[Cloudbringer]

Hey coyote, one thing I was thinking about- you may not want to rush right into doing something alone with your oldest daughter first thing. It might feel kind of awkward and at her age she might be more comfortable meeting what for her is basically a stranger for the first few times if others were there.

Might be easier to sort of 'break the ice' a little with the various things suggested before you do anything one on one. That way there are more people to kind of keep the conversation going and you won't have to feel so nervous. I don't mean get a whole crowd together, LOL, just a few people, maybe even just stormy and the other kids. [img]smile.gif[/img]

Listen to your current sweetie.. she's right.. just talk to your daughter like anyone you'd meet for the first time. [img]smile.gif[/img]