Great Girls... and their boyfriends... and me.

Jorath Calar · 10-24-2002, 08:46 PM

I don't get it, why do I always fall for girls who have boyfriends, there is this girls in my classes,very beuatyful, very funny and just great...and we talk a lot, I knew she was married but tonight I almost kissed her, well we both started it, we were talking and suddenly she stopped and you know we both made that move, thankfully we didn't, but this is not the firsttime it happens (the falling for taken girls part, not the almost kissing part... thats kinda new... and scary [img]smile.gif[/img] ), I can not count the number of times I've fallen in love with girls who had boyfriends. and even if I knew nothing would ever happen. Just suppressed the feeling to a point when I'm ready to explode.
Then for some odd reason single girls regard me as highly as the dirt under their shoes... well most of them. But those who are taken always seem to like me.

Am I sick or something...?

[ 10-24-2002, 08:49 PM: Message edited by: Jorath Calar ]

Attalus · 10-24-2002, 08:52 PM

Well, Jorath, girls in a relationship feel more secure, so are more likely to flirt around. Believe me, I am not stranger to the feeling that "all the good ones are taken", or as a girlfriend of my wife's says, "Dating now is like a mall parking lot at Christmas: all the good ones are taken and all that's left are Handicapped." Don't worry, these great girls, or some of them, will get tired of their boyfriends and you can swoop on in if you have stayed in touch. Believe me, it worked for me.

*\Conan/* · 10-24-2002, 09:09 PM

Whoo slow down Jorath! Sounds very normal to me and your not sick.

Concentrate on doing the things you like and be confident about yourself! Having some things in common is important with a girl..and friendships last longer then a session of great kissing

Get caught up in the person and not just the idea of it. You never know. Sometimes it seemed they all had boyfriends in my past. And they did but didn't stop me from following up with social gatherings with friends that happened to be girls. [img]redface.gif[/img] [img]smile.gif[/img]

My wife had a bf

10-25-2002, 02:49 AM

Jorath, if you had that much of a chance, then chances are they are not 100% sure in their current relationship anyway

don't give up

the new JR Jansen · 10-25-2002, 08:35 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Attalus:
Well, Jorath, girls in a relationship feel more secure, so are more likely to flirt around. Believe me, I am not stranger to the feeling that "all the good ones are taken", or as a girlfriend of my wife's says, "Dating now is like a mall parking lot at Christmas: all the good ones are taken and all that's left are Handicapped." Don't worry, these great girls, or some of them, will get tired of their boyfriends and you can swoop on in if you have stayed in touch. Believe me, it worked for me.

Do you have an issue with handicapped people [img]graemlins/madhell.gif[/img] [img]tongue.gif[/img] ?

[ 10-25-2002, 08:36 AM: Message edited by: the new JR Jansen ]

Epona · 10-25-2002, 08:50 AM

Don't give up.

Think of it this way, it's not possible to 'steal' someone else's girl - she doesn't belong to anyone except herself and makes her own decisions. If she's happy in her relationship, she won't make a move on you. If she's not, then you have nothing to lose by trying.

Hey, when you get to my age, hardly anyone's single. It's very common to move from one relationship to another, no big deal. No-one said you had to be single in between!

The Hunter of Jahanna · 10-25-2002, 08:54 AM

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, I knew she was married but tonight I almost kissed her, well we both started it

Jorath , it isnt nice to try to kiss other peoples wives.If she is separated or in the process of a divorce then that is one thing. If she is still with her husband and they dont have any plans for a split , then that is definately another thing. Breaking up happy homes isnt the way to make friends. Also would you want to date a girl who cheated on her HUSBAND to be with you? Marrage is a much bigger commitment than just dateing , and if she has no respect for that commitment then how can you expect her to respect a commitment to you?? Also , what if she has some crazy psycho husband who wouldnt think twice about rearrangeing you internal organs if he found out about you 2? My advice would be to ditch her. It will be difficult , but it will save you heartache and aggravation in the long run.

Memnoch · 10-25-2002, 09:30 AM

Keep being her friend. If it's meant to happen it will happen, and your relationship (if it happens) will be better for the fact that you have a friendship supporting it. [img]smile.gif[/img]

Attalus · 10-25-2002, 09:34 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by the new JR Jansen:
Do you have an issue with handicapped people [img]graemlins/madhell.gif[/img] [img]tongue.gif[/img] ?

LOL, no, but my wife's girlfriend does.

Bruce The Aussie · 10-25-2002, 09:53 AM

Jorath, consider yourself luckey there are alot of nice girls around where you are. where I live there are nearly no nice girls. its very infuriating. [img]smile.gif[/img]

also disabled people rock! (says the semi-disabled guy [img]tongue.gif[/img] )

10-24-2002, 08:52 PM	#2
Attalus Symbol of Bane Join Date: November 26, 2001 Location: Texas Age: 76 Posts: 8,167	Well, Jorath, girls in a relationship feel more secure, so are more likely to flirt around. Believe me, I am not stranger to the feeling that "all the good ones are taken", or as a girlfriend of my wife's says, "Dating now is like a mall parking lot at Christmas: all the good ones are taken and all that's left are Handicapped." Don't worry, these great girls, or some of them, will get tired of their boyfriends and you can swoop on in if you have stayed in touch. Believe me, it worked for me. __________________ Even Heroes sometimes fail...

10-24-2002, 09:09 PM	#3
\Conan/ Red Dragon Join Date: March 1, 2001 Location: Virginia, USA Age: 63 Posts: 1,512	Whoo slow down Jorath! Sounds very normal to me and your not sick. Concentrate on doing the things you like and be confident about yourself! Having some things in common is important with a girl..and friendships last longer then a session of great kissing Get caught up in the person and not just the idea of it. You never know. Sometimes it seemed they all had boyfriends in my past. And they did but didn't stop me from following up with social gatherings with friends that happened to be girls. [img]redface.gif[/img] [img]smile.gif[/img] My wife had a bf __________________ \\Conan/
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10-25-2002, 08:50 AM	#6
Epona Zartan Join Date: March 1, 2001 Location: London, England Age: 54 Posts: 5,164	Don't give up. Think of it this way, it's not possible to 'steal' someone else's girl - she doesn't belong to anyone except herself and makes her own decisions. If she's happy in her relationship, she won't make a move on you. If she's not, then you have nothing to lose by trying. Hey, when you get to my age, hardly anyone's single. It's very common to move from one relationship to another, no big deal. No-one said you had to be single in between! __________________ [img]\"http://www.wizardrealm.com/images/epona.gif\" alt=\" - \" />

10-25-2002, 09:30 AM	#8
Memnoch Ironworks Moderator Join Date: February 28, 2001 Location: Boston/Sydney Posts: 11,771	Keep being her friend. If it's meant to happen it will happen, and your relationship (if it happens) will be better for the fact that you have a friendship supporting it. [img]smile.gif[/img] __________________

10-25-2002, 09:53 AM	#10
Bruce The Aussie Fzoul Chembryl Join Date: March 2, 2001 Location: Chaotica (london,england) Age: 39 Posts: 1,798	Jorath, consider yourself luckey there are alot of nice girls around where you are. where I live there are nearly no nice girls. its very infuriating. [img]smile.gif[/img] also disabled people rock! (says the semi-disabled guy [img]tongue.gif[/img] ) __________________ [img]\"http://members.aol.com/lasttrueprincess/images/bruce.gif\" alt=\" - \" /><br />Have a nice day <img border=\"0\" title=\"\" alt=\"[Big Grin]\" src=\"biggrin.gif\" /> <br />cloudkingdom.co.uk<br />\"be calm, be happy, be stoned\"<br />The person currently speaking is(tick appropriate): Me/My inner child/the voices in my head/my inner demons

10-24-2002, 08:46 PM	#1
Jorath Calar Harper Join Date: October 6, 2001 Location: Iceland Posts: 4,706	I don't get it, why do I always fall for girls who have boyfriends, there is this girls in my classes,very beuatyful, very funny and just great...and we talk a lot, I knew she was married but tonight I almost kissed her, well we both started it, we were talking and suddenly she stopped and you know we both made that move, thankfully we didn't, but this is not the firsttime it happens (the falling for taken girls part, not the almost kissing part... thats kinda new... and scary [img]smile.gif[/img] ), I can not count the number of times I've fallen in love with girls who had boyfriends. and even if I knew nothing would ever happen. Just suppressed the feeling to a point when I'm ready to explode. Then for some odd reason single girls regard me as highly as the dirt under their shoes... well most of them. But those who are taken always seem to like me. Am I sick or something...? [ 10-24-2002, 08:49 PM: Message edited by: Jorath Calar ]

10-25-2002, 02:49 AM	#4
Lord Shield Guest Posts: n/a	Jorath, if you had that much of a chance, then chances are they are not 100% sure in their current relationship anyway don't give up

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