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For me, the answer to that question is in a request: receipt, please. I collect receipts from all electronic transactions and dump them when they're no longer needed. To make life easier, I have two transaction receipt folders: current year and prior year. Every January PY gets shredded and CY moves to PY. If ever I need anything, it's in there.
I made the switch to a credit union years ago, prompted by my bank and fees. They hit me with a bunch of fees one month, the month we were looking to buy our first house. There was a timing issue that I hadn't realized that resulted in both my checking and savings accounts being below the bank's minimums at one point during the month. I called them to task on it, and they went through and explained some of the fees. There was some amount of fee left un-explained, and I remember that it ended in a nickel -- 4.95, 10.15... I don't know. But the last digit was a five. And they did not have a *SINGLE* fee that ended in a 5! Everything ended in dimes... so there was no mathematical way they could have created that fee! And when the VP dumbly asked "Would you like us to refund that", I said "Yes".... of course. And then left the bank to go open an account at the credit union our company was affiliated with. Last time I used a bank. My boss said I should have responded, "No. Refund them all, or I'll move my business elsewhere". Don't know if it would have helped, but it would have gotten the message across. So what does this support in this thread? Nothing, I'm sure... other than the same type of attitude. And voting with your feet... just because you have mortgages or credit cards with them doesn't mean you have to stay. Even today, credit cards are easily available... even at your local credit union ![]()
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Yet, at times, they have not done me the same courtesy. I want to stay, but I don't want to be fucked because I wanna use their services. I keep receipts of important purchases, and (I like to think) recent small ones are in the house somewhere, but not for every single time I swipe a card, no. Some places don't give you receipts on small items. They look at you in horror if you ask for one. It's just not practical. I ain't saying it's not right , I'm saying it just doesn't work like that. I know what I could do, but I just think it sux, is all. Either ways, it's not like WF is the only bank that screws their customers over. I could go and start fresh elsewhere only to discover the same practices - or even worse, new ones.
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It's a trade-off of convenience. And for reference, I've got accounts at two credit unions (one personal, one business), two different credit cards (affiliated with neither CU), a mortgage (originated at a CU, but owned by someone else), and two vehicle loans (with one of the CUs).
I can also handle everything on-line with these financial institutions. I can check balances, move money, pay bills, see history... the works. It does require multiple web sites, but that's my trade-off for convenience. Neither right nor wrong... just a trade-off. I will say, however, that the CU is much more likely, IMHO, to recognize me as an individual than a bank is. When I went to sell my first house after moving out here, my boss had a $2000 money order that he loaned to me to complete the payment. How and why he had it, I have no clue ![]() With a bank, I would have expected a "Sorry... we have to follow the rules". With my CU, it was evaluating the transaction, evaluating me, and bending. I don't believe I'd get the same "bend" with a bank unless I had a substantial (as in well more than $100,000) amount of assets with them. And "assets" would be cash and perhaps mortgages, I'm thinking... credit cards are not noteworthy enough for them to considering bending the rules. Bending the *customer*, in a different way... well, that's what the OP is about, isn't it? ![]()
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I am courteous of others, but I don't let cashiers intimidate me into not asking for receipt and I don't let other customers intimidate me into NOT taking the few seconds required to write the transaction in my checkbook. Saying it isn't practical is just an excuse. The only thing that isn't practical is leaving the responsibility of recording transactions to your financial institution.
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So I disagree on the fact that saying it isn't practical is an excuse. It is not practical. It may be cautious. It may be wise. But it ain't practical given the world we live in now. And again, it ain't your fault a better way cannot be achieved. Overall, what I am bitching about is if I trust these people with my money, as so many millions do, why should I always be second guessing them and keeping my own tabs on it to the penny? I'm not being naive. I know I must do the best I can - and from the sounds of it you take more time on it than I do, but again...doesn't it just suck that we have to be so vigilant to the point where our methods delay us and rub people the wrong way?
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So perhaps I should clarify that I write down all non-cash transactions, because whether I write a check or use my debit card, the funds come from the same account and I want to make sure I don't "spend" more than I have left. With cash, I can't spend more than I have left, so I don't need to record every transaction. However, I DO have ALL the receipts for almost every purchase I've made (especially regarding the boys) since my divorce 4 years ago. I keep them in envelopes for each month. Quote:
Sorry, but the implied guilt-trip mentality simply does not work on me. As you said, it is NOT my fault you are in a hurry to get somewhere else. If you're in that big of a hurry, you should have left the house sooner. I'm not going to risk forgetting to write a transaction down (and possible incur fees from my bank) because the people in line are too impatient to wait the 20-30 seconds it takes for me to do that. It may seem callous, but your frustration is NOT my problem. ("you" meaning other customers in general, not you specifically) Does it suck that I have to be so vigilant about how much money I have in the bank? No. It's MY responsibility to keep up with it. After all, nobody is going to care how much money I have left NEARLY as much as I will. Several years ago, I discovered my insurance company had mistakenly charged an accident to my policy that I never had and I had been paying increased premiums for almost 3 years because of it. I didn't notice it earlier because I HAD gotten several traffic tickets in a two-year span that also increased my premium, so I thought it was because of the tickets. When I discovered the mistake, I had to go back myself to provide "proof" I never had the accident being charged against me. This was before the internet, so it took some legwork and a number of phone calls, but I DID provide the documentation and received a retroactive refund for the full amount I had overpaid. (actually, they just applied the resulting credit against my next premium payment, but it was the same thing). I understand how busy life can get and, despite my diligence, I DO forget to write down a check every now and then. Therefore, I always use carbon checks so I have a copy in hand, just in case.
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Heh... holy war, take two...
I don't disagree with your decisions or perspective, SW. What works for you works for you, simply put. Being a different person, I sometimes make different decisions. When I switched to my credit union years ago, they had a policy where they would automatically take money from savings and put it into checking if you had an overdraft. At no charge ![]() It took me a while, but a friend explained that's why she *never* kept money in checking... all in savings, and the CU would take it out when needed. They've changed over the years... they now charge $3 for each adjustment they need to make. But it's one adjustment per day... if I have ten checks, they add 'em up and charge me $3. So I no longer keep everything in savings... but don't get dinged badly if there's less in checking than is needed. Noting your location stating Ireland, I have no clue if there are CUs over there. S'pose I could google it to find out, but I'm lazy right now ![]() As for the lady taking forever to balance her checkbook, I have an issue with that as well. And there are ways around it (of course ![]() I confess I haven't written in a check register for years... at least a decade, and almost two. When I started using Quicken (and its predecessors) for finances, I realized I was doing the same thing in two places... and making *more* mistakes in the checkbook. I stopped writing in the checkbook, switching over to duplicate checks so I don't have to remember what was written. BTW, when I first started using accounting software (Moneycounts, way before Quicken), I found a mistake in the first three months. My bank at the time had not cleared a deposit I made. First reconciliation, no big deal. After the second, when it was still outstanding... big question. Brought my receipt to them and in essence, they said, "We had this deposit and couldn't figure out who it belonged to. So we kept it over here, waiting for someone to ask for it." I did. Finally. Had I not known, they would have kept it forever. Yet another reason it pays to get and keep those receipts, annoying though it might be. At the time, that was only a $40 deposit. But based on my bank account at that time, that $40 could have been the difference between a dozen checks bouncing (or not). Sounds like Cerek has to take it up a notch, just to be sure he's armed and prepared for anything with his ex. Sad to say, evidence is sometimes weighed, and not actually read. In either case, he would be covered ![]() And finally, I'm like TL. Cash purchases... meh. Don't care, unless I might need to return it. Credit cards and checks... yep. Onward! No one's right, no one's wrong... and everyone has a take on it ![]()
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Although sometimes I don't have cash on me if I need something in an emergency - even if it's a bottle of water - and I will use my cards or w/e. I also feel it is safer to keep a card on me rather than notes or coins, not because of crime but more so because of a fear of losing/leaving it. With my cards I can just cancel them as soon as I realize and I don't lose any cash. If I lose $100 I can retrace my steps but if I can't find it it's gone forever in the wind. If someone even used my cards fraudulantly I can file a claim and get the charges waivered. If I lose mine I can get another one and a temp. one while I wait for the other to come in. So security, is another big one. Quote:
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