Cloudy's Cafe, a conversation zone, October 22, 2004 - Page 15

Dave_the_quack · 10-29-2004, 01:33 PM

Do any of you know what it feels like to truly hate someone? I feel like I am well on my way to getting there. Im not talking about any mass group of people... this is individual hate.

My relationship with my ex has just reached boiling point. He took my love, friends, money and has left with little or noone. Then he tells me two days ago that he wants to cut all contact, and that we cannot be friends.

Then, to top it all off, he decides to spend the majority of last night (we all went clubbing) with my best friend, Phil. This was crap for two reasons

1 - I have two friends left. One spent the night with the person who has caused me the most pain ive ever felt

2 - Phil was supposed to be "backup" for the night. I had no backup. Bah.

I know this may or may not be inappropriate for IW... but I have to vent and I have no ears listening. Sorry.

Xen · 10-29-2004, 01:37 PM

Yeah I get that feeling sometimes. It just sucks. Be strong Dave.

RoSs_bg2_rox · 10-29-2004, 01:38 PM

Jees Dave, that truly does suck! Im routing for you man...this guy sounds like a bit of an idiot. Have you tried talking with him and telling him what he is doing to you? Maybe it would be better to just cut all contact the way things are going...

Dave_the_quack · 10-29-2004, 01:43 PM

Thats what I'm thinking. But I really want to call him and blow up. Before I lose my mind. Pity it is 3:37am. I hate night shift... it makes you wallow lol

I want to stab him in the eye with a blunt rusty spoon.

And then tell him to stay away from Phil. Trouble is, Phil went with him on his own accord. Damn it all I say, damn it all!

Thanks for the support guys.

RoSs_bg2_rox · 10-29-2004, 01:55 PM

I think you should also tell Phil about what is going on, he will probably stick with you then. And Heh, you don't like the guy...right? Well just call him now, give him a nice awakening...I know I would be chuffed if someone phoned me at 4am!

Dave_the_quack · 10-29-2004, 02:17 PM

I'm bitter, but not that bitter Ross

It does sound fun, though

Problem is, if I did do that, things would just get worse.

javan · 10-29-2004, 07:09 PM

Dave, if you want to rant sometime I'm sure that you will find sympathetic ears at IW.

I also work shifts and do not like to call people at 3 o’clock in the morning as well. In your case it would just aggravate the situation.

Stay strong and you will get through it… unfortunately it may take some time first

Cloudbringer · 10-30-2004, 01:25 AM

Dave, sounds like you'd be less stressed without the ex in your life, in the long run!

Ahh, Friday night and I need to get some sleep, see you all later!

Xen · 10-30-2004, 06:24 AM

Afternoon all. I'm still trying to get my Thunderbird to work but to no avail.

My cousin comes on lunch today and I am thinking of going to the cinema. Is there any movie that you would recommend? (Don't recommend Van Helsing tough, I've seen it already last week)

Dave_the_quack · 10-30-2004, 09:32 AM

Hey all. On my second night shift... feeling MUCH better than last night. Thanks for the support heh... good ole IW is great for it. How is everyone?

We just watched the forgotten, with Julianne Moore. Not bad, I kept getting interrupted so I missed about half of it I reckon. Some really freaky-deaky scenes though. Give it a watch, Xen.

10-29-2004, 01:38 PM	#143
RoSs_bg2_rox Zartan Join Date: May 20, 2003 Location: Near Aberdeen, Scotland Age: 34 Posts: 5,225	Jees Dave, that truly does suck! Im routing for you man...this guy sounds like a bit of an idiot. Have you tried talking with him and telling him what he is doing to you? Maybe it would be better to just cut all contact the way things are going... __________________ [img]\"http://img.ranchoweb.com/images/ladyzekke/dragonwater2.gif\" alt=\" - \" />

10-29-2004, 01:55 PM	#145
RoSs_bg2_rox Zartan Join Date: May 20, 2003 Location: Near Aberdeen, Scotland Age: 34 Posts: 5,225	I think you should also tell Phil about what is going on, he will probably stick with you then. And Heh, you don't like the guy...right? Well just call him now, give him a nice awakening...I know I would be chuffed if someone phoned me at 4am! __________________ [img]\"http://img.ranchoweb.com/images/ladyzekke/dragonwater2.gif\" alt=\" - \" />

10-29-2004, 07:09 PM	#147
javan Zhentarim Guard Join Date: September 5, 2003 Location: Canada Age: 65 Posts: 396	Dave, if you want to rant sometime I'm sure that you will find sympathetic ears at IW. I also work shifts and do not like to call people at 3 o’clock in the morning as well. In your case it would just aggravate the situation. Stay strong and you will get through it… unfortunately it may take some time first __________________ When the going gets tough, the bard goes drinking- Bard's Tale

10-30-2004, 01:25 AM	#148
Cloudbringer Ironworks Moderator Join Date: March 1, 2001 Location: Upstate NY USA Posts: 19,737	Dave, sounds like you'd be less stressed without the ex in your life, in the long run! Ahh, Friday night and I need to get some sleep, see you all later! __________________ "Don't take life for granted." Animal (may he rest in peace)

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10-29-2004, 01:33 PM	#141
Dave_the_quack Baaz Draconian Join Date: August 22, 2004 Location: Sydney, Australia. Age: 39 Posts: 737	Do any of you know what it feels like to truly hate someone? I feel like I am well on my way to getting there. Im not talking about any mass group of people... this is individual hate. My relationship with my ex has just reached boiling point. He took my love, friends, money and has left with little or noone. Then he tells me two days ago that he wants to cut all contact, and that we cannot be friends. Then, to top it all off, he decides to spend the majority of last night (we all went clubbing) with my best friend, Phil. This was crap for two reasons 1 - I have two friends left. One spent the night with the person who has caused me the most pain ive ever felt 2 - Phil was supposed to be "backup" for the night. I had no backup. Bah. I know this may or may not be inappropriate for IW... but I have to vent and I have no ears listening. Sorry.

10-29-2004, 01:37 PM	#142
Xen Symbol of Moradin Join Date: June 5, 2002 Location: Slovenia,Ljubljana Age: 36 Posts: 8,554	Yeah I get that feeling sometimes. It just sucks. Be strong Dave.

10-29-2004, 01:43 PM	#144
Dave_the_quack Baaz Draconian Join Date: August 22, 2004 Location: Sydney, Australia. Age: 39 Posts: 737	Thats what I'm thinking. But I really want to call him and blow up. Before I lose my mind. Pity it is 3:37am. I hate night shift... it makes you wallow lol I want to stab him in the eye with a blunt rusty spoon. And then tell him to stay away from Phil. Trouble is, Phil went with him on his own accord. Damn it all I say, damn it all! Thanks for the support guys.

10-29-2004, 02:17 PM	#146
Dave_the_quack Baaz Draconian Join Date: August 22, 2004 Location: Sydney, Australia. Age: 39 Posts: 737	I'm bitter, but not that bitter Ross It does sound fun, though Problem is, if I did do that, things would just get worse.

10-30-2004, 06:24 AM	#149
Xen Symbol of Moradin Join Date: June 5, 2002 Location: Slovenia,Ljubljana Age: 36 Posts: 8,554	Afternoon all. I'm still trying to get my Thunderbird to work but to no avail. My cousin comes on lunch today and I am thinking of going to the cinema. Is there any movie that you would recommend? (Don't recommend Van Helsing tough, I've seen it already last week)

10-30-2004, 09:32 AM	#150
Dave_the_quack Baaz Draconian Join Date: August 22, 2004 Location: Sydney, Australia. Age: 39 Posts: 737	Hey all. On my second night shift... feeling MUCH better than last night. Thanks for the support heh... good ole IW is great for it. How is everyone? We just watched the forgotten, with Julianne Moore. Not bad, I kept getting interrupted so I missed about half of it I reckon. Some really freaky-deaky scenes though. Give it a watch, Xen.

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