Would you 'fight' for your own happiness in love?

[Yorick]

Originally posted by johnny: quote: Originally posted by Yorick: quote: Originally posted by johnny: it's impossible to control your feelings when it comes to love

Except that true love involves an element of choice. [/QUOTE]Maybe in a way, but you never know when you meet your true love. It's not like you can say: okay, today i'm gonna find my one and true love. That's something you have no say in, it just happens. [/QUOTE]Does it? Or when it happens, is it because you've chosen to let it happen?

[johnny]

originally posted by Yorick Does it? Or when it happens, is it because you've chosen to let it happen?

I guess you always have a choice to let something happen or not, but when it does you still don't know if it's true love. It's something that has to grow, it happens...or it doesn't, simple.

Love at first sight doesn't work for me. You can meet someone, have a one-night stand, and that's it. But that's not love. There you have a choice, but not when it comes to actually falling in love. Can you control those feelings ? Cause if you do you must have some kind of generator at the place where your heart should be.