GM: Soft touch, you! While I've never played a male pc, thus never had those romances, I have read the same thing you mentioned about waiting. However, what exactly was her reply? If it was "I'll never bring it up again" she may mean it. That was one of 3 or 4 options with the Anomen romance line.
Good luck...er, you know what I meant!
CB
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StormCloud of the Black Knight