hmm...
maybe i've dated too many women, but the major females in the game all seem to be one archetype or another that i've known.
aerie - the innocent who needs a protector and trusts implicitly and would be whatever you wanted her to be
jaheira - needs a "partner" more than a "lover", like a best friend you occassionally have sex with
viconia - bad childhood/mean boyfriends but really wants to believe there is good in the world
nalia - sublimates her passion into other areas; in this case, charity. while i don't want to be chauvanistic, i'm hard pressed not to think of her as a lesbian (i totally think she'd go for someone like raelis)
the first time i played i was truly hoping i could reverse bodhi's vampirism (there were some hints at this being possible along the way). aerie's whining, jaheira's bossiness, and viconia's bitchiness were too excessive for my tastes, so i chose ambition+sexiness
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