letting go

[250]

lol,

Harkoliar... lol

[Ronn_Bman]

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Originally posted by 250:
I can love her as a sister, a friend, or just someone I simply love. then why push me away?

I "have been a good person" to her, she said. so that is the reason why I should go away, because she "doesnt deserve" me. How pitiful those words sound at her moment of weakness, I almost felt sorry for her. I realized that it is herself creating her own misery. How sorry is that when someone cannot enjoy another's love? It is funny that it somehow adds spices for I couldn't help but to feel the need to love her more. To drive away her pains.

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Dude, I've posted before about trying to be honest to yourself, and again, I don't want to seem harsh, but "the writing is on the wall."

She says she "doesn't deserve" you? That's like saying, "I just want to be friends." Usually, when a lady tells you that she means she doesn't want a relationship at all. Friends, in the sense that she doesn't want any harsh feelings, not in the sense she wants a close friendship. More of a smile and saying "hi" when you pass on the street.

I know that sounds rough, and I don't know her personally, but if the shoe fits... Dwelling on her won't make her want you more or help you need/want her less. Sometimes relationships aren't meant to be, no matter how much we want them.

Good Luck and be careful you don't miss "her" so much that you miss out on other opportunities

In order to move on in life, you have to move on with life.