Moridin:
I am so glad to hear that you're in couples therapy. I think it really can help to have an objective person listening and observing. Probably the hardest part will be being patient--Rome wasn't built in one therapy session. I'm sure it is disheartening for your wife to say that she isn't sure if she wants to committ or not, but her willing to go for therapy is a good sign. All marriages go through rough spots--some rought than others. I personally don't know of anyone who hasn't thought about divorce at some point (if they have been married long enough). I can truly say that the rough times my husband and I have been through have only, in the long run, made us more committed.
If you don't mind, I wish you would keep me posted on how things are progressing (I don't mean to seem nosy). I'm pulling for you and I really care.
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Reeka--The Hand of Death
