08-12-2004, 08:06 PM | #1 |
Jack Burton
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When one that you love wants to leave you for someone else? When they think they can do better elsewhere. Do you get on and replace them with someone new? Or do you give up?
And if they change their mind, can you ever really trust them again? Or will you be forever watching them, wondering if they are thinking they could do better elsewhere? Wondering if they really love you? For me there is no way back - no second chance! Call me hard but for me there is only one true love - there is no choice, I can never change and I would never want to! It's the Real thing! Time to move him on in good time!
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08-12-2004, 09:24 PM | #3 |
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Well, all I can say is get a group hug...and generally IWF provides that!
:::encourages people to give Donut a group hug:::
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08-12-2004, 09:56 PM | #4 |
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I've found it depends on whether I was ready to let go. I remember one vacation where I came back and every trace of her was gone; not quite the most subtle way to say it's over. It took several weeks before I could accept that it was done and move on.
I also recall another relationship where I was looking for an excuse to end it. That being said, one of the best relationships I ever had was a second-time-around. She dumped me several years before, and when we eventually got back together, I found out that the reason she dumped me was because one of her friends said I was two-timing (with the friend). I wasn't, but who was she going to believe? The new boyfriend, or the long-time friend? We put that behind us, but alas, in my immaturity, I eventually did two-time her, and that brought the end of it. For good; I haven't seen or heard from her in a long, long, time. :sniff: Lost her once because of rumour, twice because of stupidity. Perhaps from her perspective, it was the same thing both times. All I can say is that I learned from it, hard though the lesson was.
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08-12-2004, 10:01 PM | #5 |
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it depends on how you feel about this person before saying it is not going to happen again. if there is good feelings, perhaps you should let them see what is out there, and give them a little time, I am not saying for very long, perhaps a week at most, and let them decide if it is over or not.
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