Thread: The Depression
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Old 03-10-2001, 11:24 AM   #22
Moiraine
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Join Date: March 1, 2001
Location: Up in the Freedomland Alps
Age: 59
Posts: 2,474
Griever, one thing : If you do not feel confident about yourself, why assume that she is confident about herself ? I mean, I have gone through what you now experience, more than once, and it seems to me now that the mistake I have always made at such times was thinking that the man I was in love with was much more confident than I myself was. Maybe you are both waiting for the other to take a decisive step, and she will feel hurt if you don't ?
I remember once, I fell in love with a guy, and for almost a year he never made a step but everywhere I went, he was around. Everywhere ! I could have screamed ! At the time, I thought, if he never invites me, it is because he doesn't want to go out with me, now, 15 years later, what I think is, what if he never dared make the step ?
Am I making sense here ? Tell me guys !

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