10-25-2002, 01:16 AM | #1 |
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now first thing, i'm still in highschool, and i just came back from a dance. the thing was awesome, but one problem... my friend came by and told me that one of the girls wanted to go out with me, but i wasn't really attracted to her... so i'm ashamed to say, i just sort of avoided her for the dance.
the question.. what is the nice thing to say? if a girl wants to go out, but you don't, what can i say that won't make her sad, or mad, or whatever?
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10-25-2002, 01:22 AM | #2 |
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You know what, it's too bad Arledrian has gone tipsy, 'cause he was really good at providing answers regarding relationships with women(or their fledglings)
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10-25-2002, 01:25 AM | #3 |
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Get so drunk that you can't even see what she looks like? No, I'm just kidding. I think it'd be best if you just tell her straight up that you're not interested in a relationship with anyone at the moment. Just say you don't feel ready for commitment in general; that way you're excused and you're not offending her in any way, because it's a general comment; all you're saying is that you don't want to be attached at the moment. I think that's a perfectly valid reason. Just don't give yourself away by going out with another girl in the next few weeks or so...
EDIT: Thanks, Nanobyte [img]smile.gif[/img] I'm quite sober now, I can assure you... [ 10-25-2002, 01:27 AM: Message edited by: Arledrian ] |
10-25-2002, 02:02 AM | #4 | |
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But hey I'm sure you'll be rejected many times in the future so it'll all even out Hmm I prefer drunk Alex actually [img]graemlins/agree.gif[/img] . Where's your kewl sig gone? [img]graemlins/wiggle.gif[/img]
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10-25-2002, 02:07 AM | #5 |
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First; do you know for certain that she likes you, or is it a case of "he said she said"?
Second; if she really does like you, there is little chance of turning her down without her feeling sad, mad or whatever. Third; (I have to agree with Arledrian) tell her you're not interested in dating or having a relationship with anyone at the momment and make sure she doesn't see you going out with someone else any time soon after.
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10-25-2002, 02:13 AM | #6 |
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alright, i guess i'll try these things, thanks for the help!
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10-25-2002, 04:47 AM | #8 |
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How about the truth ? Tell her you're not interrested, it's simple really.
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