Twofiffee, you sound stressed a lot lately in several threads. Is this relationship emotionally healthy for you? I'd say no. You have put a lot of effort into it, but I do not hear much about return effort to you. If you do not feel she cares for you as much as you do for her, and this feeling has been going on for a while because of several circumstances, then most likely you are right. Don't bang your head against the wall 250, do what is best for YOU friend
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