AM

I am sorry to hear this, I send you my prayer.

Scronan · 02-21-2002, 11:20 AM

Dan,

My deepest condolences my friend, and I wish your family the best with your mother's transition.

I'll send a prayer for you all today.

Scronan

norompanlasolas · 02-21-2002, 11:23 AM

im really sorry for all of your family. all the best.

02-21-2002, 09:24 AM	#21
Evil Al Drow Warrior Join Date: October 5, 2001 Location: Aberdeen, United Kingdom Age: 38 Posts: 292	I can't say i know how you feel but i have a pretty good idea. i had a cousin who died of cancer... she was only 17. She always said that she wanted to go before it became too painful. On the day of her passing i managed to smile with the thought that she was in a better place free of her suffering. I still miss her, even though i speak to her every night. I recall her face and share a piece of my day with her. Even though she died, she is still very much alive in my heart and thoughts. I hope this has helped. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. __________________ I\'m not bigheaded but go here and tell me just how sexy i am [url]\"http://www.faceparty.com/al_the_drunkard\" target=\"_blank\">www.faceparty.com/al_the_drunkard</a><br /><br />War in iraq? Not in my name!<br /><br />Disarm America.

02-21-2002, 09:35 AM	#23
Sazerac Ironworks Moderator Join Date: January 7, 2001 Location: Monroe, LA Age: 60 Posts: 7,387	Dear Dan, I pray that your mom does not suffer, and for you and your family's strength in this very difficult time. My heart and spirit goes out to you, my friend. __________________ "And all my days are trances, and all my nightly dreams, Are where thy grey eye glances, and where thy footstep gleams, In what ethereal dances, by what eternal streams..."

02-21-2002, 10:19 AM	#25
Yorick Very Mad Bird Join Date: January 7, 2001 Location: Breukelen (over the river from New Amsterdam) Age: 52 Posts: 9,246	quote: Originally posted by Ziroc: Just wanted to keep you updated on how everything is going: Yesterday she had a VERY bad day, and cried saying "I know I'm going to die now" but we calmed her down, and we have given her even stronger meds, but that, along with 3 Oxy-Contin (100mg) and she is still moaning. Today lot's of people came by, and we all stayed with her. The Minister gave her 'last rites' just incase something happens tonight. She is sleeping now-still moaning/grunting, but sleeping better.. Since yesterday she has been really incoherent.. closed eyes, saying things from her past, singing. But she is resting, atleast she isn't suffering. She will be in a better place soon, and I know that-she is very religious and always read her bible and prayer book. It's hard guys, but I'm doing ok, Donna and my Sister are here, we're taking care of her. She may pass soon (maybe even tomorrow morning) but you can't tell with cancer. it's so horrible. I'm glad you guys are here too, I'll need ya! Praying for you Dan. __________________ http://www.hughwilson.com

02-21-2002, 11:01 AM	#27
Talthyr Malkaviel Ma'at - Goddess of Truth & Justice Join Date: August 31, 2001 Location: Land of the Britons Age: 37 Posts: 3,224	All my condolences to you and your whole family Dan, it must be horrendous. All the best to you and you family. __________________ Resident cantankerous sorcerer of the Clan HADB<br />and Sorcerous Nuttella salesman of the O.R.T<br /> <br /><br />Say NO to the Trouser Tyranny! Can I drill you about this?

02-21-2002, 11:20 AM	#29
Scronan Zhentarim Guard Join Date: January 7, 2001 Location: Washington State Posts: 315	Dan, My deepest condolences my friend, and I wish your family the best with your mother's transition. I'll send a prayer for you all today. Scronan __________________ Member of No Clans, Groups or Organizations.<br />But an all around nice guy.

02-21-2002, 09:30 AM	#22
Legolas Jack Burton Join Date: March 31, 2001 Location: The zephyr lands beneath the brine. Age: 39 Posts: 5,459	I know these are hard times for you Dan, after all, I''ve lost my mother to cancer as well, but I'm glad you are able to take comfort in smaller things and hopes. After your mother dies, remember her with love, and do not be afraid to cry. It's all I can offer, but for my support and prayers. You and your family are in my thoughts

02-21-2002, 10:10 AM	#24
Neb Account deleted by Request Join Date: May 17, 2001 Location: . Age: 38 Posts: 8,802	Dan, my sympathies go out to you and your family, and my prayers as well. Patrick

02-21-2002, 10:57 AM	#26
J'aran Mephistopheles Join Date: December 12, 2001 Location: Fryslân, The Netherlands Age: 44 Posts: 1,493	I too wish you, your mother and the rest of your family strength in these tough times.

02-21-2002, 11:17 AM	#28
Jorath Calar Harper Join Date: October 6, 2001 Location: Iceland Posts: 4,706	I am sorry to hear this, I send you my prayer.

02-21-2002, 11:23 AM	#30
norompanlasolas Avatar Join Date: November 13, 2001 Location: madrid, spain... made in argentina Age: 47 Posts: 569	im really sorry for all of your family. all the best. __________________ no

Currently Active Users Viewing This Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)

Similar Threads
Thread	Thread Starter	Forum	Replies	Last Post
Tech Help: Is My CD-ROM Dying?	Albromor	General Discussion	4	07-31-2005 02:47 PM
Oh... so THAT's why it's been dying...	Bungleau	General Conversation Archives (11/2000 - 01/2005)	10	10-28-2003 03:43 PM
If you were dying to know....	Chewbacca	General Conversation Archives (11/2000 - 01/2005)	14	09-29-2003 02:10 PM
Is my computor dying???? :(	Sir Goulum	General Conversation Archives (11/2000 - 01/2005)	17	09-12-2002 03:58 AM
I'm dying help me	solomin	Baldurs Gate & Tales of the Sword Coast	2	10-15-2000 04:16 AM