There is somewhere you can find a walkthrough for the romances but I really can't remember where. I'll go look for it and then post the link.
Got it! I couldn't get the exact link because it needs to be downloaded, but there is a link on the page. It's a walkthrough for Jaheira, Viconia and Aerie and it is good.
http://www.sorcerers.net/Games/BG2/index_tips.htm
[This message has been edited by Mel (edited 09-23-2001).]